Hey

My girlfriend doesnt like to use condoms when we have sex. What are the odds of pregnancy under that condition? I mean, the odds be tipped more in my favor (her not being pregnant afterwards) if I were to jerk off a whole lot like, the day before? And if she does get pregnant...what about emergency contraception? Shes been out of town for a few weeks, and she wants to have sex when she gets home tomorrow, so this question is kind of urgent. Any helpful information would be greatly appreciated.

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IhiLani

If she's on the pill, it should be safe. And if you really want to be sure, she can take a morning after pill.

The odds for pregnancy shoot up withou using a condom. If she's on the pill, it should be okay. You can always hedge your bets by doing the mornign after pill too. But in reality, damn it's just cheaper to buy a pack of rubbers. Does she want to get pregnant, si that why she doesn't want condoms?

your girlfriend is pretty fuckin stupid.

no not about preferring not using condoms... but you shouldn't do it unless she is on the pill

DUH

well i am on the pill and there is no way i would go back to using condoms

if you really love her, use a condom everytime.

Spermicidal lube in combination with the pill should do it really, but I agree with everyone else, condoms are necessary for a guarantee.

she probably doesnt want to use a condom because she thinks (or knows) it will be better for your pleasure that way. about what people said about the morning after pill, they are wrong because it is only for EMERGENCIES. i've taken it: it's expensive and it makes you nauseous. and its not even a guarantee. i suggest talking to your gf. if she insists that her desire to fuck w/o condoms has nothing to do with your pleasure and she just likes it that way or something, then use spermicide and make sure she's on the pill.

There is no chance that she's going to get pregnant. There is no chance that you'll be responsible for the baby. There is no chance that you'll end up living in a trailer working a dead end, manual labor type job. There is no chance that you won't get to finish your education which contrary to popular belief will actually help you find a job. There is no chance that she'll resent you for taking away her youth by making her a mother before her time. There is no chance of you being in a loveless marriage with a child you resent for taking away all your fun years by having to care for that child. There is no chance that that child will end up screwed up because both parents resent having it so early. There is no chance that ANY of this could possibly happen to you.

I think the rhythum method works pretty well.

Maybe you could wish on a star, or ask Santa to keep her from getting pregnant.

Wake up, just wear a damn condom.

wow, was that too harsh?

Is she on the pill?

If she's on the pill, use spermicide and have fun.

If she's not on the pill, you really need to dump her.

Thats the kind of person that always ends up getting pregnant, and I dont think you'd want to be the father.

^Not harsh enough.

If she isn't on the pill, use a goddamn condom you idiot. Whatever her stupid reasons for not using a condom are, it’s not worth it. Who cares what the 'odds' are, there is probably a pretty good chance.

There are tons of variables that will increase and decrease your chances. You are not in control of these variables.

Let's say at best you've got 50/50. Is that worth it?

sex standing on head is only option.

also, install linux.

quote:Originally posted by what?:

sex standing on head is only option.

also, install linux.

ROFL, yeah. Linux is the best contraceptive. There's even a chance it will make you sterile. I forgot about that.

quote:Originally posted by SHELLI:

if you really love her, use a condom everytime.

Surely this is meant as an ironic joke. That would be funny. If you're serious, that's quite a crock of shit. No offense, but...really.

Condoms suck. I hate them. That said, you're playing with fire if pregnancy is an issue. Morning-after pills are not acceptable to rely on as contraception. At the very least, get her to use a diaphragm if the pill or depo-provera shots are not an option. Otherwise, figure out now what you're going to do when she gets pregnant.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Surely this is meant as an ironic joke. That would be funny. If you're serious, that's quite a crock of shit. No offense, but...really.

Condoms suck. I hate them. That said, you're playing with fire if pregnancy is an issue. Morning-after pills are not acceptable to rely on as contraception. At the very least, get her to use a diaphragm if the pill or depo-provera shots are not an option. Otherwise, figure out now what you're going to do when she gets pregnant.

I read something about a contraceptive they apply in a guy's forearm that is supposed to render him sterile for 3 years. It's supposed to be 100% safe as well. And should you decide you want to get your girl pregnant, it can be removed without much hassle.

ever thought about anal/oral or your could always use the at home abortion kit laxitives and a wire hanger.

Between the Bush Administration and threads like these.. I see where my tax dollars are headed.

quote:Originally posted by Extant:

Between the Bush Administration and threads like these.. I see where my tax dollars are headed.

hahaha, how can you even see the tax dollars after all this?

Bottom line_______________________

EC is not a completely reliable form of contriception. It is a very strong hormone that should not be used often. It is also very expensive ($40 for one pill).

As nocuous said, there are many variables that affect the chances on contriception that you are not in control of. Masterbating a lot beforehand may reduce your sperm count, but it will probably decrease your arousal during sex, hence descreasing the hardness of your erection (which is not what she wants) so you're better off using a condom.

Pulling out is (in)famous with the teenagers. It is also an (in)famous form of birth control and should never be used. I kind of agree with SHELLI on this point: if you love her or even care about her don't put her at such an avoidable and irrisponsible risk.

The pill...is wonderful. Tell her to get on it. Takes a month to become fully effective. If she takes it properly then she will have an almost 100% safe form of contriception. So tell her lazy ass to get out there and get the goddamn things.

And finally, condoms...been usin' 'em a lot in the past 4 days .

Yea, Id say youre all right. Its a damn wonder she hasnt gotten pregnant yet. How much to condoms decrease the overall experience?

quote:Originally posted by The_Reckoning:

condoms are necessary for a guarantee.

Umm.. No. Condoms can break or wear thin as well. The only guarantee is Abstinence. /cheesy

Is everyone forgetting the whole STI thing? If you have sex without a condom and haven't been checked you run the risk of getting an infection. Have you both been checked for STI's? If you have, then you can go ahead... but get her on the pill if she isn't already, ready the spermicidal lube and get to it.

DB

^^Not forgetting a thing. It's unthinkable for me to fuck someone I don't know well enough to determine the likelihood he has a disease/infection. If I think it's likely, or possible, I don't fuck him.

Then again, I'm odd in that I won't fuck anyone I haven't personally known for at least 4 months. In that time you learn a lot about someone. Maybe you need to be older to pick up the clues.

Those who choose to have sex with strangers might as well wear a condom since it can't be a truly intimate, meaningful encounter anyways.

quote:Originally posted by The_Reckoning:

Spermicidal lube in combination with the pill should do it really, but I agree with everyone else, condoms are necessary for a guarantee.

That lube shit doesn't really work too good, and if it did, I wouldn't be here to post this right now.

just dont ejaculate in her if u proceed with her wish...

i hate sex with condoms....

and i know it may make me sound like a cunt but i belive its the girls responsabilty to be on the pill if she isn't she deserves a unwanted kid....

but i always make sure...

my main worry is std's as i have never had any type of long trem relationship and most girls i sleep wih are complete sluts....

quote:Originally posted by Johnnx:

just dont ejaculate in her if u proceed with her wish...

This is NOT a good plan. Even if you pull out before ejaculating, the pre-ejaculate that is released during penetration almost always contains sperm. Don't be stupid, use condoms like its your job.

well I had unprotected sex with one girl for over a year...I never ejaculated in her once and she never fell pregnant...not wise but it happened...

And its not because of a low sperm count or she had difficulties in getting pregnant either...

Also I've never experienced this phenomenon called precum...in masturbating by myself or with a partner etc...

[This message has been edited by Johnnx (edited 02-02-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by Johnnx:

just dont ejaculate in her if u proceed with her wish...

yeah, but precum still has sperm in it, so ... if she's not on the pill, don't fuck her or dump her cuz there's no reason she should put herself at risk like that and you shouldn't either ... i don't care if it "feels better" it's not worth getting pregnant for and being a parent when you're not ready, basically, no pill = use condom or no sex, simple.

quote:Originally posted by Johnnx:



Also I've never experienced this phenomenon called precum...in masturbating by myself or with a partner etc...

Neither have I.