Ok, I have posted in here a few times before, maybe someone will remember that I was having problems with staying in a relationship with guys...

Anyway, that is the furthest thing from my mind right now. I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, so this is perfect.

I had sex with two different guys tonight! I know it's bad, and people that know me would NEVER think of me that way. That's what makes it so much more exciting!

Am I really bad?? Please be honest!!

quote:Originally posted by TBritt32:

Ok, I have posted in here a few times before, maybe someone will remember that I was having problems with staying in a relationship with guys...

Anyway, that is the furthest thing from my mind right now. I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, so this is perfect.

I had sex with two different guys tonight! I know it's bad, and people that know me would NEVER think of me that way. That's what makes it so much more exciting!

Am I really bad?? Please be honest!!

Why would you be bad. Its your choice and its not against the law is it. Unless you want to hear us call you a bad girl and make you feel good somehow. Some people like being the bad one. Its really none of my buisness but its up to you do you think your bad or not.

No, I'm not looking to be called bad. Thanks for your reply though, and one more thing...I'm freaking wide awake right now and I have to get up for work at 6:30...damn it! I need someone to talk to!!

(snorted a few riddies earlier)

You want honesty? Here it goes, But I'm a prude so don't worry.

If you were a prospective girlfriend for me, I probably scrap that idea upon hearing that. But remember, I'm a prude.

However, I do respect you for being a woman and being comfortable with your sexuality like that.

-Nocuous

im wide awake to and i have school tommorow. Why do you care what we think. It really doesnt matter if you slept with 100000000 guys thats your choice and if you dont believe your bad then your not. hey give us some details about what happened that will make it so much more interesting hehehe.

Its not bad. But i wouldnt brag about it. Or bring it up. Otherwise your asking for trouble.

Nocuous!! I always love what you have to say...and you brought up a very interesting thought for me. You say if I were a prospective girlfriend and you heard that about me, you would hardly pursue me. BUT...how would you ever know? I live in a large area, and yeah, I have slept with a lot of guys. But I don't see it as sleeping around, I could have sex with someone different every day if I wanted to. I don't do that...I love sex but I draw the line somewhere.

The best thing is like for example, the last guy I "dated" (but he ran away) we got really hot together but every time I said no. Said I wasn't ready...totally wanted him, but didn't do it. So to him I was a conservative good girl.

If he only knew!

Uh... no, you don't sound 'bad'... you just sound like a typical stupid chick.

quote:I have slept with a lot of guys. But I don't see it as sleeping around.

Yeah, I guess you could refer to it as 'sleeping through' because you go directly from bed to bed, no circular motion involved, just a straight line.

Congrats sweetie pie, you're an easy score.

Ok, the first time it was with my ex-husband, Scott. It sounds strange but we have a really good relationship and always good sex. I left there and intended on going home, when I got a call from an old boyfriend I've recently been talking to again. He is also named Scott!

So, I went to his house, snorted some riddies, and we popped in a porno. We are always hot for each other as soon as we see each other, and it didn't take long before we were kissing and he started taking off my clothes. He went down on me, then I couldn't take it anymore so I pushed him down on the couch and we had sex. Then he went down on me again!! It was good...

well hun, i wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. and if i hadn't heard about your past, i'd expect you to tell me. and if you didn't tell me then that would make you an untrustable lying whore. yay for you!

i've slept with a few people, but i don't jump from person to person. i'm not perfect, but i wouldn't go back to an old lover ever. i would never use someone for sex. you get no respect. just all around low morals on your part.

No, you are not bad, but if you do it ALL the time with many boys you should think about slowing down before you get a rumour on you.. -Zeeker-

Sarc, you're the greatest. (Maybe I was wrong about how nice you are though...)

I would only stop pursuing you if I heard it from you. I don't make a habit of believing rumors from 3rd party sources.

I'm sorry, but I just don't respect that in a girl. I don't expect anyone to a nun, but I really admire modesty in a girl. (Maybe I’m just afraid of the competition. Oh shit, did I zing myself? Damn.)

-Nocuous

so what? youre using the ability that all females have to get laid anytime, anywhere. to me numbers dont matter, its the way in which women have sex that can be a turn on or a turn off. the ones who feel guilty or have sex for illogical reasons (like society accepting it) are just gross. chicks that fuck when they feel like it and dont need society to reassure them can be very sexy.

....who cares?

If you could sleep with a different guy every night, you could probably sleep with two guys every night. It's really not that big of a deal in your case.

Question: Why subject yourself to half-assed judgements from fellow totse folks? The average age here is half of yours.

If it feels good, do it. As long as mutual consent and respect are involved, why not? Though, you may wish to consider that some women tend to use "wanton" sex as a surrogate for true affection and human connection. This might be okay, or it might mess with your head. You're the only one who can judge that.

look, girlfriend, im only sixteen and i've had sex with 8 guys. and no, i dont feel guilty. so why should you? i just dont brag about it, so everyone thinks im a modest "nice girl." and i am. i just have a sexuality...its a feminist thing baby!!!

Have to agree with deadlycindy!

Its a bit silly putting yourself up to be judged by others here and all!

I mean if a guy goes off with a dozen girls he's a stud muffin in most eyes if a girl does with 2 shes a slut or something in most eyes! That does not make it so! I mean if you are happy enought to go with 2 guys in one night or even 2 together than so what! I mean nobody is getting hurt once its consetning! I cannot see the problem in anyone going off with multiple partners be they male or female but as we all know the general concensus is just cos a male can do it dont make it ok fora female! Thats just the world we live in! Though there are parts of the world where you wuld be executed for doing that!

Makes you kinda think how lucky you are to be able to have the choice of how many men you sleep with doesnt it! I mean just fuck it dont worry abou it you arent doing anyhing wrong!

Ex husband.. ex boyfriend... how nice, a girl who does 'warranty' work.

I don't see it as making you a bad person. Sexually promiscuous yeah, but do you feel bad about doing it? Did you lead Scott or Scott into believing you were being exclusive with either? Did you take precautions against getting and maybe passing an STD?

You said the first time was with Scott the ex husband. Then you and Scott the ex boyfriend got together and he went down on you. Well, at least he knows who he's eating after.. or does he? Hmmmmm, tell us you cleaned up a bit in between sessions please? I would hope so. In any case, as long as you're not misleading people or passing around undesirable diseases, and being considerate enough to remember good hygiene it doesn't make you bad.

-Extant

So you did two guys in a day...Big deal!

I wish I could do two chicks in one day!

You have sexual urges just like men do...But unfortunately the majority of society frowns upon women doing these sort of things!

I personally don't mind...You're human just like the rest of us.

It's just unfair the way society looks upon it.

When a guy sleeps around he's known as a stud...If a girl does it she's automatically a slut!

Ahhhh society...What a wonderful thing eh?!

Heh, you guys missed it... she's not worried that people will judge her... she just wants the world to know how "desireable" she must be to nail two guys in one night.

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

Heh, you guys missed it... she's not worried that people will judge her... she just wants the world to know how "desireable" she must be to nail two guys in one night.



Nah... I didn't miss that point.

Thanks to the girls who responded. Deadlycindy, you're right: Most of the users here are half my age, good point.

No, I do not make a habit of doing this. Where's the fun in that?

I just got home from ex-boyfriend Scott's house...I have not seen the ex-husband...and I had a fucking AWESOME time with him.

Happiness is sexy...

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

Yeah, I guess you could refer to it as 'sleeping through' because you go directly from bed to bed, no circular motion involved, just a straight line.

Congrats sweetie pie, you're an easy score.

LOL!!!! ouch....

quote:Originally posted by nocuous:

You want honesty? Here it goes, But I'm a prude so don't worry.

If you were a prospective girlfriend for me, I probably scrap that idea upon hearing that. But remember, I'm a prude.

However, I do respect you for being a woman and being comfortable with your sexuality like that.

-Nocuous

Same here.

quote:Originally posted by TBritt32:

Thanks to the girls who responded. Deadlycindy, you're right: Most of the users here are half my age, good point.

And knowing that these people are half your age do you think its wise to tell all about your drug use? Especially making a post asking for help on how to cheat a drug test....

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum5/HTML/016959.html

One topic is about there something being wrong with you, never being able to keep guys.

The other topic is about how you can fuck a guy every day you want.

Get off the drugs, and when your straight post something worth giving advice to.

~es

all of the posts in better living with chemicals have been removed...nothing more than a few days old...

She's into heavy shit...