My girlfriend and I started having sex a week ago and every time that we have sex she bleeds. I know it's probably not that unusual, especially since she had had sex only once before me.

I've also noticed when I go down on her that there's a small bump on the roof of her vagina that was at first nonexistant, then a small crease, and now is the size of a mosquito bite. I think that it is just a tear that is trying to heal itself, but I would like to get some input from others on this.

I'm not freaking out, but it is a bit worrying for my pubic region to be smeared with blood after sex.

P.S. We've been using condoms so my magical penis power cannont heal her. Just in case you were wondering.

[This message has been edited by Little Pea (edited 01-29-2004).]

hmm....I'd say that if this bump doesnt go away in the next 5 days, send her to the doctor. I have no idea what it could be, so thats my only advice. (sorry)

Barring more knowledgable input, I would also say send her to the doc, if only to find out exactly what it is and what you need to do to keep this from happening. Even though it's very possible nothing is wrong with her, there are still good and bad ways to deal with it- might as well learn the good ones.

if the bump hurts, then it might be an std.

Hmmm...Few suggestions:

-Make sure there is plenty of lubrication.

-You may want to take a break for a few days to let her heal.

-It may be a common polyp.

Either way, you should take her to the doctor, being a newbie and all. It isn't normal to develop "bumps" like that, but you could be talking about the g-spot for all we know, as everyone is different. Planned Parenthood is EXCELLENT for all concerns of that nature, really.

Maybe she has an allergy to latex? Worth checking.

God you guys are thick. Its probably her Clit. Ever think of that? Just lube her up using your spit. Use as much as you can. My current girlfriend was really tight when we started going out. Take your time and don't rush her.

It bears repeating, LP...she needs to see a doctor. Bumps that grow in size are rarely "nothing." I'm unsure of what you mean by "roof of her vagina" though. Do you mean just inside the vaginal opening, the area closest to the clitoris?

quote:Originally posted by Stalker141:

God you guys are thick. Its probably her Clit. Ever think of that? Just lube her up using your spit. Use as much as you can. My current girlfriend was really tight when we started going out. Take your time and don't rush her.

heh. Yup. We're the thick ones.



My guess is it's just a cut trying to heal, and maybe you aren't giving it enough time. If you keep opening up a wound, you stand the risk of getting it infected. As much as it sucks, I think it's best to abstain from sex until she can see the doc.

-Nocuous

Yep. It's better to know what it is from a professionial then for you to find out months later that you both got STDs.

~ES

quote:Originally posted by ButterNips:

...being a newbie and all. It isn't normal to develop "bumps" like that, but you could be talking about the g-spot for all we know, as everyone is different...

Excuse me? I am far from a newb, and I believe that nocuous is right in that it is a small tear that is trying to heal itself, but wasn't sure.

We had sex a few hours ago and there was no bleeding what so ever. Differences:I didn't finger her before penitration, just stimulated her clit, went slower when first going inside her.

When I went down on her afterwards there was a little blood; but it was very, very little. So I think that I just need to slow it down a bit.

And by the roof of her vagina I mean the roof of her vagina. I know the basic anatomy of the female sex organ, I just felt a bit concern about the bleeding. Gimme a little more credit than that. Do I need a sexual resume or something?