ok well i really like this girl that ive known for a long time and don't go to school with...but shes also one of my best friends....ive always like her and we have always had a great relationship just its never been anything but best friends...ive had a lot of experinces with this girl jus like staying up till 7in the morning talking with like my head in her lap up looking into each others eyes or vice versa and stuff like taht...i jhavnt had a girl friend in quite some time (1 or 2 years) and im wondering if i should try and make some thing happen with this and if so how should i proceed about it? thanks to any one taht helps.

that's always a big problem. I say you try it. I asked one of my best friends out like twice and got rejected twice. Normally because of your friendship, small things like this is fogotten and you can just continue being friends. (it will take some time to heal though)

by the sounds of it she likes you as well but shes afriad to make the first move..... just for for it

Actually though, i was pretty close with the girl that i just mentioned too. Not AS close as you, but i have talked to her while having my head on her lap. I'm not trying to to discourage you. I still say GO FOR IT. don't regret it.

it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.

you have to go for it.

friends are forever, lovers, only for awhile.

well we know every thing about each other and talk about everything luteral....im just afraid taht if i make a move it will ruin things...i have a benefit buddy, tara, but i want a real relationship with this girl....i think ima go for it some time this weekprobley ill see if anything happens when she spends the night friday...thanks for the help and any oncoming help

fortune favors the bold...

ehh, just act extra flirty with her, see how she responds to it. if all goes well, you should have no troubles.

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Dont just go ahead, talk about it a little first, in a flirty manner, like

'say..imagine if we where stuck on a desert island together...'

Sort of thing.

lol taht could work "if a nuke hit and we were the only people left how would you feel about repopulating the eart???" lol

kinda weird....like i know all her g-spots n sexual type stuff as she dose know most of the kinda things i would like in bed but we hav never gone beyond like snuggling and sleeping together...well shes coming over friday to spend the night so i mays well try it then..i know if i jus wanted to get her in the sack all i would have to do is kiss her neck a couple of times and shed be there...infact..i should do taht

Is it wrong to get, well not turned on, but getting that lovey dovey feeling? cause thats what im getting

Who here actually doesnt like relationships?

I havent had a girlfriend for 4 years and I prefer it.

I still get action just with girls I dont know. Which means If im useless I dont have to hear about it