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 #1 
Old 2004-02-05, 04:22
Joeb Joeb is offline
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Default "Friends with Benefits"

Okay, I have this relationship with this girl. We aren't an exclusive couple. We both can date other people, though right now we are just seeing each other (we both plan to see other people soon). And we are well on our way to becoming lovers.

The thing is, what do you call this relationship? The closest name I can think of in current use is "Friends with Benefits". However, neither of us like this name. It implies the relationship is mostly sexual, which it isn't.

What else can I call the relationship to denote that we are more than friends but not an exclusive couple?
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Old 2004-02-05, 04:54
Ducky Ducky is offline
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Well, I could say "sluts" but that's too borad of a generalization. You are in a relationship with this woman, but then again you aren't. You have sex, but that's not supposed to be all there is to it. You see each other, but then you see other people. Maybe "free" is an apt term.
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Old 2004-02-05, 04:54
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
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"Horny idiots with a pseudo-emotional relationship"
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Old 2004-02-05, 04:56
Ducky Ducky is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

"Horny idiots with a pseudo-emotional relationship"
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Old 2004-02-05, 05:25
Spiffy McBang Spiffy McBang is offline
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Default Re: "Friends with Benefits"

Why do you need to call it anything? It is what it is, and it's more than most people have, so shut up and enjoy it.
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Old 2004-02-05, 05:59
skank skank is offline
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sort of girlfriend.
 #7 
Old 2004-02-05, 06:13
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Default Re: "Friends with Benefits"

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ducky
quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

"Horny idiots with a pseudo-emotional relationship"


Been there, done that.
 #8 
Old 2004-02-05, 06:56
toxic2210 toxic2210 is offline
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Default Re: "Friends with Benefits"

sex friends
 #9 
Old 2004-02-05, 07:04
devilsAngel devilsAngel is offline
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Default Re: "Friends with Benefits"

quote:Originally posted by Black Flag:

Been there, done that.

ditto.

you could say it's an "open relationship" but i think that's giving you too much credit, you're just fuck buddies.
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Old 2004-02-05, 10:31
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Default Re: "Friends with Benefits"

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

Why do you need to call it anything? It is what it is, and it's more than most people have, so shut up and enjoy it.

Bingo!

Why do people feel the need to categorise things?!

Just get on with it!
 #11 
Old 2004-02-05, 11:02
CaptainBlackAdder CaptainBlackAdder is offline
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fuck buddies
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Old 2004-02-05, 15:26
mrman383 mrman383 is offline
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who cares about what label can be put on it. are you having fun? are you happy? if so, then thats all you need to know. fuck what other people think and society thinks, do what makes you happy.
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Old 2004-02-05, 16:30
Stranger1786 Stranger1786 is offline
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If people ask you if she is your girlfriend, say "no she is my sex-kitten."
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Old 2004-02-05, 18:12
Can't Stop nOw? Can't Stop nOw? is offline
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qFUCK BUDDY FUCK BUDDY FUCK BUDDY "YOU GET THE POINT"
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Old 2004-02-05, 18:17
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I believe this is called an open relationship...if I understand you correctly.
 #16 
Old 2004-02-06, 03:04
Qoh Qoh is offline
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A True friend
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Old 2004-02-07, 03:09
Johnnx Johnnx is offline
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Don't complain...keep your mouth shut and hope it lasts forever...
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Old 2004-02-07, 19:10
Damned5101 Damned5101 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Qoh:

A True friend

I second that motion.
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Old 2004-02-07, 20:50
P|Rawk P|Rawk is offline
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how about psudo-girlfriend or quasi relationship, or how about 2 ass holes with no morals?
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Old 2004-02-08, 03:04
Joeb Joeb is offline
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Default Re: "Friends with Benefits"

quote:Originally posted by P|Rawk:

how about psudo-girlfriend or quasi relationship, or how about 2 ass holes with no morals?

Fuck You.
 
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