I am young and in love.

Why must I constantly receive bullshit about how "I am too young" to love somebody. That's not right.

How could one set a standard on the age you could start loving somebody. Love is love.

I just don't get it, is there someday when you hit xx years old and you can suddenly love somebody. That's bullshit. As I said, love is love, not maturity.

(no, nothing happened between my girlfriend and I or anything. I was just read an article on "puppy love". BULLSHIT.



Shek

[Insert laugh gained from a few more years of experience here]

The first older guy with more money, better looks, a bigger cock, or any combination of the three, that shows your girl any attention whatsoever, and your love's gonna fade pretty quickly.

Shek, allow me to introduce you to last week...

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/004397.html



Last week, meet Shek!

quote:Originally posted by Kikey_Kikeowitz:

[Insert laugh gained from a few more years of experience here]



haha, stfu you drunken beast... you only have like 2 years on Shek... I have at least 7, and I still know nothing about this so-called love.

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

haha, stfu you drunken beast... you only have like 2 years on Shek... I have at least 7, and I still know nothing about this so-called love.

Yeah, but you wouldn't believe how much I've crammed into those three years.

Loved and lost twice, got emancipated, lived on streets, got job, got rent, got shot at, got beat up and robbed over 15 times, smoked a shitload of and then quit ganja, and multiple drunken escapades on top of everything.

oh no im sick of hearing about the whole "love shouldnt be an age issue" thing. why did i have to click on this thread i received the sharpest dopamine/serotonin drop ever now im depressed feel bad and have a serious headache good job you win some type of award.

yes, age is a weird controversy, but mostly because of old people. most people assume that being older than someone makes you more competent, intelligent or able than that person. this was exemplified in the response already given. in kikey's case, his experiences would count for a lot over the prince. but take a look at his track record and its obvious kikey is an incompetent, self righteous, angry young person. personally, i dont give two shits how old you are - i take my impressions of people on more solid ground, countensarnit!

quote:Why must I constantly receive bullshit about how "I am too young" to love somebody

So, what is love then? You should be able to share that with the rest of us.

quote:Originally posted by Kikey_Kikeowitz:

[Insert laugh gained from a few more years of experience here]

The first older guy with more money, better looks, a bigger cock, or any combination of the three, that shows your girl any attention whatsoever, and your love's gonna fade pretty quickly.

A-fucking-men to that!!!

It's happened to me enough times to know it's true!

Whatever though...Love is what you make of it man...There is no age, maturity or cock size saying that it isn't real love...Just adults knowing that it's not real love coz it's going to fade one day as your likes and dislikes change!

quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

haha, stfu you drunken beast... you only have like 2 years on Shek... I have at least 7, and I still know nothing about this so-called love.

LOL! Now who's trumpin with age?? BTW, I think you slept thru your 7 years!

-Easy

shek, you're being an ass. it's a bit arrogant to think that you know what love is. you don't have a fucking clue. just cause you and your fist girlfriend are "in love", doesn't mean that you're in love. in 10 years you're going to look back and think, god i was an ass.

quote:Originally posted by Yoda's_Left_Nut:

in kikey's case, his experiences would count for a lot over the prince. but take a look at his track record and its obvious kikey is an incompetent, self righteous, angry young person.

Incompetent?

I've got 2 years over Shek, I've loved once, but never gained, so I never lost. I live in a small town, so I've never been robbed, but I have smoked alot of pot.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:



LOL! Now who's trumpin with age?? BTW, I think you slept thru your 7 years!

-Easy

HaaAAAaaa!!!!!! If you'll notice I was NOT trumpin with age, I was pointing out that even though I do have that 7 years I still don't know a thing... my whole point being that age means nothing!

Muahaha, you thought you got me.

I didn't sleep through it, I used to be really good at this game, but this guy is my cryptonite.

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quote:Originally posted by Yoda's_Left_Nut:

yes, age is a weird controversy, but mostly because of old people. most people assume that being older than someone makes you more competent, intelligent or able than that person. this was exemplified in the response already given. in kikey's case, his experiences would count for a lot over the prince. but take a look at his track record and its obvious kikey is an incompetent, self righteous, angry young person. personally, i dont give two shits how old you are - i take my impressions of people on more solid ground, countensarnit!

Are you in like 5th grade English? Maybe you should read a few more threads before judging other people you cocksucker.

I first fell in love when I was 12....It hurt. That means I really felt it. Which means love is possible. Which is slightly ego-driven logic, but, it's makes a certain kind of sense, too. Besides, millions of people fall in love early, it's maturity, not age.

Out of all the younger totse posters who are around my age I would respect Kikey the most. From the very small amount that I know also. He chose his own religion and lives on his own. I say that deserves respect. Most of you can't even chose your own breakfast, let alone your own religion. It doesn't matter how old you are. You have to grow up fast when you live on your own. [/rant]

well anyways you know you really love someone when you can spend years with that person and not want to kill them, and/or are willing to fully provide for that person.

quote:Originally posted by tygerkitn16:

millions of people fall in love early, it's maturity, not age.

wrong. it's experience. it's the same as anything else in my mind. you can't know how to ride a bike the first time, you can't drive a car the first time, you can't be "in love" the first time. it takes time, experience, and many attempts to find love.

if you think you're in love, ask yourself this:

would i spend the rest of my life with thisd person, more time than i've spent on myself?

would i spend all my money on this person, support them in hard times, work so they don't have to?

would i sit by their side in a hospital for weeks straight if they were hurt?

unless you've answered yes to all of them, then i really don't think you're in love. not real love anyways.

^^^^ Amen to that brother. It should really open eyes up for those of you who're like 14 or 15 and are falling in love for the first time. There's nothing wrong with that, believe me. I've been thru' that.. Someone said "I've been in love when I was 15,16 and 17" and I can defn. relate to that. The thing you've gotta realise is that love is temporary, at least during the teen years.

The first thing you'll notice in that above post is that those are the things you might imagine seing your mom or dad or your grandparents doing... You won't have the commitement or passion to do it. A day or two the tops. Esp. the waiting at the bedside in the hospital part.

Believe me, I've seen this happen...Or maybe just you.Maybe

But then again its a one in a billion chance of that ever happening, and you know what they say... "People Change..."

But yea, its a journey, thats the whole thing. Think of it as an adventure, you'll reach the top someday. You'll come across many summits but after a while you'll see it for what it really is. And hopefully move on.

Sorry for the rant, I can't be older than ArmsMerchant of deadlycindy yet I find myself typing like someone like them would do.Uhhh, not that there's anything wrong with that, but I mean Jeez, I'm not even 21 yet, I'm sure they're many other people around here with more experience that I have...Ahh...Must be the pot...

P.S - Its good for patching up relationships too... The pot I mean

Cheers



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Ahh love, that cacophanous word that I have come to despise. What a nonexistant concept. Love doesn't exist, it's a figment of everyone's imagination.

quote:Originally posted by DarkFire47:

Ahh love, that cacophanous word that I have come to despise. What a nonexistant concept. Love doesn't exist, it's a figment of everyone's imagination.

you want a soda? eh? eh?

Some of you should cuddle up to a nice.. warm........ bottle of vodka.

quote:Originally posted by Dystrophy:

Some of you should cuddle up to a nice.. warm........ bottle of vodka.

Been there, done that, washed the t-shirt at 4 AM.