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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2003-10-02, 04:09
jojabr jojabr is offline
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Default Different types of relationships

Many people only recognize two types of relationships: girlfriend/boyfriend, and just plain friend. But I think that there are in fact many different levels of those two, plus many other kinds of relationships.



First there is just friends, no physical attraction, just like to hang out and talk and do stuff together (not sexual). Pretty shallow, but still close enough to be considered a relationship I think.



Then there's kind of in between-ish. They hang out and do stuff, but there is some physical attraction on both sides. They both want to do sexual stuff, and they do but not that much, maybe just kissing and a little bit more, but it's mostly just friends and hanging out. Like a step above friends.



Then, there's purely sexual. They almost don't hang out, just kind of use each other as fuck buddies, pure pleasure. If both are aware of it and both okay and happy then there's nothing wrong. But a lot of times this can lead to a full-blown boy/girlfriend type relationship as some of the physical attraction sort of turns into emotional bonding. I mean, sex is intimate, you can't argue that. And it's kind of hard for some people to continue to do it with someone they don't really care about all too much.



And lastly, there's the standard, normal relationship relationship. The full-blown relationship where they have true feelings for each other, they connect, they don't just talk and hang out, but they understand each other and care for each other. But a relationship like this must include physical attraction. With close emotional feelings for one another comes the desire for sex, just about in all scenarios. It's basically a blend of all the other kinds mixed in. But it's all that, plus love, that mysterious crazy weird awesome mystical unique emotion that no one really does truly understand... And you can't get love from any other kind of relationship. A lot of people say it's worth the extra work for a relationship, just to get that love. Everyone needs a little of that love sometime or another



So some people may argue over which kind of relationship is best, some may say it just depends. These are pretty much general examples of types of relationships, in my opinion. Have fun...
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Old 2003-10-02, 15:23
bushisalone17 bushisalone17 is offline
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Default Re: Different types of relationships

ya thats excelent i think that that is amazingly intelegent, i think that if more people thought like that the world would be better * stands up clapping*
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Old 2003-10-02, 16:10
Stryker Stryker is offline
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Default Re: Different types of relationships

^ LOL

Forget everything you said other than "if more people thought" and, "the world would be a better place".
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Old 2003-10-03, 01:31
jojabr jojabr is offline
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Default Re: Different types of relationships

Wow... two replies in twenty hours..

This took some thinking to write people, I want to hear your opinions on it, whether you agree, disagree, come on, anybody??
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Old 2003-10-03, 21:38
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Default Re: Different types of relationships

You forgot the one where one party loves the other but the other is only using the first for some kind of boredom breaker.

This sort of relationship leads to pissed off guys who like to stand on top of clock towers with rifles and telescopic sights or broken hearted girls who can't stand the way they were used and commit suicide!

I love to be the bringer of good news!
 
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