I saw my friend last night (the girl I've been posting about, see my last two posts).

We had oral sex, watched a movie, more oral plus a shower. Yay! But, no.. too much too fast.

This morning she decides that we moved to physical intimacy too fast and we should just be friends for awhile.

I wish I could say I think otherwise, but she is right. There is nothing to us besides physical attraction and the fact we both neurotic and probably both somewhat crazy. Well, we have similar tastes in books and movies and we like dry humor so there is something there. .. but we aren't taking advantage of it.

She just got out of a relationship with a guy who she saw for a year and six months. They waited six months until they had sex, whereas we almost had sex this morning after knowing each other two semesters and seeing each other for four weeks. They were friends before they were lovers and they are still friends. I've never had a relationship like that. I don't know what it's like to know someone like that.

Gah! I need to get away from her for awhile. We can still be friends.

Maybe I am underestimating myself (as usual). Thoughts anyone?

If there's nothing there besides some common interests and somewhat of a friendship, why not go for a sex buddy type thing? The crazy neurotic thing might get in the way there though. They usually don't end well but at least you'll have fun in the meantime.. wait, nevermind, that's horrible advice. Stay away from the fuck buddy idea.

It's going to be extremely difficult of not impossible to maintain just a friendship after being that intimate with someone that you were never really *that* close to from the start.

You need to figure out your feelings for this girl and choose the path you would like to take. If it's anything other than keeping your distance from her for a while talk to her and find out what she would like to do.

If you're both totally confused and don't know what you want (which is the vibe I'm picking up) then I can't really help you.