Ok dudes, I'm beginning to worry that they're is something wrong with my libido. I can't make sex last more than like 8 minutes.

She's just getting in to it, and I'm done. I feel like such a fukking failure. (pun intended).

anybody have any advice?

Cunalingus

You can't just put your dick in and thrust until she comes. Warm her up with some nice fingering, or as the other gentleman said, cunnilingus.

What I find helps is if I feel myself start to cum I just either slow down or stop for a little bit. It's kinda a tease but it works well. Or you could just have her on top. When a guy is on bottom less blood flows to his penis therefore making it harder for him to cum. So give those a shot.

I got ya covered.. The exact same thing happened to me a while ago then my friend gave me some advice and told me that when you start getting the feeling that ur gonna jizz you pull out and start eating pussy and/or using toys (if you have em) so i tried it and it helped me alot and is more enjoyable.

Have her give you head or something first so it will (or SHOULD) make you last longer

Try to imagine one of your gross male friends naked. I don't usually have this problem, but when I do this little trick works for me.

Think about your mother.

You'll last forever.

::reads too much Chuck Palahniuk, as indicative of his username::

quote:Originally posted by DownAzzGirlE:

Have her give you head or something first so it will (or SHOULD) make you last longer

The exact opposite occurs for me. Stimulation is stimulation, and when you're stimulated for significantly longer than your lady friend, nothing good can come of it. Pun intended.

Masterbate ahead of time and slow down when you're about to orgasm.



Shek

quote: When a guy is on bottom less blood flows to his penis therefore making it harder for him to cum.

Huh? wha? guh?

I think you made that up. But I'm going to try to look it up.

If less blood flows to the penis, won't the erection be lost?

[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 09-28-2003).]

cindy... its LESS blood, but still enough to hold the erection tight. oh, and have you talked to the mod about your name, Iron?

ts

No, no I haven't talked to the mod. If the mod has a real problem with my name then I can change it.

naw, he shouldnt care... its just that ill continue to get you two mixed up

ts

Do what Billy Connolly(sp?) said:

Do your time tables while you have sex, starting at 1, ending at 15 or something.

That will take your mind off it, making you last longer.

i dont know about you guys, but see, i wouldnt really be in a "thinking " mode then, yknow? but hey, whatever works, right?

ts

trojans, extended pleasure condoms. they'll make you last for hours.