Hey guys, Jus tell me your opinion on the situation that i'm gonna put to you. Thanx. Now... I believe that women deserve respect in all ways, but just to the extent that they give to their partners. They are NOT a higher being NOR lower being. My girlfriend treats me like shit, and we are both 17 years old. She is pretty hot to me, but other girls say that I can get better because I am WAY better looking than her. Now this is probably true. But since she told me that I have to choose A; keep the 3 month relationship (having sex 2 times in this period) going but not drinking, smoking pot once in a while, or selling pot. and B; keep doing what i am doing which is what I enjoy, and not go out with her. I think I can't be held down in my last year of school and be treated like shit. She didn't get mad when she found out I made-out with a girl at a party last night, which makes me suspicious, that she may have done the same with her old boyfriend while I was working over Christmas Holidays???!!! Basically you guys are probably gonna call me a dumb ass for not thinking for myself, and even asking you these questions. But I know somewhere on this forum there is a sensible person that can relate to this situation. EVERYONE, including her best friends, tell me that I can do better, and am hotter than her. She doesn't treat anyone else like that...by hitting them slapping them, making them think that they are ugly, stupid, and when confronted, replies with a "you're such a baby, suck it up!!!" Now it's not like it hurts, but what the fuck??? So, I picked plan B. I told her that I will not change for her, because she is not worth it. I can't stand her childish ways when no one is around, and she puts me down all the time, and has like no girlfriends, just guy friends. Now guys, we all know what that's like. Jealousy!? And they ALL do drugs. Blow, Meth., Heroin, X, etc. Not just weed. I said fuck-it. There are more fish in the sea, and life goes on. Well this is more of a confession, but if you can come from where I stand, i'm sure that you will see this selfish, 'allways right', bitchy, impolite, little ugly bitch in your mind. Well.. positive feedback would be cool, but if not, that's ok too. Later.

DKL

I can safely tell you that you made the right choice to dump her ass.

If it was to the point where she was holding your life down and keeping you from having a normal healthly life then i would have done the same thing.

(CHEESY BUT WISE)

Our lives are like Cars on a road.

And every now and then we tend to find that a part on our car just isn't working and we're not going as fast as we should be...So what do we do?...We change the part.

(/CHEESY BUT WISE)

What i'm saying is find a girlfriend who can accept who you are and what you do.

Man she had you on a short leash, but nice that you broke free! fly my son! fly.... yaaaay

No seriously, it was definitely the right choice.

This is a no-brainer. Of course you did the right thing. She was on the verge of making you her bitch.

Point at her and laugh whenever you get the chance.