when i make out with a girl (any girl) i cant close my eyes. everybody i know, guys and girls all say they close their eyes when they kiss but unless i concentrate really hard on it i just cant do it. and it makes me feel really weird to have to look at her while doing it and she has her eyes closed.

what the fuck is wrong with me?

You're just weird.

i like to open my eyes sometimes and just look at the girl if shes hot.

see, for most people it feels natural to close your eyes and look occasionally. i find it blatantly "uncomfortable" to have my eyes closed.

who cares? If you're uncomfortable looking at her, close your eyes. If you're uncomfortable having your eyes closed leave them open. If you're uncomfortable either way, tough luck! It's one or the other.

I always try to close my eyes, but I get really bored really quick. But, you have to stick out the eye boredness and focus on kissing. Trust me you do not want to have your eyes open and then the person you are kissing open their eyes. It's pretty not fun. Just concentrate harder on kissing and close the eyes

you have to relax and don't worry, not only will you then maybe be capable of closin your eyes, it will also not make you care if you can or not

maybe you have no eye lids

have you checked lately?

^^^^^ LOL. That was funny. Um... I agree with the comfort thing. I close my eyes when I'm frenching cuz i dont know... I guess im enjoying the pleasure. I close my eyes when I fuck sometimes too for the same reason... unless im on top and want to see the look of pleasure on his face.

~Amber~

maybe hes just scared of the dark ??

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

maybe hes just scared of the dark ??

if your right, he must not sleep much.....

or maybe hes invisible and when he closes his eyes he doesnt notice coz he sees through them! yes, that sounds much more plausable!

i dont sleep ever...coz im up all night making out !

Haven't you heard the song....."Don't want to close my eyes..." ? (hee hee)!! MY eyes are always open to see the guy. Most guys close their eyes, I think, but open them briefly, then close them again, then open, etc.. I think it's because the girl has put them up on a fluffy cloud at that moment, and he just can't help it!! (hee hee)!! But I like to look at them, because it incrases my own pleasure, ecstacy and happiness to see all his crazy -- sometimes incredibly goofy -- facial expressions and his wild thrashing around. That way I can SEE with my own eyes that he is enjoying ecstacy, and just seeing what I am doing to him makes me happy, hot, and explosive too!!! Love, Venus.

yeah i open my eyes, i like to see the faces my gf makes when shes kissing me. Shes silly. yeah and idk its kinda fun

My girlfriend and i keep our eyes open, it makes the moment hotter actually, more intimate and passionate. But maybe thats just us...

Even though i've never had that problem...Here's something to say in case a girl asks you why you don't close your eyes.

Just say...Your so beatiful that i just can't take my eyes off you...Even when i'm suppost to.

See?

That works.

^^^

I like it.. i had an excuse like that before for something.. but i forget it.. blah, if i remember i'll post it.

yknow, if shes got her eyes closed, and you dont, essentially, youve got your eyes closed too

nobody is the wiser

ts

Close your eyes. Not for you partners sake, but for my sake, and the sake of innocent by standers everywhere.

How many times have you been at a restaurant, on a bus, or somewhere public when a two people start going at it, and one of the IS LOOKING RIGHT AT YOU! AGH! It's so creepy! Why the fuck would you be looking at me while you're tonguing someone else? Well... besides the obvious reasons.