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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-01-23, 03:58
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Border Bandit 
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an odd situation...
My neighbor's 15 yr old daughter is ditching school, coming home around 9:30 am and having sex with some older guys (18 or 19 I'd guess) I can easily see in the window, and it's very difficult not to look.
Should I just enjoy the show, or should I tell my neighbor what's going on?
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#2
 2004-01-23, 04:10
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Mackofett 
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Re: an odd situation...
All depends! What age are you?
If you are in your teens, then fuck off shut up and mind your business while enjoying the show!
If you are of adult age then quit gawking at your neghbours kid while dreaming of cradle snatching and do the responsible thing!
Seeing as Im thinking you are a teen because you have asked in the first place Id say just enjoy the former and when you are older do the latter!
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#3
 2004-01-23, 07:26
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deadlycindy 
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Re: an odd situation...
When in doubt, mind your own business.
How well do you know your neighbor? If you're tight buddies, you might off-handedly mention you've seen his daughter walking into the house. I'd be very wary about mentioning the sex stuff. Even if you're good friends, he may not appreciate the mental image of you playing Peeping Tom to his daughter's adventures.
Or you can "enjoy the show." I don't think there's anything illegal about that.
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#4
 2004-01-23, 08:12
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Re: an odd situation...
Not that I care, but incidentally, I do think it would be illegal... They could probably get you for knowing a minor was being corrupted and not doing anything to stop it.
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#5
 2004-01-23, 08:20
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streetjusticeforall 
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Re: an odd situation...
If u dont shut up and masterbate while watching then please remove your penis at once.
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#6
 2004-01-23, 08:27
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Re: an odd situation...
Barring a forbidding age difference, you should go introduce yourself to her, that's what.
~Snake
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#7
 2004-01-23, 18:39
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deadlycindy 
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Re: an odd situation...
quote:Originally posted by Asumoru:
Not that I care, but incidentally, I do think it would be illegal... They could probably get you for knowing a minor was being corrupted and not doing anything to stop it.
References, please?
It would be hard to get the "good Samaritan" law to apply here since the "victim" is not actively calling for help. Plus, when in doubt, "deny everything." "Knowing a minor is being corrupted" isn't exactly a law or statute, though the wording may exist in the context of other laws. I'm obviously not a lawyer, but I doubt anyone here is.
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#8
 2004-01-23, 20:31
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Re: an odd situation...
truthfully, in a court theirs a good chance that it could be considered aiding and abetting to statuatory rape. (especially since it has repeatedly happened). Knowing about any illegal activity and not reporting it technically is not allowed. But, if you dont tell the parents and the girl doesn't realize it, you're pretty much in the free.
if it was me, i would just learn to ignore it , and dont tell the parents. As cindy said, you could tell them that she is coming home early, but if they happen catch her with the blinds open, they'll know you could have been watching, and things could go bad from there.
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#9
 2004-01-23, 23:56
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Miller 
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Re: an odd situation...
i would just love to see what would happen if her parents came home while it was happening....
seeing somethign like that would just make my day....
Tell her that if she doesn't fuck you, then you'll tell her parents! a little bit of blackmail can go a long way 
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#10
 2004-01-24, 00:20
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Cytract 
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Re: an odd situation...
if i was in the same position, the above idea would be very tempting... 
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#11
 2004-01-24, 01:16
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Spiffy McBang 
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Re: an odd situation...
What about the girl? Is she a fuckup? Does she seem destined to a wretched fate? She's certainly not on a good track if she's ditching school to fuck older guys. If her parents did catch her, would they be able to effectively discipline her so that she'd get her ass back in school, or would she start ditching again?
There's something to be said for minding your own business, but are you sure it wouldn't be good for her, in the long run, to be found out (at least for skipping school)? That might be the case. It might also be that her parents finding out will only strengthen her resolve to be a rebel or whatever, and if left to wear herself out on this lifestyle, she'll stop doing it faster than she would if you stick your nose in.
It's a judgment call based on how well you (and what you know about) the girl and her parents. If you do say something, though, you might be best served waiting until a day comes when you see her come home early and then you happen to be talking to her parents. Ask how she's doing, then, if they say she's fine, say oh, really? I thought she might be sick, since she came home early and all. When they turn real pale, your job is done.
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#12
 2004-01-25, 04:11
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Re: an odd situation...
Well, I should give some background... I know the father pretty well, and I'm older, for whoever it was that asked. The daughter isn't exactly a pillar of society, but then, she's not a gang bangin' killer either. She's very physically mature... and very permiscuous. eg, my friend was talking with me in the garage smoking a cigarette, friendly banter ensued and she said, "I prefer to suck other things than cigarettes."
I've considered mentioning it to the father, but I KNOW that my anonimity would be out the window... he blows up fairly easily.
I asked my current gf about it, and she concurred that I should just masturbate and keep the knowledge to myself.
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#13
 2004-01-25, 16:03
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aka Chino 
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Re: an odd situation...
Just forget about it man. If you wanna watch, watch, but leave it at that. It ain't your daughter, it ain't your life. Just leave it.
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#14
 2004-01-25, 16:29
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Extant 
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Re: an odd situation...
Morality and the law. Legally, you're in much the same situation as if you were to be stopped at a red light, witness an accident in the intersection and drive off. Failure to render aid. In your case it would be considered misprision of a felony, knowing a felony is being committed and failing to inform authorities. Of course it would be very hard to prove you were looking through the blinds and seeing anything.
Morally, if this girl is inviting these guys into her (parents) house and having sex with them it's consensual and nobodys business but hers, theirs and of course the parents, since it's their house. When I say consensual I'm not talking 'legally' as that varies from state to state, most likely she's unable to consent to anything in that sense.
If I were the father in this case, and you told me what was going on; first of all I wouldn't be upset with you, why should I be? You obviously were concerned about my kids' welfare. I wouldn't be too happy with my daughter, skipping school and having sex. Most likely I'd confront her head-on with it, calmly, and come to an understanding of what is and isn't acceptable while she's living under my roof. As far as the skipping classes, I'd take her to Spurious Generalities here at totse and show her what kind of end result she could expect from her lack of education.. that should make her think twice. As for the sex, I would be stupid to believe she'd stop 'cause I told her to. I would however make damn sure she was up to date on using protection and very sure of the consequences of not using any. I'm not saying I would encourage her to have sex at all, just that "this" is gonna happen if you come home pregnant, etcetera...
Lastly, I'd keep a closer eye on my daughter.. not to the point of spying on her, but she'd know she was in the barrel.
-Extant
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#15
 2004-01-25, 16:44
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Sarcophagus 
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Re: an odd situation...
You might consider an anonymous note? "From a concerned neighbor" type thing. This at least clues in the father, but keeps you in the clear.
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#16
 2004-01-25, 16:54
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Mackofett 
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Re: an odd situation...
You say that her father can have a temper so what happens if he catches her at it hen she decides to say you knew about it or something like that dragging you into it.
I think you need to at this stage especially if she has made a bit of a pass at you do something. Id just approach her and tell her that someone else maye another neighbour came to you and was talking about seeing her at it in the house or something and tell her she needs to be more discreet in future.
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#17
 2004-01-25, 17:26
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TexasLiberationArmy 
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Re: an odd situation...
GO with the aboe idea- Be like i dont kno if its true or not but the neighbor said they were gonna go to your dad if they saw it one more time. 2 things will happen A she will stop or B she will do it somewhere else.
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#18
 2004-01-25, 19:49
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lauren7249 
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Re: an odd situation...
don't tell him or clue him in. even if shes 15, its still her business. and plus if her parents found out and knew that someone told on her, she'd feel like the whole world was against her. imagine how you would feel if you're privacy was invaded like that.
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#19
 2004-01-25, 21:48
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Re: an odd situation...
Let the girl have her fun(and have yours at the same time). And when she gets pregnant and doesn't know who the father is sit back and laugh.
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#20
 2004-01-25, 22:05
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Sarcophagus 
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Re: an odd situation...
To tell the daughter about what you know is the dumbest idea ever! Not only does the little slut NOT get in trouble, but from then on she'll just do it with the drapes closed and you get no show! Everyone loses!
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