I have only had this name for about 4 or 5 months not sure though. Yet I had a different name before that but lost the password. This isn't really that important until you read on.

If you look at the S&A forum, it seems that everybody is asking the same thing. How do I get this chick to go out with me, how do I get him to notice me...bla bla bla. Repetitivwe yet each time, everyone has a different answer to each question.

This board seems that every guy on here, isn't shallow that much, or at all. They all seem to be the same people, looking for a relationship but they haven't found the person to keep the relationship with. Thas me, and I'm sure there are plenty of you out there.

You want to know why, that you can't find a girl that is like, is because most girls are the same. They want the guys that don't give them the attention they deserve, and they want guys that will give them the attention they deserve. When they get a nice guy, someone that will care for them, they usually get scared off and run back to the guy they had before. They don't notice until aftewards that the guy they left for their shitty boyfriend, was better than there current one.

This was just written off the top of my head, probably doesn't make sense but oh well.

No, that makes perfect sense. I;ve been helping my best friend out with her relationship problems this past week, and I know for a fact that if she ever got a nice guy she would be so much happier. The problem is she's not attracted to them until after she's done with them, just like you said. Wow.

Can you define what you mean by being a jerk. Like, describe the actions of what you call a jerk towards a girl he wants to nail.

quote:Originally posted by Geranium:



You want to know why, that you can't find a girl that is like, is because most girls are the same. They want the guys that don't give them the attention they deserve, and they want guys that will give them the attention they deserve. When they get a nice guy, someone that will care for them, they usually get scared off and run back to the guy they had before. They don't notice until aftewards that the guy they left for their shitty boyfriend, was better than there current one.



Bullshit.

Scorned guys often say things like that..



Next you'll be saying

'oh girls like guys who are assholes and have lots of money'

ect...



::::rolleyes time::::

First off, you're absolutely right about the same threads appearing over and over, and if I had a little more time I'd be shutting a lot of them down and linking to other threads that ask the same damn question. Do a little searching, people. You're not that unique, other people have the same problems you do.

Now that that's out of the way, I dislike rants like this. I am, of course, not saying you shouldn't make them; it's my opinion. But the more this is repeated over and over, ad infinitum, the more people (both male and female) will begin to assume there's truth to it. The more you complain and make negative criticisms, the less anything will change.

I'm not saying you're wrong. A lot of people do make these mistakes. But if you see this as a bad thing, don't you want it to change? Show a little positivity. Openly recognize that not everyone does this shit, and encourage more people to follow the good example instead of acting like only the bad one exists.

yo spiffy, can't me make a SEARCH BEFORE POSTIN YOU MORONS THREAD, that we keep bumping, like the dmx thread in BLTC

dmx sucks.

quote:Originally posted by dark-easterbunny:

yo spiffy, can't me make a SEARCH BEFORE POSTIN YOU MORONS THREAD, that we keep bumping, like the dmx thread in BLTC

DXM you idiot. Don't flame someone if you don't know what you're talking about.

We've tried making threads to keep on top through repeated bumps for various purposes, but frankly, I can't be arsed to keep up with that shit forever, and neither can anyone else. Until we have a system that supports sticky notes, this will continue to be an issue.

Back on topic, then... if you have any ideas specifically for S&A designed to tackle this problem, start another thread.