Hey i intend on losing my virginity with my girlfriend after the prom which is coming up prety soon. Anyway she is not a virgin and has had sex once but did not enjoy it apparently because he was crap and it was for all the wrong reasons.

Anyway I really love her but I really really dont want to disapoint her. Remember that I am completely inexperienced although i watch a lot of porn lol. Anyway what sort of positions should I try and what should I do with my hands and stuff?

I was thinking of thrying missionary with the girls legs over my shoulders as thats meant to give her the best penetration (according to some site anyway) Which of thes positions will give her the most pleasure and which will make the man feel big inside her. My penis is about 6 1/2 - 6 3/4 inches long measure from the top and about 7 when measured from the side. I dont know if this is too small or what for my age. btw im 16.

Since when do 16 year olds get to go to the prom?

I don't know. I'd say let her be on top, and that way she has control over what is good, what is too much for her. Just be gentle, she's had it once, that doesn't mean it won't hurt. And give up the idea of giving her an orgasm from penetration, 'cause it won't happen. Go down on her, or finger her and she'll more likely cum from clitoral stimulation.

-Nocuous

I really like the legs over shoulders dealy. I'm a girl btw.

hate to be the one that has to say it, but until you get used to sex, go with missionary. let her pull her knees up, but not over your shoulders.yeah, i know, plain, vanilla, boring etc...oh yeah and easy. Dont try to be a porn star and it will be a lot harder to get messed up. And if she has only had sex once, you are going to feel big in her unless she masturabtes a lot.

Or if you want to be a little different, let her be on top, but if her first time was sucky, she is not going to be sure of what rythmn to go with, and that could get akward if it wrong.

Go down on her/finger her first. That will get her wet and it will also loosen her up...that way it wont hurt as much. And what to do with your hands....you'll figure that out...dont worry about that.

don't plan it just do it.....your main problem is shootin ur load to soon...

one question if shes ur gf why the fuck don't you just go round now and fuck her......?

you faggot

jay666: hey man in which threads have u posted your answer on? i love your answers man.. hit me back

i only really post on here,....and rock and roll,suprouis wotever......

thax my egos jus got a bit bigger

quote:Originally posted by jay666:

don't plan it just do it.....your main problem is shootin ur load to soon...

one question if shes ur gf why the fuck don't you just go round now and fuck her......?

you faggot

ok fuckwit try finding out the whole deal before you go shooting your mouth off. Shes not sixteen until another two months and I dont wanna go screw her any old place. I want her to feel special - not used you dumass.

quote:Originally posted by NumB-nUTz:

ok fuckwit try finding out the whole deal before you go shooting your mouth off. Shes not sixteen until another two months and I dont wanna go screw her any old place. I want her to feel special - not used you dumass.



A sixteen year old and a 15 year old going to the prom.. hmmmmm, somthings not right. And dont call "jay666" a fuckwitt just cause your a fucking pansy who's scared to fuck his girlfriend... faggot

i dont want to get in the middle of a pathetic little fight, but where did he say he was afraid to fuck his girlfriend. If only more teen guys would "care" about their girlfriends rather than just hump em dump em, then there would be a lot less whiny teenie bopper chicks.

a humble suggestion? if you want to have a "special", or whatever, loss of virginity for the love of whatever diety you may or may not believe in don't, DON'T, be the guy or girl that loses their virginity after prom. That's so stereotypical, ugh.

prom...gross me out

I say good on you NumB-nUTz, for caring so much about this girl and being so concerned about her well being.

And also, I suggest you morons flaming him stop it,jay666, he was asking a question, why did you bother flaming him?

Asking a question doesent make him a faggot..



Anyway. Let what happens happen, if you concentrate and stress on the event too much in advance when it finally happens you'll be soo stressed out everything will go wrong.

And if you're more concerned about making it good for her, use your fingers. Tounge, if neccessary.

quote:Originally posted by hand_made_attrocity:

A sixteen year old and a 15 year old going to the prom.. hmmmmm, somthings not right. And dont call "jay666" a fuckwitt just cause your a fucking pansy who's scared to fuck his girlfriend... faggot



How the fuck am i scared of her? I just want to know how to give her a good time. And shes like 16 next months. In england we have a prom at the end of year 11 (like final year of compulsory education) and by that time everyones 16 anyway. Shes only a few months younger then me. And explain how someone wanting to give their GIRLFRIEND a good time IN BED is a faggot you prat?

ooo sex after the prom, how original. just fuck her now, theres no such thing as a "special" time.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

ooo sex after the prom, how original. just fuck her now, theres no such thing as a "special" time.

waiting could show to the girl that he has self control, gaining more respect in the girls eye, in the end it'll make her want to fuk him more.

(just my theory anyway)

quote:Originally posted by reefguy:

waiting could show to the girl that he has self control, gaining more respect in the girls eye, in the end it'll make her want to fuk him more.

(just my theory anyway)

or it could show her that he lacks the ability to be spontaneous and a bit aggressive, which could turn her off. comparing theories is silly, you should fuck when you want to fuck, not because of some event.

i think i have a solution that will make everyone happy: bang her on her birthday.

she'll be 16 which is good for you and it won't be afer the prom which will make all the people who think bangin after prom is stereotypical.

yeah i know. i am a genius.

why are you waitin untill shes 16.........?

dude, the whole "having sex after prom" is so cliche and silly but anywho ... the main thing is to make sure you're both comfortable with what you're doing positions and stuff you can figure out as you go but for a first time i agree with nocuous and aloneandbroken ... let her figure out what she's comfortable with and yeah, she probably won't orgasm from the actual sex but more from fingering or you going down on her so yeah, don't worry too much since she's only had sex once, main thing is make sure you're both comfy with the situation and everything you're doing.