Ok would you consider this cheating?

I love this girl her name is shannon. I love her more than anything in this world.I would die for her. She dumped me 2 months ago. But i wont give up trying to get her back because i love her.

Well there is this other girl. I dont love her. She is just my best friend. But she likes me. She really likes me and stuff and allways wants to cyber and stuff. But i tell her i dont want to because i dont love her. She wont leave me alone about it.Shes like your not even going out with her anymore. I tell her but even though it wouldnt really be like cheating on shannon i would be cheating on my own heart. and i dont want to be guilty.

I try so hard to get shannon back and i dont think i will ever stop trying. I love her. But i dont want to hurt this other girls feelings because she is my friend.

Do you think that is cheating? I am so confused.I love shannon. This girl knows shannon too. Shes all saying that shannon said she will never go back out with me and it wouldnt be cheating because im not going out. I dont want to cheat on my heart and feel guilty because i love shannon.



what do you think i should do? If i tell this other girl no she will get her feelings hurt and stuff. I told her no allready and she like broke down crying. I dont want to hurt her. what should i do?



thanks for your time

Jolly

Sounds kinda like you're thinking about doing her out of pity. I personally don't think it would be right. Not because it would be cheating (it wouldn't be), but unless you're just looking for some cheap thrills, or actually pursuing a relationship with your friend, I probably wouldn't.

It's not cheating if you don't have a partner to be unfaithful to, but if you don't want to, I don't see what the dilema is...

You should go out with your friend. Its the only way to get over Shannon. If you do boyfriend girlfriend stuff with this other girl, your love for Shannon will not be towards her anymore, but towards your friend. I know this I have done this it worked for me.

Why did Shannon even break up with you in the first place? It sounds a little like a lie from her friend. She probably said something to Shannon, and Shannon broke up with you. Dont forget about Shannon though. Love comes only to those who deserve it, and you should be proud of finally finding it. Keep it!

^^^^ very true i learned this the hard way

I say not cheating. I've given this subject a lot of thought lately because I'm in the same boat with my ex, except I don't have any prospects.

quote:Originally posted by jollydickhead:

Ok would you consider this cheating?

I love this girl her name is shannon. I love her more than anything in this world.I would die for her. She dumped me 2 months ago. But i wont give up trying to get her back because i love her.



You don't love her. That's nonsense. If you really loved her you'd leave her alone.