im 16 years old so I dont have acces to things like viagra. Ive had my first big sexual encounter with a girl today, problem is I couldnt get it up past 1/2 mast, I tried my hardest and got nothing. Now I find this really weird because I am addicted to masturbation I mean REALLY addicted, I jerk off an avrage of 4 times a day and have set the bar at 21 times in 24 hours. This has happened before, in lesser sexual experiences. now im not gay by any means and im harder than a rock when I jerk it so what the fuck is the problem? the slightest solution to this problem would be great!

You mentioned it was your first time. If you were feeling nervous at all that could be the reason. Try again and dont stress out about it, just go with the flow! Not masturbating for a while could also help erections and ejaculation strength.

It was your nerves, nothing else. Just spend some time next time you and this girl get together, and make sure both of you are relaxed. You just need to get comfortable around girls in this way. Don't worry, it happens to everyone.

quote:Originally posted by bigbone5000:

im 16 years old so I dont have acces to things like viagra. Ive had my first big sexual encounter with a girl today, problem is I couldnt get it up past 1/2 mast, I tried my hardest and got nothing. Now I find this really weird because I am addicted to masturbation I mean REALLY addicted, I jerk off an avrage of 4 times a day and have set the bar at 21 times in 24 hours. This has happened before, in lesser sexual experiences. now im not gay by any means and im harder than a rock when I jerk it so what the fuck is the problem? the slightest solution to this problem would be great!



*TIP*

STOP MASTURBATING SO FUCKING MUCH!

quote:Originally posted by bigbone5000:

I jerk off an avrage of 4 times a day and have set the bar at 21 times in 24 hours.

Have you considered calling Guiness Book of World Records?

jesus.....21 times,it might not be a record but thats pretty damn good.Have you considered proffesional sperm doner as a job? i think they could use you.

anyways, its probebly just your nervs just relax and have some fun. try not to masterbate a few days before you'll enjoy it more when/if you do come the next time

edit: i apologize for my dodgy spelling and grammer

quote:Originally posted by Zarf Vreex:

Have you considered calling Guiness Book of World Records?

i have him beat... 27 times in 24 hours =P

it really starts to lose its novelty after the first 2 or 3 ... but man... that was one helluva workout for my arms i tell ya

shit,i wonder if you can pull a muscel whacking off...be pretty funny. you ring out your arm,some chick asks "whats wrong with your arm", "ah i over did it when i was whacking off for the 27th time last night"



lol

sorry shouldn't take this thread off topic, damn side tracking mind.

sorry

it really is just nerves. But I have to ask, did you try to get it up, or did you let her? If it was more of a you thing, let her give you a blow job before hand. That will get you hard. Just don't cum. And move on to sex and it should be cool. Next time, you are just going to have to calm down, and try take things slow. Lots of foreplay. Make sure you are hard before you attempt anything. That way, if you aren't (which if you are relaxed you shouldn't have a problem with), then you can just play it off and go down on her or finger her etc. Sorry if that makes no sense, but remember to just calm down!

ya I figured it was nerves, or I was just thinkin too much. Thanks for the encouragment. She kinda gave me a little BJ and a lil HJ but since I wasn't hard I wouldnt dare let her continue, because I was so embarresed, I tried so hard to pull out of 1/2 mast but I just couldnt do it. So I preceeded to preform cuntalingus again and again, I guess I gave her 2 orgasams but she was constantly reaching for my unerrect member, I would let her have at it for about a minute and if it wasnt up I would pull away and go back to the cuntalingus.

quote:Originally posted by bigbone5000:

ya I figured it was nerves, or I was just thinkin too much. Thanks for the encouragment. She kinda gave me a little BJ and a lil HJ but since I wasn't hard I wouldnt dare let her continue, because I was so embarresed, I tried so hard to pull out of 1/2 mast but I just couldnt do it. So I preceeded to preform cuntalingus again and again, I guess I gave her 2 orgasams but she was constantly reaching for my unerrect member, I would let her have at it for about a minute and if it wasnt up I would pull away and go back to the cuntalingus.

It's cunnalingus, buddy, cunnalingus.

~es

Cunnilingus, actually.