Ok, i just started going out with this girl last week, and still haven't kissed her yet. Does anyone know of any smooth operator kinda moves to do so that the first kiss will be memorable?

don't think of it as a solo performance. be sensitive. bite her lower lip (not too hard) and gently part her lips with your tongue. put your hands on her waist, and don't try to go up her shirt. as for getting into the first kiss, figure out if she's ready by touching her hair and telling her it looks nice, soft, etc, (while making playful/soulful/flirty/sexy/whatever eye contact). if she likes this, lean in, close your eyes and go for it.

Well, if you'retrying to be smooth you will undoubtedly fail... you just can't force things like the magic in a kiss.

Don't over-plan or overthink, just wherever, whenever, relax and let the moment take you.

quote:Originally posted by HollisterRobber:

Ok, i just started going out with this girl last week, and still haven't kissed her yet. Does anyone know of any smooth operator kinda moves to do so that the first kiss will be memorable?



ok ell here we go. ok well look at her and then tak your hand, start with the fingertips glide them from the cheek to the back of the head. you will end up with your thumb in front of the ear and the rest behind her head. then just go in and kiss her. play with her hair while you are kissing, so that she know you can do 2 things at once.



dont open your mouth so it looks like you want to swallow her, open then when you hit her lips.

That bottom lip thing is good. but if you can suck on her tounge. all the girls that i have kissed like to have their tounge sucked on.

another good thing is to shy away from kissing. liek start to turn your head, she will start kissing your cheeck, maybe your ear and your neck. this feels incredible.

kissing is diffrent for everyone. try your own style. i know that everyone of my exgfs loves the way i kiss.

oh yeah and you need a signature move. i think mine is sucking her tyounge, cause when a girl im making out with feels that she comes out witha happy supprised look.

No way you can be smooth on purpose. You can however, you can change the background of where you are. Like go for a walk on the beach when the sun is setting/rising. If you can get out that early that is.

I've technically discovered a loop hole to circumvent the awkwardness of the first kiss. You see, during your date or whenever you and your "friend" are together, sneak in the smaller kisses. It's a progressive way of leading into the first kiss that takes away from most of the tension. Say your at the movies, or wherever you're sitting next to her. You can be sweet and kiss her on the hand or the top of the head. The latter some people find odd, but it doesn't make it any less cute in their eyes. Then again, timing is basically everything, so...

Ah, to hell with it. Giving dating advice to someone is too arbitrary anyway. Just man up, I suppose.

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I think I had one of the best first kisses out of all of you. All you peoples' stories make me happy mine went so well

It was at my house, me, my girl and a few friends were hanging out on my driveway. So then suddenly my girl says, "Oh, I left something in your room, lemme go get it," and she gives me this look that says "come with me." So when we got in my room, it just kind of happened naturally from there. Since the look I knew that was what would happen, and it did, and it was good..

Best advice I can tell you is just don't try to make it anything, just go along with your instincts, don't try too hard or you'll end up screwing it up. Just go with the flow, pretty much. And do something with your hands, preferrably put them somewhere on her. They should find their place very easily if you're just calm and go with it all.

Have fun

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First kiss ALWAYS happens in the middle of a sentence. Well, not always. Usually though. It's more fun that way. Don't try to plan it man. Be all spontaneous and whatnot.

All I got to say is don't attempt your first kiss while shes laying on your shoulder and has her head slighlty below yours the angle is a bitch and will more then likly just be a fuck up. This happened to me, me and my ex where sitting on her couch my arm around her waist her sitting/laying half on me half on the couch and I knew she wanted to kiss me because her friend had told me this and I could see it in her eyes and I just said fuck it and went kiss her and bam it was horrible and I felt like the biggest ass ever. And I doubt you can plan it because things have to just happen all by them selves the first time I kissed her period not made out kiss it wasn't planned or anything shit I suprised myself, I was just like o shit I kissed her and walked off(this was during passing period at school) So just go with the flow man.



edit- listen to jojarb its true just go with your instincts, the kiss I fucked up on was a thought out and it fucked up but when I did succesfully kiss her it was on instincts and just felt right and yes your hands will find their way to her hips or somewhere its just natural or something.

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any of you madeout while you were high? hahahahahahahahha

Interestingly...yes. Dear god that is a horrible experience. Your senses are all heightened, but your body is reacting a bit slowly...makes it so foolish. We were trying to get in sync with the tongue dancing...but couldn't. So I said fuck it, requested a hand job, making-out stopped, and I got a handjob.

Worse than making out while high is making out with someone who thinks they're a fucking sucker-fish.

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any of you madeout while you were high? hahahahahahahahha

Haha, yeah, and it's freakin awesome.

start by watching a movie at either of your houses. make sure no one's home so there arn't any potential problems. pick a movie you both have seen and both enjoy (so she won't be paying more attention to the movie than you). cuddle on the couch w/ your hand around her waist or shoulder. lean your head on her shoulder. kiss her shoulder..then her cheek...then her lips....massage her figure w/out going up her shirt (yet, anyways).....

you can go from there

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quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

bite her lower lip (not too hard)With your teeth?!