woah looky here, im back and we're still up to the same questions.

man i miss totse.com, ive been so busy lately i forgot about you guys..

anyways...ok so my gf has been wanting to give me a handjob for a while, but when ever we get a chance to do something, im always fingering her or something and then she'll kinda start on me but never finish cause shes getting too much pleasure from me, one time, she kinda stopped me and was like no, i never do anything for you, and i want to, and i was like..its ok if yuo dont want to..buuuut..ok, then right RIGHT after that she had to leave. er so yea now we dont ever get much a chance to do stuff but, what do i do...should i jsut wait until it happens or should i be blunt and all and say oh so yea, wanna give me a handjob???. i love this girl, i do. or to my standards i do, and id never do anything to urt or to be mean to her and being blunt seems mean to me.

any suggestions??

If communication is being mean then maybe you should reassess your view point. There's really no other way besides being blunt to tell her you want some lovin.

Don't do it in the middle of making out though. Mention it in a casual conversation if the topic starts leading into sexual activity.

Or you can just put her hand on your dick. I'm absent-minded (and ocassionally selfish) so my boyfriend does it frequently.

[This message has been edited by MrMojoRisin (edited 02-17-2004).]

Stop being a FUCK.

Um...that was a little blunt, but seriously. It sounds like you are scared of getting anything yourself. Next time, get your handjob/blowjob first.

yes be blunt, and try to carefully go for a blowjob instead of a handjob, it's way better, and why wouldn't she, it's a little thing after she got al that from you

One sentence:

"Get your hand round this darlin'!"

Works for me!

just fuck her. learn how to use your fingers and blue ball her until she caves in.