i had sex with my girl, and the condom ripped, but not at the top, at the center, so i have no clue if shes pregnant or not, we were both pretty fuckin wasted. i have some questions, its her first time, so does she have a higher chance of being pregnant or lower, after how long can we do the pregnancy test? should we just try and wait for her period ?

GOOD JOB! Anyway, it being her first time doesn't make it a higher or lower chance for her getting pregnant. As the saying goes, "It only takes one time...". As for the pregnancy test shit, I would say to just wait, and if she doesn't get it then you can a pregnancy test. Good luck

did you think about the morning after pill you moron? I hope you get stuck paying chils support for the rest of your life you dumbass.



EDIT: Don't mind me, im just pissy right now, I havent had sex in about three years, cuz i moved away from my guy, and where im living now there arn't many open gay guys so...



[This message has been edited by silentdark (edited 02-14-2004).]

i thought about it, and i also know the side effects, the pukin and all the other shit, as well as fuckin up her system. so i wanna know if shes pregnant before asking her to go through all that.

Alright, say if she is pregnant? What would you do? What would she do? Adoption, abortion, keep it? I mean, to think about that happening, I know, its kind of hard but you gotta face the facts. There is more to having a baby then people think. How long ago was this incident? Because if it was pretty long ago, then you will start seeing the puking, not eating right, tiredness, and having to go to the bathroom every 5 seconds.

Also, silentdark, are you still with your boyfriend? Or did you split up? And where do you live because I know a fair amount of single gay guys looking. Just wondering...

hey. u should b alrite. but if i were you i would have got the morning after pill for her. But if it's too late go to the family planning clinic or something.

King Roper

The first time a girl gets pregnant, there's a signifigant chance her body will spontaneously abort the child. Kind of a "Woah. Ok. That was a practice run." Of course it rarely works out like that if you didn't want a child.

Hahahahahha.......HA! use humans are stupid dont ask me why, but I blame tv.

quote:Originally posted by SurahAhriman:

The first time a girl gets pregnant, there's a signifigant chance her body will spontaneously abort the child. Kind of a "Woah. Ok. That was a practice run." Of course it rarely works out like that if you didn't want a child.

Really?

Sounds like it makes sense but I've never heard of that before... Anyone know for sure?

/slaps forehead in frustration

the morning after pill is exactly that. It wont work if you wait more than 72hrs and its gonna be heaps longer than that till you find out if shes pregnant.

take the pills

Go buy the morning after pill NOW you asshole!

The longer you wait the less effective it becomes!

quote:Originally posted by SurahAhriman:

The first time a girl gets pregnant, there's a signifigant chance her body will spontaneously abort the child. Kind of a "Woah. Ok. That was a practice run." Of course it rarely works out like that if you didn't want a child.

I've never heard of this, though early miscarriages happen more often than women know 'cause they seem to be just a normal period with a few more cramps.

Most pregnancy tests won't register a positive until a day or two after the missed period, assuming her cycle is regular and predictable. Many tests claim they can detect pregnancy "up to four days" before the scheduled period, but if you read the leaflet closely it states that this is true only in 60-80% of women.

Early symptoms: extreme fatigue and lack of energy, general ill feeling, painful breasts (especially the nipples, which might tingle constantly), swollen breasts, nausea with or without vomiting at any time of the day (copious vomiting is a rather sure sign), aversions to foods that are normally eaten/enjoyed, heightened sense of smell and increased sensitivity to odors. Rarely are these symptoms so minor that she'd wonder if she feels them. She'll know.

ok well thanx for the good replies, but some of you guys are faggots. we got the morning after pill a little over 30 hours so hopefully its safe, the emergency birth control clinic is closed on the weekend, which is the stupidest thing i ever seen, we went to the local doctor and she gave us the pills for 20 $, 3 at first and 3 in 12 hours, completley confidential. so yeah, still one question, she says she doesnt feel any different, does that mean the sperm didnt get to the egg in the first place ? we went there to be on the safe side.

[This message has been edited by n0b0dy (edited 02-16-2004).]

pregnancy is not something that will make you feel instantaneously different.

it takes time for the fertilised egg to travel down the fallopian tube and implant in the uterine wall... .then the cells start to divide.

you would start to feel different after you missed your period. Mostly 'oh shit i missed a period'.