Well I kinda fit in the pushed asside by the asshole category... well i dont really know... I was going out with my g/f for almost two years and most of it was a long distance relationship. I got tired of being with her and felt I had fallen out of love so i make my self get dumped. Anyways she falls for this guy she met in Cancun spring break after a couple of months we broke up, imagine that, cancun fellas, at was involved for him for 6 months until a week ago. I didn't care cuz i never saw her with him. I knew he was an asshole with her and felt bad for my ex g/f but I had been involved with another girl yet I had no feelings for this girl. I then moved an hour away from her for college and my roomate is her best friend so I kinda see her often. Damn it is so hard to look at her and its like I'd like to be with her again cuz I am so used to be with her everytime we meet as it was always when we got together. However, she just broke up a week ago with that asshole and told me that kissing eachother would fuck up eachother's mind. I'd rather not get back together with her cuz we've got too much baggage btw us but this is just so confusing. When i see her I cant accept the fact that she fell in love for someone else although she still has strongs feeling for me cuz of the two years we spent together. We talked about it and admitted the fact that what we had didn't work. It's my fault that it did not work cuz I stopped calling her when i felt I was aout of love. anyways,u get what u give so i know it was my fault. It's so hard to decide whether i wanna be back together with her again... this is so confusing right now. You guys think I should get back with her?? Is all the shit thats between us worth the hassle moreover trying to get her back after she has been seriously involved with another guy? I don't know how that would affect us if we ever got together... I dont know. sorry if i bored you most of you people but i'm so confused.

Sounds like a very sticky situation, but I think that you guys just need to move on with your lives. It will take time, but eventually you will find someone else that you can have a loving relationship with. Trust me, I know what it's like to mope over a girl and it's not fun, but you just have to stick with it and keep yourself busy.

Your probably right Little Pea. I think I am unconciously driven to be with her again only cuz of the fact that she was the person I fell in love with, furthermore lost my virginity with... i was 16 . she is one year older than me. Also the fact that I am a college student and feel lonely sometimes away from my friends and family. Plus, the fact that I'm sooooooo affraid I'll never fall in love again since the girl I was with after her was sooo good to me and i couldn't develop any feelings for her...

quote:Originally posted by Private_Joker:

I'm sooooooo affraid I'll never fall in love again since the girl I was with after her was sooo good to me and i couldn't develop any feelings for her...

The first cut is the deepest. That's damn right.