This might have been covered several times already, and if so please provide a link.

im a sophomore in high school, and IMO ilook really good. 1-2 years ago girls used to be crazy about me, but for some reason girls dont seem to like me much anymore (and if they do they never say). In these past years nothing has really changed. i still look good, if not better, and am pretty muscular, and I am playful but not to where it gets annoying.

As for my looks, some of my friends think i have a hard looking face (as in tough) but at the same time it is soft and caring. i dont really know what they mean.

In the hallways and in the classrooms i get catch a lot of girls looking at me, but i cant really tell if they like me or not. Can someone please tell me how to tell if someone i dont know is interested in me.

Also, for the women, what kind of guy do you prefer. A quiet, tough kind of guy, a loud playful guy, or a mixture of both?

I have a few "friends with benifits", but i never really go out with anyone. In fact i havent gone out with anyone in well over a year, and im very confused becuase I think i look pretty handsome. Im not arrogant, but thats just my opinon.

I have a pretty good amount of friends, and i ALWAYs dress decent and i always smell good.

Thanks for any help, it is very appreaciated.



[This message has been edited by WomanLover (edited 09-25-2003).]

Why do you ask these questions? Just ask the girl if they like you and either you get a 'yes' or a 'no'. It's as simple as that.

you do know that looks are not the only atribute girls consider... catch my drift?

maybe its your ego?

Have a trusted friend give you a "body check." You could be the one who has "bad breath" or "stinky hair" and not know it. It happens.

I take a shower now less than once a day, and brush me teeth at least once a day(but i always chew gum for good breath). like I already said, i dont have a big ego, and if i did i never show it.

You're showin' it right now. Listen to yourself! No wonder no girls are interested in you anymore... can you find a fault in yourself? Any?

These are things that make people interesting, make others want to come back for more.

Get it?

i think i've spotted your problem.

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like I already said, i dont have a big ego, and if i did i never show it.



show off your ego, just not to the point where you're a complete ass. confidence is key. you could look like brad pitt, but if you're not confident, you're not getting any.

Dude , if you're only brushing your teeth once a day, then it's probably the breath. Gum on top of inadequate oral hygiene is akin to perfume on top of bad body odor. It mixes with the funk to create a whole new level of unpleasantness.

Girls aren't going to come to you buddy. You go to them. Duh.



Shek

you sound like a pussy, stupid, worthless football playing, confused about your sexuallity, jack ass, moron, am i sensitive?, pretty boy.

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quote:I take a shower now less than once a day, and brush me teeth at least once a day(but i always chew gum for good breath). like I already said, i dont have a big ego, and if i did i never show it.

you try to hard, way to hard. all the old tips are true, just be your self.

[This message has been edited by Insomniac119 (edited 09-26-2003).]

the only thing...

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"Girls aren't going to come to you buddy. You go to them. Duh."

True.

quote:Originally posted by LeToastaire:

Why do you ask these questions? Just ask the girl if they like you and either you get a 'yes' or a 'no'. It's as simple as that.

I strongly agree...

If they say yes, then they like you!

If they say no, then the don't think that much of you!

Simple innit?!?!