Actually I've got two questions in this post.

1. I've noticed a vicious cycle that's been happening probably since 7th grade. The cycle starts with me not having any girlfriends, and no girls like me. Unfortunatly, this is the majority of this pattern. Then at least 4 or 5 girls start liking me at once, as if they planned it. This is tough on me, and I end up picking one, losing her after a short period, and then all the other girls don't like me anymore. I am left with no girls and the cycle begins all over...

I'm serious about this pattern. It never fails. Right now I just fucked things up with a girl (I'm an idiot...I chose to drive home drunk instead of hooking up with her. Long story.)

My question is, why does this cycle exist? I've remained fairly consistant both physically (the way I look) and mentality (my personality) so why does it happen?

2. My next question deals with something I've noticed with times I don't fuck up with a girl then sometimes they just stop liking me. I do absolutely NOTHING different, and it's as if one day she just decides to stop liking me.

How do girl's just STOP liking me, despite me not doing anything different.

That is all.

Sorry for sounding like a pussy,

~Mike

1) The less available you become, the more desirable you are. Don't ask me why this fucking works, but it does. Men buy wedding bands so girls will think he's married, unavailable, and they start to desire you more. Fucked if I know why that happens.

2) Girls hate routine. START doing things differently. Become increasingly more charming and thoughtful as the relationship goes on. Chicks diggit when a guy is spontaneous and unpredictable.

Quit "picking one" girl and instead get to know them all at your leisure. You're a teenager; there's no reason in the world to make commitments when you don't have to.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Quit "picking one" girl and instead get to know them all at your leisure. You're a teenager; there's no reason in the world to make commitments when you don't have to.

That's the usual logic I try to follow...I usually "pick" one girl (damn that sounds concieted) and try to still keep in touch with the others. Out of this I usually get ass...however not a relationship. This is fine, but now I kinda want a girlfriend.

Thanks for the advice,

~mike