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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-01-25, 06:21
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GlitterPunk112358 
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Is it ever okay to use someone?
There's this guy. He's kind of a dick and he only really cares about sex from me. We used to date and he did some assholey things. Now he's like super sorry about it (supposedly) and also really really wants to bone me. Now, would it be immoral to use how much he wants to bone me to my advantage by getting free weed and possibly other drugs from him? I would never say that I would fuck him, just sort of let him have hope. I wouldn't do it, but I would get free drugs until he got tired of my sick game. Is this wrong? Keep in mind that he's a horny asshole. And if you do think it's wrong, would there be any circumstance under which using someone would be okay?
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#2
 2004-01-25, 06:25
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toast_and_bananas2002 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
In your case its alright cuz hes just using you to get his thing wet. But like when someone goes out with someone else to get back at another someone than that sux for that other someone.
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#3
 2004-01-25, 07:14
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Depends would he spread it around that you are a crackwhore or would he be pefectly content getting blueballs from you?
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#4
 2004-01-25, 07:52
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Sure, go for it! He was going to use you, so now use him. Just remember all the good advice you got when you're loaded with his shit.
Best of luck with the whole stringing a guy along for drugs thing.
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#5
 2004-01-25, 08:52
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Weel your using him is just balancing out the universe.
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#6
 2004-01-25, 09:22
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
just use the bastard, more than 80% of chicks do it all the time and 40% of all peoplle no that 60% of satistics are made up 
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#7
 2004-01-25, 09:40
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
He also may not be stupid, you know. He could very well be like me; someone who will let you think you're winning and you're successfully manipulating, but turn everything around on you in the end.
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#8
 2004-01-25, 10:46
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GlitterPunk112358 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
i'm on mushies and i don't know what's happening. but i love you all.
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#9
 2004-01-25, 11:02
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Infrared 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Take care, Dorothy
And I encourage you to try morphine.
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#10
 2004-01-25, 12:10
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CatharticWeek 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:
i'm on mushies and i don't know what's happening. but i love you all.
Coherancy; check
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What kind of mushies are you on? When I take them I'm just compelled to shit in public.
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#11
 2004-01-25, 15:28
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Slurm 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Yes.
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#12
 2004-01-25, 21:12
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Joeb 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Yes. It's time to take it back.
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#13
 2004-01-25, 21:26
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GlitterPunk112358 
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:
Coherancy; check
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What kind of mushies are you on? When I take them I'm just compelled to shit in public.
Heh. I guess I'm just really good at typing. I was actually coming down when I wrote that, though. Thing is, I usually type with perfect capitalization and stuff.
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#14
 2004-01-25, 21:32
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Using people is the right thing to do. It teaches stupid motherfuckers a valuable life lesson. They learn how to watch their back and not get hurt. If you really want to get this guy back, fuck his brains out and make him think he can get away with treating women like shit. His life will eventually suck in a big way.
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#15
 2004-01-25, 21:35
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
you dont use people, people allow themselves to be used. if this guy is dumb enough and desperate enough to give a bitch, with nasty tits no less, anything to get laid, hes letting himself get used.
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#16
 2004-01-26, 02:46
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Normally, I would say don't punish a person for past mistakes, people change, forgive and forget yada yada yada.
But if really does just want to bone you, why the hell not use him?
If he falls for it, he deserves it.
-Nocuous
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#17
 2004-01-26, 03:38
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Using people, in general, is pretty stupid. Those who do it and think it's a good idea will eventually get the shit kicked out of them when they inevitably cross the wrong person.
We all have many choices in life. Those who choose to use people perpetuate hate, distrust and paranoia. Those who choose to treat others with respect find that they get respect in return, in the long run.
However, if you scored a bit of weed from this guy who was mean to you already, well, I can't say that's really "using" someone. But I have a soft spot for weed.
I suppose if you can sleep soundly through the night without the need for drugs, then your conscience is clear enough.
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#18
 2004-01-26, 03:50
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Nothing wrong, free drugs are good (for people that like drugs), and toying with an asshole that fucked with your life is always a good thing. 
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#19
 2004-01-26, 03:55
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:
There's this guy. He's kind of a dick and he only really cares about sex from me. We used to date and he did some assholey things. Now he's like super sorry about it (supposedly) and also really really wants to bone me. Now, would it be immoral to use how much he wants to bone me to my advantage by getting free weed and possibly other drugs from him? I would never say that I would fuck him, just sort of let him have hope. I wouldn't do it, but I would get free drugs until he got tired of my sick game. Is this wrong? Keep in mind that he's a horny asshole. And if you do think it's wrong, would there be any circumstance under which using someone would be okay?
lol, what if he laced your mushies/weed with a daterape drug? lol, he gets his sex and his drugs back.
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#20
 2004-01-26, 04:04
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
Well Glitter,
I'd say let his own karma catch up with him. You just keep you're eyes open next time. Or, if you want to, you can actually go out with him and dump him the first time he screws up.
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#21
 2004-01-26, 04:18
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:
Using people is the right thing to do.
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Scum bags who use people, for their own gain in life need their throats slit. I fucking hate people like that.
It is one thing to use the game someone is playing with you, against them.
It is a completely different thing to use someone, especially someone who can barely help themselves but is giving you the shirt they don't even have off their back, for your petty personal gain.
I've had several experiences with the latter, and as Cindy said they crossed the wrong person. I want to continue giving them their "lesson" after reading your post Easy... damn you. I try not to be violent but people like that cause me to get very sadistic towards them... not a side I can say I'm exactly proud of but fuck them leeches. I'll take great pleasure in their pain, or death.
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#22
 2004-01-26, 17:36
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
quote:Originally posted by Stryker:
I want to continue giving them their "lesson" after reading your post Easy... damn you.
LOL! My post was tongue in cheek because the topic question was stupid.
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#23
 2004-01-26, 17:38
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Re: Is it ever okay to use someone?
quote:Originally posted by Infrared:
Take care, Dorothy
And I encourage you to try morphine.
I encourage to STFU!!! You got your attention.
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