i have a problem and its really embarassing. ok, im a girl. i like guys alot. and i WOULD enjoy giving head except for one little problem...my mouth does not open very wide (the very widest is like 1 1/2 inches) and my teeth are kind of big. they are nice teeth but they get in the way. so i have problems giving a good blowjob because i get tired too soon, start gagging, or i accidentally scratch them. this is really embarassing does anyone have any ideas???

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i have a problem and its really embarassing. ok, im a girl. i like guys alot. and i WOULD enjoy giving head except for one little problem...my mouth does not open very wide (the very widest is like 1 1/2 inches) and my teeth are kind of big. they are nice teeth but they get in the way. so i have problems giving a good blowjob because i get tired too soon, start gagging, or i accidentally scratch them. this is really embarassing does anyone have any ideas???

How old are you ? And post a pic.

im 16...i would post a pic except that the question i asked is kinda ??? wtf????? ....so i wouldn't want people associating my face with it

I hate to tell you this, but there's not much you can do about your little problem except have your teeth removed or find a japanese boyfriend, I hear they've got small dicks.

Your jaws only extend so far, your teeth aren't retractable. You could do stretching exercises but that's only gonna help minimally, if at all. Practice deep-throating a banana to overcome the gag reflex. Also watch your post for female replies, they undoubtedly know more about blow jobs than me, I just know how to get one, and the teeth scraping??? Ouch!

-Extant

guys dont be mean...

The way I understand it is you don't enjoy it because you gag and stretch your mouth further than it's supposed to.

The guy must not enjoy the teeth scraping along his knob.

My advice to you is either find another way to satisfy fellas, find a masochist who will enjoy the feeling of pain on his pecker or someone with a small wang!

Hope that helps in some way!

I have a similiar problem, only it's not me, it's the guy... he's BIG. My jaw really starts to hurt after awhile and it takes quite a bit of effort to keep my teeth covered. You have to improvise, use things like pumping your hand while you lick/suck around the head or rubbing/licking his balls to sort of give your jaw a break, then return to sucking. He'll enjoy whatever you're doing to him, but it's like a breather for you.

Finding a guy with a small penis is a good idea too, but ya get what ya get, aye.

Then of course, there's always dentures.





[This message has been edited by Sarcophagus (edited 01-16-2004).]

As a male I have to say dont be too worried about that! I men if you can use your hands and all and even use your lipsthan it wont matter! I mean the only reason some people want t BJ is because they arent getting full sex and the basicaly want to skullfuck!

Sorry for being crude but I mean there is no real need for you take it inside that far I mean all males can get of with just a little friction! I mean if you like doing it then even , And I apologise again if you think Im being crude or mean its not my intention and this is just an expression we have over here just if you cant take it in your mount like that then Brush your teeth with it! Its basically well Im sure you know what I mean but you dont need to open your jaw as wide and the teeth provided you keep them together wont scratch!

I hope thats of some help!

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

I have a similiar problem, only it's not me, it's the guy... he's BIG. My jaw really starts to hurt after awhile and it takes quite a bit of effort to keep my teeth covered. You have to improvise, use things like pumping your hand while you lick/suck around the head or rubbing/licking his balls to sort of give your jaw a break, then return to sucking. He'll enjoy whatever you're doing to him, but it's like a breather for you.

Finding a guy with a small penis is a good idea too, but ya get what ya get, aye.

Then of course, there's always dentures.



[This message has been edited by Sarcophagus (edited 01-16-2004).]

hmmm i like your advice....

Practice, practice practice.

Blowjobs are hard. They require stamina, skill and common sense. I have similar issues; I also get tired, and, as Sarc said, it gets increasingly difficult to keep my teeth covered.

I have found the most tiring position for a girl giving head is also the most comfortable for most guys: when he's lying down. Unless he's already aching to ejaculate, I rarely can finish a man off in this position with just my mouth.

Try having him sit in a chair while you kneel between his legs. I can seem to go on forever in this position. Even easier is if he stands, but most guys don't like to stand while getting a blowjob.

Vhat you are saying is, that a guy laying on

his back, with her lying beside & resting on

his stomach, with her back to him, is tiring?

It's uncomfortable for a woman to lean on his

stomach?

Many woman seem to want to use their mouths

like an old in & out Vagina. Tongue, lip &

gentle hand action may be the ticket, though.

You don't have to deep throat, like some ol'

cheap, porn whore.

hunnie you can come here and i wont care how u touch my dick

Put your lips over your teeth?

^^Of course, we already do that! But this also requires more facial muscles than you'd think, and it gets tiring.

Moonmeister, yes, laying between a guy's legs or alongside (69 position is less tiring) is quite tiring 'cause of the need to prop oneself up on one's arms/elbows. For about 5 minutes it's okay, soemtimes even 10, but beyond that muscles start giving way. These are not frequently used muscles!

you have to try different possitions and practice....

and dont think that the whole thing revolves around taking a cock in your mouth.... most guys get bored when you just bob up and down with just your lips on their cock...

lick the head, swirl your tongue around, take the head of the cock into your mouth and suck on it while you flick your tongue on the tip. Lick the shaft up and down and dont forget to play with his balls, perhaps you would be more able to suck on those for a while, while using your hand to stimulate his cock....

and if you really have a hard time going down, or just to change things up, use your hand as an extension of you mouth, so you put your hand around his cock and put your mouth over the head, lips touching your hand... it will feel almost like you are taking it all for him, just use plenty of lube.

man, there are so many different techniques to giving head... just experiment with positions and styles till you find something you are both comfortable with.

And dont forget to enjoy it, after all it should be fun for both of you!!!!

They say porn stars chew gum to strengthen their jaw muscles so that they can open their mouth wider without getting lock jaw.

You don't put your mouth around an ice cream cone, do you?

It's a tried and true method

You know, there may be a medical problem stopping you. Ever consider that? My friend had something where she couldn't open her jaw that wide. I want to say "lock-jaw" but it just doesn't sound right. Either way, she couldn't open her mouth that wide without it hurting or simply locking. I'm probably off, but I just figured I'd mention that since no one else seemed to.



Oh, and don't worry about your boyfriend. If you don't want to give him a blowjob, he'll have no choice but to live with it. Totally up to you. Blowjobs are a privilege not a right.

EDIT: paragraph structure... I've edited three times today. I seriously need some kind of electric jolt everytime I fuck up.

[This message has been edited by Toban Locksmith (edited 01-19-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Vhat you are saying is, that a guy laying on

his back, with her lying beside & resting on

his stomach, with her back to him, is tiring?

It's uncomfortable for a woman to lean on his

stomach?

Many woman seem to want to use their mouths

like an old in & out Vagina. Tongue, lip &

gentle hand action may be the ticket, though.

You don't have to deep throat, like some ol'

cheap, porn whore.

You know, your browser does have automatic word-wrapping, so you don't have to keep pressing enter.

Are you sure 1.5 inches is all you can go? How do you eat sandwiches?!

But really, have you given head before?

i'd say not to worry too much about it. first of all if the guy is getting any head then im sure hes somewhat happy, regardless on whether or not you can open your mouth wide. you can always just fuck him you know?

i have a hard time eating sandwiches, actually! and yes i have given head before, many a time.

Harmonica style.

^^^ im thinkin you need a blowjob more than anyone reading this post.....

Ah well, truthfully, scientifically speaking, the nerves are concentrated at the tip of the penis so really you dont need to deep throat the damn thing... Doesnt need to even go in your mouth, just use your tongue....

Hey just lick the top and gently blow on the slit. That will get it really hard. Also nibble down the front as you pump with your hand. Tickle his arse with your finger while just licking the top as well as under the rim. A very nice experience

Uncle Nasty



[This message has been edited by Uncle Nasty (edited 01-26-2004).]

I remember this girl who's boyfriend asked her to give him a blowjob, so she, well.. blew on it. Funnier when you hear about it in person, then when you catch it on tv. Sorry, not helping. Just got a flashback, is all... ahem.