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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2004-02-15, 22:29
TheDragon TheDragon is offline
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Default The Next Step

What's the next step one should take if they wanna get involved with a girl. I don't have her number, but we are talking more and more face to face. I haven't asked her out, either (obviously).

See, I don't wanna fuck this relationship up by asking her out too early or asking for her number and getting rejected. I also am trying very hard to NOT become friends.

Logically, I'm thinking I should go for the number or her email or something. I'm not sure though...
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Old 2004-02-15, 22:56
Kingroper3 Kingroper3 is offline
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Ask her number soon, or she might get bored. email would be better though because you can speak more openly on that. ask though, whats the worst that could happen. if you get rejected fuck it and move on to the next girl.

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Old 2004-02-16, 01:14
Mackofett Mackofett is offline
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Ask for her email and her number.

i know that my relationship started via email and proressed rapidly using it but it was only when we started on the phone that things got really serious and all. I just think you need to let her know you are interested in her in more than just a friendly way that way she can tellyo uone way or the other if she is or not!
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Old 2004-02-16, 01:26
aloneandbroken aloneandbroken is offline
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Get her number. If you are worried you could weird things up in the relationship, come up with a reason to get her number. Like if you have a class together, suggest that you might study together, so you would need her number.

Email, in my opinion is a little impersonal. Mackofett can obviously vouche that an email relationship can work, and it may do well for you seeing as you talk face to face a lot, but i think a number is umpteen times better.



You wont screw it up by asking too early. Does she seem interested? If she does, its worth it for sure. But even if she says no, I am sure she wont totally forget about you. If she wants to be friends and not girlfriend, her saying no wont affect her feelings.
 
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