I hooked up with this girl several times. Now she's dating my friend. Should I tell him that I fucked her?

~Mike

if your not screwing around with her while hes going out with her then no dont say shit. If your fucking her while hes going out with her fess up and be a man.

I can't see any reason for you to just throw is out there, unless maybe if she's lying to him about her past sexual partners, and saying she'd a virgin or something. If your friend is willing to sleep with this girl, or any girl, then he should be comfortable with the fact that someone else who felt the same might have hooked up with this girl. If we all walked around thinking that this girl or guy we're hooking up with might be someone's husband or wife some day, and that we're being disrespectful, we might as well just go back a few generations and retreat to a time in which sex, especially pre-marital sex, was completely taboo. Seems pointless to me, and based on the fact that you slept with this girl, I'm sure you'll agree.

The key point here is that you slept with her before they were attached. If you're fooling around behind your friends back, it's a different story.

If you tell him, he's going to wonder why. There's no good reason. Don't bother.

dont do it. put her back on the shelf and find another.

if you're still hookin up while she's dating your friend, then you're a bastard and if your friend means anything to you you should tell him, but if you're not hookin up while they're going out then don't say anything, it'd just make things weird and your friend will wonder why you told him at all.

Hey, thanks for the advice. Nah I stopped messing around with her a while ago, so I don't think I'll tell him. It's just I seem kinda guilty by not telling him since we're friends and all, I just don't know how he will react.

In any case, thanks,

~Mike

Heh, you might be "damned if you do and damned if you don't" depending on what happens with them.

I concurred with the other posts before so I didn't bother chiming in, but an afterthought occurred. What if they have a falling out, and she blurts something spiteful like "And Mike was a way better fuck than you." Would your friend come after you and complain that you should have told him? I've seen it happen. But you really can't predict this, so stick by your decision.

Soemthing kinda like this happened to me...Ive been married for a few years now, well one day this old friend of my wife moves back here from Florida and they start hanging out again...well it turns out that this "friend" was a girl that I used to screw almost constantly when I was in high school...and I mean I used grudge fuck her...well I decided that the best policy was to play dumb and if my wife ever said anything about it I'd just be like "Damn,I thought you knew about that"

Hope you plan to videotape it.

If he was really your friend he'd already know about it.

no solution but to jump of a bridge im afraid