OK. I started working at a skating rink about 4 or 5 months ago. And the last 3 months, I've been flirting with a girl Brittany. She recently broke up with her boyfriend, about a month ago, so we've been foolin around. She says she's not ready to get into a relationship just yet, but she kind of acts like she does. But what can I do, she doesn't want a relationship. So I figure I'll wait until she does. So about 3 weeks ago, another girl named Sarah started working there, and I asked my bosses daughter to get us hooked up. So she told Sarah that I liked her, we started talking, and Brittany saw us. We were real close, and she got mad. And were not even dating. So we were talking until 1 or 2 last night, and she acted like she wanted to. But then she still says she's not ready. Now I'm getting the idea that she is waiting on her old boyfriend to come back, because she's said something about it before.

And I know that Sarah likes me, because she told her friends, and they told me. So, I don't know, I like both of them, but Brittany alot more. And I know she likes me, because she got jealous then, and last night when I told her I was goin to the club. She asked "Are you gonna meet a girl there?" And I've done past up one girl for her, and I don't wanna pass up Sarah. But I wouldn't wanna blow it with Brittany either.

You're just as much a dithering nincompoop as Brittany is.

Isnt it obvious? She's keeping you "on deck" in case her preferred prospect doesn't pan out. And you're about to do the same to Sarah.

Think about it. Suppose Brittany decides to choose you. If her other bf wants her back, I suspect she'd drop you in a heartbeat for him. Wouldn't that suck?

Eh, your hormones are kind of ruling you now. You really ought not be making commitments to anyone, or leading anyone on until you sort your own life out. Perhaps acknowledging that you're allowing your life to be controlled passively by Brittany might help you make an informed choice.

Im guessing your around 15 or 16 and therefore a "relationship" with either brittany or sarah will no doubt be pointless anyway. So my advice, fuck em both.

4sight, your right. I am 15. And I'm not one of those kids who tell a girl I love them because I know they want to hear it. I've never told a girl I love them, and I know that I'm not going to marry one of these girls. But that doesn't mean I don't like either of them.

deadlycindy, your even more right. I can't believe how obvious it is. She keeps dropping hints. She lies alot, just kidding around. And she keeps saying she's going to move until October and be back. Well that's when her ex is coming back. She must think I know that. But it's clear to me now. I just don't know how to put it. I was planning on saying something last night but my battery went dead. OK so next time i'll just say that I think your keeping me on hold to see if your ex comes back. And see what she says. Because tommorrow, me, sarah and brittany all work together. So I'll say something to her next time I'm on the phone. I'm pissed off that you guys know how obvious it is and it took me this long. And like I said before, I never make any strong commitments.