My definition of being safe: Whether or not you are safe to be left single.

Example, if you have a chance to get with Shannon Elizabeth, she is NOT safe to put on hold, as many guys would gladly go out with her.

Anyways, what I'm saying is, how safe are you? Has how safe you are percieved significantly affect your luck with girls?

I ask because it seems a girl's attraction to me is improving after she saw that I could get with a number of girls. I suppose on a simple level, its psychology. A person doesn't really want something until its wanted by others.

i suppose i'm what you'd call a sleeper. i'm thought to be safe but am quickly proving otherwise.