Ok..I need to just become a Monk or some shit because I cannot escape bad feelings.

I have a girlfriend (its long distance right now) that i worked months to get, she was a real good friend before we were more. I battled off my jealousy issues and shit, and we were doing good.

NOW...my female friend Sarah, says she loves me..and expects that from me..I've kind of been leading her on..and now if I say I dont want her like that, she wont talk to me for a fucking year, I know this.

There's this girl at blockbuster..I went with my mom to pick some movies up..and I have feelings of obsession over the girl there. Ive only seen her twice, and I dont know what it is..but damn. I dont know shit about her, other than her name, which I overheard. I really feel this is something I need to do..get to know this girl- but uhm as you see ^^^ I have many issues, and this might get me shot.



So..skip all of that and read/comment on this:

1.) Have a girlfriend

2.) Female friend wants me

3.) I want blockbuster girl, but don't know how to get to know her. She could have a boyfriend, be 20, go to college..hell if I know. I have a feeling she's still in highschool which might give me a shot (I'm 17). But what do I say to her in the 3 minutes we can talk? I asked her for the time, and thought about asking her name, and moving on from there until I get to number..at which time she'd tell me "I dont even know you"..so I'd try to convince her with somthing like "so let's talk after this, and i'll tell you all about me". Good/ Horrible?

Blah..I need game..someone help me.

Also..sometimes we make eye contact for like a second, and then both glance away..at this time my heart pounds like a sonofabitch. Thought I'd mention that.

On a third edit, I think I'll just take it slowly..and start a conversation with her while shes walking in the aisles..about recommending me a movie or something..and just talk to her everytime im in there (1-2 times a week)?

[This message has been edited by PoseidonHurri (edited 02-07-2004).]

"so let's talk after this, and i'll tell you all about me"

This may be the worst line I've ever heard. The level of presumption- that she wants to know anything about you at all- is staggering.

You can try and strike up a conversation with her if you wander in at a time when they're not busy. Other than that, it's usually quite difficult to get anywhere in a few minutes unless the girl already has a thing for you.

Haha thanks..

I'm just going to start renting mad movies, and hopefully talk to her enough to get a little familiar...I really know nothing about the girl, and it's stupid of me to think I can actually like her. And..well..my girlfriend, and...wow, someone's going to end up murdering me.

It might be a good idea to end your current relationship first? It's long distance, it's not going anywhere anyway. You will never get away with cheating on her. She'll find out.

It's your own stupid fault for leading on the other chick, and if you really don't want anything to do with her, let her down easy. And messin with people's heads may be fun, but it will fuck you over. Been there, done that, NOT FUN.

I say, go for blockbuster chick. If you're feeling... w/e just from seeing her and never really talking to her, it could be a wicked relationship if it ever progressed. If she's interested that is.

quote:Originally posted by PoseidonHurri:

Haha thanks..

I'm just going to start renting mad movies, and hopefully talk to her enough to get a little familiar...I really know nothing about the girl, and it's stupid of me to think I can actually like her. And..well..my girlfriend, and...wow, someone's going to end up murdering me.

Try to find out if she is into movies alot first. If she works at Blockbuster for the money, you can't just go in and keep renting movies after movies. She might find that geek-ish.