Hey people....

What do you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend do something to them selves that you dont like?? (example : a piercing or some sort)

Tell them you don't like it.

Unless it's a tat. NEVER tell someone you don't like their tat.

You mind your own business... it's their body and they have a right to decorate it however they please. How would you feel if your partner decided to tell you what and what not to do with your body? Doubt you'd like it very much if they 'dissapproved' of the haircut you were thinking of getting.

Your opinion should matter to your partner, but a piercing or tattoo shouldn't change your opinion of them in the first place.

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

You mind your own business... it's their body and they have a right to decorate it however they please. How would you feel if your partner decided to tell you what and what not to do with your body? Doubt you'd like it very much if they 'dissapproved' of the haircut you were thinking of getting.

Your opinion should matter to your partner, but a piercing or tattoo shouldn't change your opinion of them in the first place.

ok well for your information.... im not telling him what to do and if your argueing with me your argueing with him aswell.

[This message has been edited by Jesse's babe (edited 01-26-2004).]

Arguing? Who said anyting about arguing? You asked what do you say or do... so I answered. That's what you say and do, mind your own business.

Feel free to tell him you don't approve, but having a sound reason for not approving is better than speaking from ignorance or half-assed personal opinion. Sound reasons might include: the expense (perhaps the money could be better spent?), the maintenence (if he can't remember to feed the dog, he can't handle the necessary upkeep of a piercing), job prospects, the high percentage of folks who regret the piercings later (some documented info would help), medical complications (again, be armed with info.)

I <3 piercings

lol, i like these 2 posters...the bf and gf...shes too stupid to realise that if she posts something here for advice on her bf, he will see..and hes a complete spacko..hes gonna go skitz at me for saying this lol..

oh yeah, tell him. but he already knows now...

Shittie

at least he actually has a girlfriend

Should have been more ambiguous. "I have a friend that has a boyfriend that wants to get a piercing".

seriously, if you get on it early enough and say that he's sexier without it male vanity will do the rest.

All depends! I mean pircing and all is hardly life threatening so I think I would just let them go ahead without saying much if anything! Ok if it was something really stupid that you know they will regret in a few years like a big tattoo on thir forehead or some shit like that well then say something but if its something simple just go with it!

I mean I have had to lsten to my g/f doing all that and a whole lot of other things that are not good for anyones health but in her case could be life threatening!

im not going to have ago at any one, she told me that it would look good so i'll get it done. she said she was just asking every one on here. she doesnt mind if i do so its all cool.

A pierced tonge is a major turn off! I wouldnt ever hang around a girl with a pierced tonge because it looks like shit, its nasty and I wouldnt want to hang around a person that likes sticking objects in her mouth...

piercings are awesome. the more the merrier on any girl.

dont tell him not to do it. they look good. except if hes getting something fucked up like the back of his neck or bridge of his nose.

quote:Originally posted by ShitFace:

lol, i like these 2 posters...the bf and gf...shes too stupid to realise that if she posts something here for advice on her bf, he will see..and hes a complete spacko..hes gonna go skitz at me for saying this lol..

oh yeah, tell him. but he already knows now...

Shittie

i didnt care if he saw this post or not i just asked a simple question and i only wonted a simple answer.....and i wasn't talking about him when i posted this cause i wont him to get his eye brow done... so shut the fuck up

[This message has been edited by Jesse's babe (edited 01-27-2004).]

*bump* (hehehe im bored)

quote:Originally posted by paintballpunk:

I wouldnt want to hang around a person that likes sticking objects in her mouth...

What, like penises?

quote:Originally posted by paintballpunk:

A pierced tonge is a major turn off! I wouldnt ever hang around a girl with a pierced tonge because it looks like shit, its nasty and I wouldnt want to hang around a person that likes sticking objects in her mouth...

I dont get it..... whats sooo bad about chicks getting there tounge done?? whats the big deal ??

the fact that it makes them look slutty like they have no respect for their body. every guy i no thinks that a chick with a tounge ring is a slut straight away.

Well your friends are ignorant.

Thats the same as saying all muslims are terroists.

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

the fact that it makes them look slutty like they have no respect for their body. every guy i no thinks that a chick with a tounge ring is a slut straight away.

This is true. How many girls REALLY get toung rings because it LOOKS COOL? probably 3.

tongue rings are hot as. she's not a slut just coz she has it. the only piercing a girl should NOT get is the eyebrow.

dont worry about all that bullshit they say about ure face dropping. its all crap. do u really think there is some magic nerve that runs from ure eyebrow to under your lip to the tops of your ears and across your nipples that will make all your muscles drop? its just crap somebody made up to scare their kid out of getting piercing.

piercings are hot. the end.

quote:piercings are hot. the end

Well, im glad thats sorted.

I dont see this relationship lasting whilst their both registered here

quote:Originally posted by paintballpunk:

A pierced tonge is a major turn off! I wouldnt ever hang around a girl with a pierced tonge because it looks like shit, its nasty and I wouldnt want to hang around a person that likes sticking objects in her mouth...

You're one closed minded little bitch, aren't you? God, I would hate to your friend...

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

the fact that it makes them look slutty like they have no respect for their body. every guy i no thinks that a chick with a tounge ring is a slut straight away.

Every guy you know, huh? You must live in solitary confinement...

I love piercings, whether it be on a guy or a girl. Just because someone gets a peircing, it doesn't mean they don't respect their body. I have many peircings and I respect myself and my body more than anyone. But I'm not a girl so what do I know???

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

the fact that it makes them look slutty like they have no respect for their body. every guy i no thinks that a chick with a tounge ring is a slut straight away.

Fuck you too. So liking piercings makes me a slut? How? Because it makes head even better for guys? Not everyone is like that. Yeah, I give my boyfriend head and he thinks it's great(I rock!), but we've been together forever. I got it because it looks good and I was bored(this is how I always end up getting pierced, sadly enough).

I think you're just jealous because you aren't getting any. Honestly, you and your girlfriend are talking throught TotSE. Gee, great relationship. Also, both of you sound like complete fucktards. Jeez, what are you? Twelve?

quote:Originally posted by Purple Phreaxxx:

Fuck you too. So liking piercings makes me a slut? How? Because it makes head even better for guys? Not everyone is like that. Yeah, I give my boyfriend head and he thinks it's great(I rock!), but we've been together forever. I got it because it looks good and I was bored(this is how I always end up getting pierced, sadly enough).

I think you're just jealous because you aren't getting any. Honestly, you and your girlfriend are talking throught TotSE. Gee, great relationship. Also, both of you sound like complete fucktards. Jeez, what are you? Twelve?

Well i have to agree with you on one thing.... i dont under stand how getting a piercing makes a girl a slut?? thats just stupid.

and.No..... where not tweleve, except im only a yr off it, and hes 15 y.o!!

And where not talking through totse. We do have a life apart from the net.

our relationship doesnt revolve around totse, any thing we say or ask on here has already been talked about between us and we just want to know other peoples opinions. so go get fucked you fucking retard, do you really think we care what ass hats like you who cant get a real partner in life says about us??.......NO!

[This message has been edited by 30-06 (edited 01-28-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

our relationship doesnt revolve around totse, any thing we say or ask on here has already been talked about between us and we just want to know other peoples opinions. so go get fucked you fucking retard, do you really think we care what ass hats like you who cant get a real partner in life says about us??.......NO!

[This message has been edited by 30-06 (edited 01-28-2004).]

I think you do. Why else do you want other peoples opinions for unless you take that into regard in real life?

aw geez, you guys, why the hell are you argueing about this? im an old lady with piercings, tats, give great head, have grandkids, and am on totse all the time. some of you, just need to grow up a little more, and at least argue about something worthwhile. like who hates choad? lol

I think hes angry cause I said what he's thinking. The truth hurts

quote:Originally posted by SHELLI:

aw geez, you guys, why the hell are you argueing about this? im an old lady with piercings, tats, give great head, have grandkids, and am on totse all the time. some of you, just need to grow up a little more, and at least argue about something worthwhile. like who hates choad? lol

Amen, Shelli... by the way, do you really give great head???

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

go get fucked you fucking retard, do you really think we care what ass hats like you who cant get a real partner in life says about us??.......NO!

Hehe. Adorable. I made the ickle boy mad. Actually(not that it's any of your business) I have an amazing boyfriend who's also a god in bed.

I'm so in love! And your shitty insults just gave me a reason to gloat.

Yeah back on topic...

It's your body you do what you want with it. They can give you ideas or suggestions, but it's up to you in the end(unless they drug you and do it).

Throughout my last 2 relationships my gf's said i should get my tongue pierced. So what did i do?

I waiting til i was single, then did it.

girls need piercings. isn't it almost an unwritten rule that girls get their eears pierced at a young age? i dont see the problem with anything else.

besides. i already said this thread was sorted. piercings are hot.

quote:Originally posted by spunky_junky:

i already said this thread was sorted. piercings are hot.[/B]

Yeah you did say that this thread was sorted but i wont other peoples opinion, not just yours. The world doesn't revolve around you.