yeah so ive known this girl for about...oh i dunno, a week. and my dad left with his girlfriend for the night and i get a little lonely sometimes so i had this girl, lets call her, "cupholder". so i had cupholder over and we just talked till like 4:30 in the morning. just about love and life experiences and the like. and then we slept together. not in a sexual way. but we were in the same bed. then, when we woke up after a whoping 3 hours of sleep i drove her home.

so in short i had a wonderful night. just really happy that i had such a nice night because normally when my dad leaves for the night i just wallow in self-pity.

no real point to the story. just sharing.

where do you live?

....uh...i live in the US in upstate new york. why?

That's really cool, man.

Some of the best intimate experiences are non- sexual. That's good and it could lead to more and better things. I didn't surmise from your post that you feel like you failed in any way by not having sex with her, and in my opinion you succeeded... you had a great time, you set the stage for further involvement (if that's your goal), and you showed some restraint.. and talked too? Good for you, she should respect that and you should feel good about the experience...

-Extant

quote:Originally posted by Ducky:

That's really cool, man.



Stop rolling your eyes.

intimacy is a really hard thing to achieve with people, the fact that you slept with a girl and didn't want anything more just shows great maturity and wisdom. Now if you regret not going all the way with her then you are really stupid and will never understand or appreciate the experience you had with this girl was.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:



Stop rolling your eyes.

Stop projecting your own insincerity on other's posts. Roll your own damn eyes.

Oogsmash, thanks for sharing. I am curious, though: if she wanted to have sex, would you have done it?

to the people who were wondering-i really wasnt expecting sex or anything sexual. i really just wanted some company because ,like everyone else, i get lonely when im all alone in a great big house like mine.

cindy-that would be a big ol no. shes a virgin and i definatley wouldnt wanna take that without making it super romantic. a little make-out probably but only if she had made the first move...

quote:Originally posted by oogsmash:

to the people who were wondering-i really wasnt expecting sex or anything sexual. i really just wanted some company because ,like everyone else, i get lonely when im all alone in a great big house like mine.

cindy-that would be a big ol no. shes a virgin and i definatley wouldnt wanna take that without making it super romantic. a little make-out probably but only if she had made the first move...

Now that's a real saint.

I salute you dude

So were you attracted to this girl, or was it just a "i don't want to be alone" thing?

Will there be further involvement?

~ES

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:



Stop rolling your eyes.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Stop projecting your own insincerity on other's posts. Roll your own damn eyes.

Oogsmash, thanks for sharing. I am curious, though: if she wanted to have sex, would you have done it?

C'mon cindy give the guy a break... he's got a 4" dick for chrissakes... you know.. 'little dick complex' I'm sure you've heard of it. Oh, I'm not flaming him (and certainly not you)... he posted that info in another thread...

-Extant

Remember my "Erika" from the "Is it love ?" post, I would give anything in my power to have what you had with that girl. For sex, umm.. 30 bucks with some random hooker. Even then, I'd wish for a "Pretty Woman" scenario.

quote:Originally posted by Evolution of A Saint:

Now that's a real saint.

I salute you dude

So were you attracted to this girl, or was it just a "i don't want to be alone" thing?

Will there be further involvement?

~ES

well i knew that she thought i was "hot" or whatever for quite some time but we only just started talking and shes pretty hot too.

i really hope there will be further involvement but i think she might be a little wierded out...i mean ive talked to her a few times since but i dunno...getting a "creeped out" vibe. ill keep all you posted on it.

it's that i'm once more boycottin spurious, but otherwise i would add you to my favorite posters list

finally someone who can tell something ass beautiful as this, and not come here to brag or ask stupid ass question (ofcourse this does not apply to all threads, just most)

Sleeping with a girl can be far more intimate because you two can share each other's souls. Sex is merely physical. If I were given a choice between deep conversation and sending the night in bed, and having sex, I'd pick both. The best of both worlds.