I live in a small town of like 700 people. I have went out with a grade 12 girl for about say 3 months on and off cause there are always problems, but now she is great and will do anything for me. But I can't get over what she's done to me in the past. So I broke up with her on Friday night and asked out another girl on Saturday. She has alot of feelings for me and loves me very much. Girl #2 is so nice and in grade 10. She has more in common with me like snowboarding, the outdoors and music and my parents agree with this cause they get along really well. Girl #1 has more of an intellectual side and is more assertive and likes to debate, but my parnts do not have a good enough relationship with her. Girl #1 is trying so hard to keep me again, but I wonder if it'll work out going to different colleges next year and all. Girl#2 will be here with my family in the same town. I think that I need to experience more than one girlfriend in my life and that girl #2 has something to offer. Girl #1 sais that she won't be my friend if I go out with #2. What do you think I should do. Is Girl #2 fair game and should I experience more in life to learn? Or should I stay with the chance I have with girl #1? I think since #1 was my first relationship I should get out there and try something new before it got too serious. Thanx in advance for your help guys and girls.

Ill take a number 1 with coke.



[This message has been edited by bushy (edited 02-17-2004).]

girl 2

You're in grade 12 and you're having trouble deciding between a girl in grade 12 and a girl in grade 10???

And what's worse going out with a girl in a different university or going out with a girl in high school? Either way, you'll be separated.

-Nocuous

quote:Originally posted by nocuous:

You're in grade 12 and you're having trouble deciding between a girl in grade 12 and a girl in grade 10???

And what's worse going out with a girl in a different university or going out with a girl in high school? Either way, you'll be separated.

-Nocuous

Way to think outside the box.

Girl # 1 is your best bet.

Girl 1, seriously tho, girl 2 will bug the shit outa u because she still hasnt finished growing up yet. Girl number 1 is assertive and intelligent, which means if she wants a fuck...ull kno about it. Long distance aint so bad, ive done it once b4 cos my gf moved, it didnt last but that was like 2 years ago(i was 14) but dont always weight the pros and cons of a relationship on the fact u have similar interests, girl 2's interests may change as she gets 2 ur age, girl 1 on the other hand is almost done in life's oven.

Seems the only difference is maturity levels. Girl #2 is going to "worship" you in a starry-eyed sense, while Girl #1 is more on your level and more experienced with life.

So girl #1 did something screwy, owned up to it, and made amends. Thus you know she has that in her. But you're not looking to get married, so this may be irrelevant.

You have no idea how Girl #2 will act in a trying time. And, from what I've seen, the big "maturity jump" seems to happen during that summer between 10th/11th grade, so Girl #2 might end up seeming more like Girl #1.

Since you're looking ahead to university time, it is likely that going to college will put a rift between you and ANY girl you knew from high school. Reconsider taking any gf baggage with you at all.

Experiencing change is good and necessary. Planning to be tied down to one or the other beyond the summer seems counter-productive, though.