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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2004-02-12, 12:02
casperc casperc is offline
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Default I said yes,now what?

So my last two threads were 'How do i ask her' and 'She emailed and asked' just for anyone who wants a little back ground.Now i replied to her email and said yes,but now i am not going to see her untill Wednesday

and its going to be awcward when i see her becouse i havent seen her for over a week and i dont know how to act around her when we meet up becouse we are kind of going out now.So baisicly how should i act around her?
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Old 2004-02-12, 12:04
CatharticWeek CatharticWeek is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

Friendly and interested while being slightly restrained.
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Old 2004-02-12, 13:18
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The Great Southern Land.
Default Re: I said yes,now what?

Act normal.

Be yourself.

She obviously likes you, so just do what comes natural and be the same you now, that you were then?
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Old 2004-02-12, 13:46
Ducky Ducky is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Friendly and interested while being slightly restrained.

Don't rush up and start hugging her, but be open to the hugging, for example. Be polite, be yourself, and you'll be fine. Good Luck!
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Old 2004-02-12, 14:19
SpacemanSPLIFF SpacemanSPLIFF is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

show her your cock ring.
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Old 2004-02-12, 14:31
casperc casperc is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

So just be myself but extra nice?
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Old 2004-02-12, 20:48
xosfsx xosfsx is offline
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Just act like she is one of your good friends for like a week then gradually you know start acting like a boyfriend
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Old 2004-02-12, 22:50
Corrupt Civilian Corrupt Civilian is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

Another good question, buddy. (By the way, I still think you should've asked her out in person, but that's beside the point now.)

How do you act around a chick who asked you out through e-mail?

1st Rule - Never change your personality immediately after "asking-out stage". Always act the same way you normally would around anyone else.

2nd Rule - Act like nothing has changed and have fun with her: joking, laughing, spanking, whatever you normally do.

3rd Rule - Eventually, with no dramatic opening, kiss her. This may be difficult or intimidating, but don't think of it like that. This is a casual, "I-know-what-I'm-doing" kiss to let her know that you are interested in her. This Rule is not always necessary but it is a good place to start.
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Old 2004-02-12, 23:17
jojabr jojabr is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

quote:Originally posted by Corrupt Civilian:

spanking,

Hah...

Did you two just decide that you're "going out" or did you pick somewhere to meet up? Because, I think that two people can't be "going out" if they don't actually go out anywhere. Does that make sense? Or am I just crazy?
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Old 2004-02-12, 23:25
AndrewDecker1520 AndrewDecker1520 is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

Originally posted by Corrupt Civilian:

spanking,

Hah...

Did you two just decide that you're "going out" or did you pick somewhere to meet up? Because, I think that two people can't be "going out" if they don't actually go out anywhere. Does that make sense? Or am I just crazy?



I think its that Jr high mentality (no offense) where you go up to a girl and say somthin like Hey wanna be my girlfriend (ha just a cheap ass example I seriously hope no one has actually said that) rather than start going to a movies with some girl you know and eventually you become bf gf. Thats just my take on the thing.
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Old 2004-02-12, 23:30
The Misfit The Misfit is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

^ you've got it.

I have to say i told you so though casperc, it's better to ask in person. Just make sure you go over when you see her, say hi, do all the normal things you do, the biggest mistake people make when they start dating in Jr. High and High school is get all awkward and/or clingy. And please, for my sake, if you decide to fall in love with this girl at least wait until you've been dating for a few months, i hate it when people date for a week and they're all, "I'm so in love!!!11!!11!!!" Anyhow good luck, play it cool.
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Old 2004-02-13, 00:39
guernica guernica is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

I'm just wondering... how old are you? Because the "email conversation" relationships... usually a big big sign of immaturity. "Like, OMG! I got an email from >insert name here< and he was all like >insert load of crap here< and, and... OMG!" Or something to that extent.

You should of just asked her out in person man, now it's just gonna be all weird and stuff.
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Old 2004-02-13, 01:37
D-Loc 1605 D-Loc 1605 is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

Stomp your feet on the ground and snort to let her know she's in your territory.
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Old 2004-02-13, 01:54
casperc casperc is offline
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Default Re: I said yes,now what?

I would have asked her out in person but she asked me first.
 
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