Ok the situation is this.

for about the past 3 months I have been talking to this girl in Cali (I live in Iowa), she is comming to visit me in march and I like her alot, but there is also a girl here that is everything I want, the best way I can put it is imagine the hottest girl you can, but she is smart, funny and has a kick ass personality,

should I continue with the long distance relationship with the girl in cali or should I try to get with the girl who is my everything??

also for those who remember my last post the girl who is my everything is ann marie (the girl who most of you said I would lose cause her sis liked me)

Vince

Stick with the girl that you have now. Why throw something good away for a risky long distance relationship with a girl that you have never actually met in person. Trust me on this one

Take Care,

Kangy

Wow, is Kangy back in town? This is cause for celebration!

Anyways, Mr Vega, why would you carry on a long distance relationship when you have an "everything" girl? If you were a female doing the same thing, you'd be called a "slut" and a "picky bitch" (see Sarc's hilarious joke.)

But, you're a dude, and there's a double standard, so you're quite "the man" for toying with the affections of 2 females. Congratulations.

well I don't have both I have the long distance but my everything is interested in me?? and I don't know if I shoulg stay with the long distance or or move on with my everything.



Vince

Ah, that wasn't clear. I apologize for my tone.

Now that's a tough one. On one hand, you might not want to "keep yourself available" and deny other options. On the other hand, Ann-Marie might be put off if you get together, even temporarily, with someone else.

Well, if it were me, and I wanted to be with someone, I'd go ahead and see/date/whatever anyone who came along and not keep myself "in reserve" in case my first choice decides he wants me. If this girl in Cali is willing to travel to meet you, she might be worth at least some of your time.

There's really no right or wrong answer here. Life is unpredictable.

Hey cindy, ya I am back in town for two more weeks before I go back for more training. I just stopped in to see how S&A was doing. Drop me an email when you get a chance.

Take Care,

Kangy