anybody got any anal sex tips? like with/without condom? lube/no lube? if so, special kind of lube?

techniques? positions?

Make sure to wash your dick off afterwards.

1 - Always use lube.

2 - Relax

3 - Start out with fingers first.

4 - Take it slowly

5 - Doggie style is actually one of the most painful positions. Try having guy laying down on back and other person on top going down on it.

6 - Be sure to use more lube, can't have too much.

That's about it. And whoever is recieving the anal sex.. they're the ones generally in charge.

me and my girlfriend tried to have anal sex a few times last night and i couldn't get my dick to fit in. we have had it before and i could get it in, but last night, it wouldn't go in.

we first tried with a condom(she said that i could get a urinary track(right word?) infection if i didn't use a condom) and it wouldn't go in at all.

then we tried in the shower with out a condom(i used spit for lube) and it wouldn't go in.

then we tried again right after the shower with out a condom(spit again) and the head of my penis went in but the rest wouldn't go in.

good luck!

quote:Originally posted by SBTlauien:

me and my girlfriend tried to have anal sex a few times last night and i couldn't get my dick to fit in. we have had it before and i could get it in, but last night, it wouldn't go in.

we first tried with a condom(she said that i could get a urinary track(right word?) infection if i didn't use a condom) and it wouldn't go in at all.

then we tried in the shower with out a condom(i used spit for lube) and it wouldn't go in.

then we tried again right after the shower with out a condom(spit again) and the head of my penis went in but the rest wouldn't go in.

good luck!You need WAAAY better lube than spit. Nothing oil based though, it has a tendancy to disolve latex.

lube is over-rated. plus, if shes too much of a bitch to get fucked for real, dont bother. theres nothing hot about some slow fuck, in the ass or not.

astroglide works well. dont worry about a condom, unless you're worried about disease. if you're in a healthy monogamous relation, there is no need to worry about a urinary tract infection. just clean up well afterwards. make sure you piss afterwards too, but thats always a good thing to do. the best position is probably laying on your sides from behind her. lots of lube....

quote:Originally posted by EyeSore:

astroglide works well. dont worry about a condom, unless you're worried about disease. if you're in a healthy monogamous relation, there is no need to worry about a urinary tract infection. just clean up well afterwards. make sure you piss afterwards too, but thats always a good thing to do. the best position is probably laying on your sides from behind her. lots of lube....



A very good friend of mine butt-fucked a girl without using a condom and he ended up pssing blood for a couple weeks. He got some sort of bacteria or virus from her poopie-hole. Ya know, it's common sense to use a condom when doing somebody up the butt. Why do u think girls wipe front to back? It's so u don't get the dirt and waste from ur pooper in ur more fragile areas. Moral of the story: use a condom when butt-fucking.

^^ the male urethra is long enough that there is no need to worry about UTI's. this is assuming that proper care is taken after the fact. your friend is a stupid douche.

I butt fucked my ex GF doggy stile... she was crying really bad, but I kept on fucking her till I cum

quote:Originally posted by MyUsername:



A very good friend of mine butt-fucked a girl without using a condom and he ended up pssing blood for a couple weeks. He got some sort of bacteria or virus from her poopie-hole. Ya know, it's common sense to use a condom when doing somebody up the butt. Why do u think girls wipe front to back? It's so u don't get the dirt and waste from ur pooper in ur more fragile areas. Moral of the story: use a condom when butt-fucking.

Seriously, who wipes from back to front? It's just wrong....

quote:Originally posted by maurovz:

I butt fucked my ex GF doggy stile... she was crying really bad, but I kept on fucking her till I cum

I would've done the same.

i believe that i DID do the same

I read somewhere that you should wipe front to back.. doesn't make much sense for guys, but for girls It does I guess..

Basics:

-no such thing as too much lube. I'll vouch for ID, but you can use whatever you want. Just make sure it is a thick lube (which Astroglide is not)

-if she has a bowel movement 1-3 hours before sex there should be only trace amount of feces left in her rectum/colon which mean no uh...unexpected surprises

-if she cleans up well before hand and you clean up afterwards, you shouldn't have to use a condom, if you two are both STD free that is

-I found that the spoon position makes penitration much more comfortable for her. Afterwards you can move to other positions, but take it slowly at first; and, as said earlier, use (lubed) fingers first. It is a slow process that should not be rushed

-have fun with it. The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable she will be. Reasure her that you will take care of her and will be responsible; also that it feels really good .

I'm just wondering. Say she isn't the cleanest gal and hasn't wiped her ass as much as she should have, is there any kind of disease or anything I could get?

Edit: If she's STD free that is.

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You should be having regular sex with someone that you don't trust. Anal sex (usually) requires a lot of trust and patience and if you do not trust your partner to be clean and safe then you should rethink having any kind of sex with that person.