What would you do if your son and/or daughter came home and said they were gay? Me personally i would take the kick the homo out approach but that's me. What about you?

Say 'That's nice.', You see I could react badly and lose my son, or I could not be bothered by it (hell it's his life not mine) and keep getting on just fine with him.

Call 1-800-GIRLS.

Or beat the shit out of him...

Pray it's not because of the priest.

Say "Good for you, now I know why your girlfriends where screaming during that last slumber party."

I would say \/

go to your room

i seriously wouldn't care either way. he/she would recive father's love. no more, no less.

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Tell him it's ok,and hope it works for him.

For me, there would be no love lost. What his/her preference is would really be none of my business.

As long as he/she doesint go pedophile, its all cool.

i dont know, i'd probably end up kicking him/her out, or sending him/her away or some shit. no homosexuality in my house...ever...

quote:Originally posted by negative_zero:

i seriously wouldn't care either way. he/she would recive father's love. no more, no less.

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Definitely.

Btw- Fuck all you homophobes who say you'd beat up your children.

You should be the ones being beaten up.

seriously... he's your son for fucks sake. Why would you kick him out? If you wanna get pissy about it, YOU raised him. So you messed him up and made him gay! Yeah, sounds dumb doesn't it! Well, I was just showing you the other end of your own damn spectrum.

Gay incestual sex.

crap, love them no matter who they go fuck. they love you, no matter who you fucked. get it?

Sadly, I have parents who would beat me up and kick me out if they knew I was bi. That's some bullshit. I love them, but they probably wouldn't love me if they knew me better.

That's why I want to have 2 kids. I'll have an extra one to fall back on in case one is gay.

I'd be okay with it, as long as there's no sex in my house. It's not gonna mess up my life, so let them do whatever they want. Good idea with having 2 kids

Wouldn't matter to me. I'd just make sure their martial arts training is solid. Some of the responses in this thread should indicate why.

Fuck you if you'd beat your kid. If I knew you beat up your kid just because of their sexuality (which they cant help) I would shoot you in the fucking face.

quote:Originally posted by ate:

Call 1-800-GIRLS.

Or beat the shit out of him...

lol roger that.

I'd congradulate them for their good choice. Homosexuals are the coolest damn people I've ever met.

Edit: We are way too overpopulated anyway..

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First I wouldnt believe them if they tried lying and saying its "genetic". With social conditioning its almost impossible to claim its genetic.



Other then that I would be utterly disappointed by there chose of life.

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quote:Originally posted by prozak_jack:

That's why I want to have 2 kids. I'll have an extra one to fall back on in case one is gay.

DIPSHIT. sorry, couldnt help myself.

quote:Originally posted by proofisoutthere:

What would you do if your son and/or daughter came home and said they were gay? Me personally i would take the kick the homo out approach but that's me. What about you?

All the posts on this I"ve seen appear to be from younger people who have little experience at being.

I lived this question. My youngest daughter, Ann, was a vibrant child full of life and energy. She was a Daddy's girl and liked Boy things. She would pick GI Joe over Barbie and liked to fish and hunt. When she reached puberty she changed. Hormones raging, she realized at a very early age she was much more attracted sexually to girls. Having quite a set of balls (or maybe it was just the hormones), she propisitioned a couple of girls she knew from school. Within weeks she was branded "Dyke" by the whole student body (and some teachers) and ostracized from the society. Jeers, catcalls, and all sorts of negative comments and behaviors were directed toward her. She began refusing to go to school at age 14. That's against the law here. We took her to counselors and shrinks. The truant officer called. We explained the situation. Not wanting a lawsuit on their hands, the system caved in easily so that the people at school "got away with" robbing Ann of her education. For the next year or so she spent most of her time shut up in her room with black plastic trash bags taped over the windows. Her room became a very dark place at a dark time. She only went out occasionally with her older sisters. She some how managed to go through phases like we all do when growing. She went through a "goth" period long before it was cool. Got into Satanism until she realized Satan was just too limited. Did a little more than experiment with drugs. Tried sex with a guy or two. Didn't like it a whole lot. At about age 18 she met Bev. And things clicked. She now had a compatible partner. They went and did things together. Ann was introduced to a circle of friends that accepted her as she was. She came alive again. She got a job. She and Bev joined a Church and were Baptized in the name of Jesus fucking Christ and everything was fine until the Christians figured it out. Guess what, this segment of society also doesn't cotton to homosexuality. To make a long story short, Ann spent most of her life being forced to do without the common decency, respect, social rights, and other amenities most of us take for granted just because she was a Lesbian. Two weeks before her 21st birthday she shot herself to death with a .38. Her blood alchohol level was .11, legally intoxicated most anywhere. We want to think it was an accident. Based on statements by a friend who was with her, Ann, had been "playing" with the gun but had not said anything about killing herself. By comparison to where she had been, her life had improved considerably. We just don't want to think she had a motive for suicide. But if you look at the suicide rate for Homosexuals, it's way above the population in general. Our great society is so filled with bigotry, selfishness, and lack of concern for others that we seem to enjoy killing the ones that don't fit our picture of what they should be. I feel society is responsible, to some degree, for Ann's death. And of course I may have some responsibility as well. Maybe I should have encouraged her to get in the kitchen and bake cookies with Mom instead of helping me build a shed for the lawn mower. She didn't come with instructions on care or feeding.

Since then I've come to know a number of homosexuals personally, as people. They are real human beings. Not something to be disposed of because they're different and we don't like them. My obersvation is it is common for these people to have been reared in an environment where there was an overly strong role model (typically a parent figure) of the opposite sex in their life during their formative years. I know one gay guy who was raised by his Mother and an Aunt with his father being gone to the military and another whos mom and older sister raised him.

I just wish God would bless every goddamned queer hating son-of-a-bitch on the face of the planet with a dead homosexual child. Then maybe you bastards would understand. Sometimes when you try to force people into a mold God didn't create for them ( Did I make her the son I always wanted? Did Society make her the "woman" she should have been?) you pinch off the top of their goddamned head.

I don't care if there aren't any paragraphs- if you got down here, go read richard's post again.

There were paragraph, he just only hit enter once instead of twice to put a line between them. I tried killing myself several times because I couldn't deal with being bi, and a friend of mine tried to kill herself because she was bi and couldn't deal with it.

We live in a very unaccepting society. It is changing slowly though. I know so few truly homophobic kids these days. Most of my friends know I'm bi and only one of them is even against people being bi/gay, but they're cool with it anyways because it's part of me. I think Christianity has had a horrible impact on society when it comes to relationships...it's put so much pressure on Americans to be straight and find a partner to marry that those who don't follow the archetype are ostracized to the point of suicidal depression.

Homphobes are entitled to their beliefs. Just as they are forcing homos to accept their belief, homos also attempt to force their belief on others through acceptance.

If a homosexual kills themself, its their own issue, not someone elses. Just because they choose not only to accept the homophobe beliefs they choose to use it to act on themselves in the form of suicide.

Personaly if my son or daughter in the future happen to come home and tell me they was gay...Then they would be on the street.

Why the hell not?

It's not like i'm gonna lose a natural grandchild in the future or something...Lord knows only kids homo's have are adopted.

(unless they artificialy inseminate(sp?) in the case of females)

I just happen to think that in my opinion Homosexuality is NOT NATURAL.

The penis is meant to fit into the vagina...Not into the ass of another man.

Same thing with Females...The vagina is meant to accomadate a penis...Not rub against another vagina.

Call me a fucking Homophobe...Call me a racist...Hell call me a fuckin moron if you want to...But my opinion will always be that homosexuality is NOT NATURAL.

i you can't love your son/daughter after they say there gay,then get lost cause then you can't and ain't even a real father

P.S. i ain't gay

quote:Originally posted by Spirit Hero:

Personaly if my son or daughter in the future happen to come home and tell me they was gay...Then they would be on the street.

Why the hell not?

It's not like i'm gonna lose a natural grandchild in the future or something...Lord knows only kids homo's have are adopted.

(unless they artificialy inseminate(sp?) in the case of females)

I just happen to think that in my opinion Homosexuality is NOT NATURAL.

The penis is meant to fit into the vagina...Not into the ass of another man.

Same thing with Females...The vagina is meant to accomadate a penis...Not rub against another vagina.

Call me a fucking Homophobe...Call me a racist...Hell call me a fuckin moron if you want to...But my opinion will always be that homosexuality is NOT NATURAL.

You piece of shit. Who are you to dictate your own son's sexuality?

If you could kick your daughter/son out on the street that easily, then you don't deserve to call yourself a parent.

Well the way i see it Mr SD...

If my offspring shall go against the laws of nature that so many abide by...Then that seed shall be contaminated and thus must be purged from thy household.

And while i'm runnin my mouth...

Homophobia is a fake creation by the gays to make themselves feel better about everyone hating them.

Although i do not hate homosexuals...I know they go against nature and the natural flow of how things must work...And that is something that does not set well with me.

Calling a homophobe a piece of shit is no more morally justifiable than calling a homosexual a piece of shit.

I had a friend who was gay. We had been friends for about 6 or 7 years, then one day, he came out of the closet and started telling everyone he was bi. I had no problem with that.

His behavior changed drastically. Talking to him was like being trapped in an episode of will and grace, but even less funny. After a couple weeks, I caught him making fun of me behind my back. I have no patience for that kind of crap, so I just started ignoring him altogether.

I talked to him a few more times, but no matter how I explained it he couldn't grasp the idea that "I don't like you because you are too stupid." doesn't mean "I am a homophobe."

So you see, being gay is about more than sexual orientation for some people. It's like permission to behave badly and be thought of as clever.

If it was my daughter Id be allright with it.

If it was my son Id send him away and said if ever adopted a kid id kill him. Imagine how much theyd get shit put on them at school with two daddys.

And yes Im a homophobe (and probably a sexist too) so dont bother telling me

Good reply negative_zero. I agree. I have a daughter and It would not change anything between us.

quote:Originally posted by negative_zero:

i seriously wouldn't care either way. he/she would recive father's love. no more, no less.

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he would receive fathers love.. hmm in what way

I respect Richard for what he said and feel for him for what he went through. Now you're going to hear my story.

I am not gay. I've never thought about being gay. I'll never be gay. I am one hundred percent heterosexual. When I was younger, my mother always told me that you shouldn't hold anything against anyone, she told me to look at everything fresh, and give everyone a chance.

I met my neighbour. I knew him for two years before it was confirmed that he was a homosexual. For those two years, we partied togther with his friends on the weekends, (of course not always) and generally had fun. That changed.

One night, I was sitting there, with him, and he begin to get all serious like, I really didn't understand what he was talking about but I remember that he just kept saying that he liked me. I said he was a good guy, we have good times, what's the point. Then he literally grabbed my penis.

I was shocked, him doing that. I never expected it for a second. I pushed his hand away, and left uncomfortable.

Two days later, he phoned me, explaining that he was drunk and all that nonsense. I told him fine, but I won't be around much. He accepted that.

It was about a month later I was walking by and he was out there with his friends. They called me over and offered me a beer, which I accepted. We had good times and everyone left, leaving him and I alone. I wanted to leave, so I started drinking my beer fast, and that's when he got that same look on his face and he tried it again.

This time I was not so forgiving.

I explained to him that although I was of age, I was not a willing participant in this game. I was not a homosexual and I was not going to have any sort of relations. Furthermore, I was not going to have sexual relations with him. I continued by telling him that I was going to call the police, and report him for sexual harassment. He begged me not to do that, which led me to believe that he had been in trouble for this sort of thing before, and I bet with younger adults. He bribed me to stay quiet, with an ounce of some kickass pot, which I happily accepted.

Never again will I give gays the same respect that I once did. They had their chance and they blew it. As far as I'm concerned, a man with a femine voice is stupid, and watching two Dykes make out in a food court makes me want to projectile vomit all over them, and everyone else. It makes me unable to finish my meal.

Gays prevent me from eating my meal.

I don't plan on ever having children. Should I have children, if they choose to be gay, that would be their descision. I guess I would try as hard as I could to cover up the hate I have and try to love the child with the same love I would have for a heterosexual child. It would be hard for me though, very, very hard.

quote:Originally posted by Gsus:

Definitely.

Btw- Fuck all you homophobes who say you'd beat up your children.

You should be the ones being beaten up.

Agreed. What the fuck is wrong with all you people that cant just accept people for the way they are born.

I think a lot of kids that claim to be gay just say it for the attention, and an excuse to be little shitbags and get away with it.

If I ever had a kid that pathetic, I'd have to shoot myself.

If the kid is homosexual, there's nothing that can be done about that.

But I can't stand men that act feminine, I just couldn't live with that.

Well as a close friend of mine said when we discussed the matter of me being bi, "What the fuck does it matter to anyone else what you feel, its a free world, why should it matter if you love someone of the same sex or not."

True words indeed. Homophobs are just something that must follow any kind of change, if any tradition are broken, there will allways be people that disagree with the way things are headed, my advice is this:

See to history, hatred and fear has never solved anything.

Please ecscuse my poor spelling.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

I think Christianity has had a horrible impact on society when it comes to relationships...it's put so much pressure on Americans to be straight and find a partner to marry that those who don't follow the archetype are ostracized to the point of suicidal depression.



Because thats whats normal ya jabroni! I am tired of these homos, bis and trans who think what they are doing is normal. The world didnt give a fuck until you started being PROUD TO BE GAY/BI/TRANS. Why do you want to try and make it more acceptable for 'normal' people to try and understand why you do immoral acts? (and it dont take religion or a conservative for you to figure that one out!)

Bi's have it more easy because many end up going straight in the long run. Transvestites need shot, period. Homos are a joke. Scientists claim roughly 10% of the homosexual community feels they were born homosexual. The other 90% later grew into homosexuality. However then again the media only gives a damn about broadcasting Pro-Homosexual Anti-Straight shows on tv.

There are over 250 Gay-Straight Alliances around our nations major schools. The group itself isnt about Straights but how straights can better accept and be "tolerant" of homosexuals. BULLSHIT they should be tolerant of US!

Until homos can reproduce sit down and shut the fuck up, your arguement is as worthless as Bill Clinton saying he never inhaled marijuana so he couldnt have smoked it.

Give me a fucking break people you have taken liberal ideology and made it what this world should have been for tens of thousands of years.

There is a reason why shit happened and has been that way for many hundreds of years. People didnt just recently hate jews, people didnt recently see africans as a "lower" race. Things of the such has been conjugated throughout hundreds of years not because of recent trends that have now said "Opps people fucked up for thousands of years, and guess what, Generation X its all YOUR FAULT!"

I am Generation X and I am fucking sick of it all.

The common joke is a straight teenage white male has it the worst of all others in society. White Mans burden, not Woman either they are a protected people too.

I get fucked by this social degeneracy because I am not gay, a woman, a minority or a jew/muslim/hindu/any non-christian religion.

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quote:Originally posted by Mr. Self Destruct:

You piece of shit. Who are you to dictate your own son's sexuality?



Thats what parents do. They dictate the lives of there children. Would you let your 13 year old girl date a 30 year old man because she loves him? No, therefore any arguement you have has been simply reversed. Your parents force you to go to school. Why? Because its in YOUR best interest. Changing someones sexuality is not just in their, your, but MANKINDS best interest. If this whole world fucked our or gender tell me what would the future bring? I admit there are too many people and billions should die on this world, but that doesnt mean we can afford to "accomodate" someones own sexual preferences.

Before the sexual revolution gays had there own clicks going on like they have for generations. Now suddenly, mysteriously MILLIONS our now gay in this country. Give me a break sir.



quote:If you could kick your daughter/son out on the street that easily, then you don't deserve to call yourself a parent.



If you dont take measures to alter there lifestyle you are also a bad parent. Once more why would you stop someone who is twice your daughters age from having sex with her? Why would you not stop your son/daughter from having sex with there own gender? Its a simple thought yet it has been so turned upside down by liberals in the 60's that now what was once a known BAD is now a selective GOOD. In a few years history has been rewritten to where homos are and always have been a part of society and were nothing more then persecuted peoples for some unknown reason because in todays time its "normal". This is what I fore see in our future.

I call gays the *New* Jews. Always whining and bitching about being persecuted, for all its worth unntil people get anonyed and then they pull some other stunt to give them persecuted status again. While all the time not knowing that hetrosexuals, non-jews have also been persecuted.

Ignorance is Bliss... it sure is.

quote:Originally posted by -|)arkon3-:

Agreed. What the fuck is wrong with all you people that cant just accept people for the way they are born.



Science hasnt proved that.

If it was me i would let my son fuck guys or my daughter screw girls... its their choice... as long as they are happy

i would say nothing, be happy for them that they came out of closet

it happens

and i'm bi so i can't blame him for fallin for either sex'es

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

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Because thats whats normal ya jabroni! I am tired of these homos, bis and trans who think what they are doing is normal. The world didnt give a fuck until you started being PROUD TO BE GAY/BI/TRANS. Why do you want to try and make it more acceptable for 'normal' people to try and understand why you do immoral acts? (and it dont take religion or a conservative for you to figure that one out!)

Bi's have it more easy because many end up going straight in the long run. Transvestites need shot, period. Homos are a joke. Scientists claim roughly 10% of the homosexual community feels they were born homosexual. The other 90% later grew into homosexuality. However then again the media only gives a damn about broadcasting Pro-Homosexual Anti-Straight shows on tv.

There are over 250 Gay-Straight Alliances around our nations major schools. The group itself isnt about Straights but how straights can better accept and be "tolerant" of homosexuals. BULLSHIT they should be tolerant of US!

Until homos can reproduce sit down and shut the fuck up, your arguement is as worthless as Bill Clinton saying he never inhaled marijuana so he couldnt have smoked it.

Give me a fucking break people you have taken liberal ideology and made it what this world should have been for tens of thousands of years.

There is a reason why shit happened and has been that way for many hundreds of years. People didnt just recently hate jews, people didnt recently see africans as a "lower" race. Things of the such has been conjugated throughout hundreds of years not because of recent trends that have now said "Opps people fucked up for thousands of years, and guess what, Generation X its all YOUR FAULT!"

I am Generation X and I am fucking sick of it all.

The common joke is a straight teenage white male has it the worst of all others in society. White Mans burden, not Woman either they are a protected people too.

I get fucked by this social degeneracy because I am not gay, a woman, a minority or a jew/muslim/hindu/any non-christian religion.

[B]

Couldn't have said if better myself LSA.

Very good logic and very good post.

And it shows exactly why homosexuality is not natural.

Can homo's have kids?...No

The human race is designed to reproduce and bring about a new generation that will succeeed itself.

Homosexuality defies everything that the human race stands for.

Now what i'm saying isn't just an opinion of someone...It is without a doubt logical fact.

I wouldnt care, i'd say. "Well hell, its your choice! You're still my flesh and blood and i love you" or some shit... Okay, i overdid that a bit, but yeah, its true.

Ah, another thing... If you think homosexuality is unnatrual, thats okay too... but dont take it out on your child because they chose to take another path. What, your son/daughter is only there for making you kids? All they're for is reproduction and you dont love them in any way except that?