Ok, here's the situation. I am going to be a junior and last summer a friend of mine told me this senior girl who is fucking incredible was really interested in me because she had seen me the night before at a party. I had a girlfriend then and up until about 3 months ago and right when that was over I tried to set things up with this senior girl, we will call her Rachel. So, we partied one night about a month ago and things went great and we hooked up. So for the last month we have been seeing each other a lot and she says she likes me a lot. The only problem is that she says she thinks we have been moving really fast and that she usually rushes into these relationships and then they end up being really bad. So she wants to slow everything down because she really likes me and doesn't want to mess anything up. I don't really know what to think about it, if she really does like me a lot and is doing it to save the relationship I will go along with it, but I don't really know what to do. I want to know if there is anything I can do to show her that I am for real and that her liking me isn't wrong and it would work out without any of this because she is a senior and will be leaving for college next fall and I want to spend as much time as possible with her because I know I found out not only is she fine as shit, she is one of the coolest girls I have ever met because she really likes me for who I am. I need advice about what to do. A girls opinion no this is always nice.

wow congrats on finding mutual attraction. its always hard to come by. my advice (which is very biased since im a girl) is to PLAY IT COOL. i know this probably goes against your intuition, but since she's saying that things are "going too fast," this is probably the best thing to do. you said that you want to spend as much time as possible with her, which i think is a bad thing to express to her or act upon. if i were you i wouldn't call her that often (every 4 days max) and try to hang out with the guys. if she says she wants to hang out, be unavailable sometimes. this will confuse her (in a good way) and she'll very soon change her mind about the whole "moving too fast" thing.

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quote:Originally posted by [th3daywalk3r]:

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cram it

My opinion seems to always contrast with every other female in the world, but I'm saying it anyway. Fuck going slow. You're young, have fun, go crazy. Don't expect this long, boring, monotonous relationship. And if she's so awesome, she can understand where you're coming from. Unless she's frigid. Then that sucks for you man. You're not getting annnnnnnnnnnyyyyyyyywhere soon.

quote:Originally posted by guernica:

My opinion seems to always contrast with every other female in the world, but I'm saying it anyway. Fuck going slow. You're young, have fun, go crazy. Don't expect this long, boring, monotonous relationship. And if she's so awesome, she can understand where you're coming from. Unless she's frigid. Then that sucks for you man. You're not getting annnnnnnnnnnyyyyyyyywhere soon.



Hmm... have you gone through puberty yet? I've heard pf cases of spontaneous sex xhange during puberty... It's called pseuodohermaphroditism, in case you cared... Anyway, I bring this up because that post was more masculine than most of the genuinely male posts here.

Or perhaps Guernica is just somewhat intelligent as opposed to most women in the dating arena?