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 #1 
Old 2003-09-23, 23:39
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ok so heres the problem i just got another girlfried ok, so well me and this girl are going out now and then my ex comes up to me and starts asking why i was hanging all around her if i liked the other girl, but i wasnt i didnt talk to her and know she keeps saying shit and talking about my girlfriend and calling her a bitch and shit when she dont even talk to her,

then today i kissed my girlfriend before i got on the bus home and my ex seen it and broke down in tears and started saying she never wanted to see or talk to me again

now shes threatening to beat up my girlfriend, so my ex is being a psycho and no matter what i tell her she wont stop

i need advice
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Old 2003-09-23, 23:45
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You don't need advice, what you need is a restraining order... Or some pepper spray... Either will suffice... Why'd you break up with her anyhows? Sounds like you didn't make yourself clear.. Just hope your new girlfriend won't get psyched out and then you'll prolly have two e.....

Cheers
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Old 2003-09-23, 23:48
qwerty316 qwerty316 is offline
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how old are you? highschool? Your Ex clearly still wants you. if you don't want her to beat up your current girlfriend.. just tell her.. "If you really liked/loved/wanted me you wouldn't do this to someone i care about/like/am with." and see what she says.. or you could trick them both and still see them, both! (but in secret, and tell your ex that you really wanna see her but it has to be in secret and that you will break up with your current girlfriend, and then tell your current girl friend the same thing but it has to be insecret, do you get what i am saying?) i hope it works... your you maybe to old and past that kind of stage.
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Old 2003-09-23, 23:56
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behind ya
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no im not gunna be like that, i really love my girlfriend and i could never do that to her and yes im in highschool, my ex just wont stop all this shit
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Old 2003-09-24, 00:04
deadlycindy deadlycindy is offline
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Doubtful anything will change until your ex either gets some self-esteem or another boyfriend. None of which you can help out with.

The only thing you can do is ignore her and carry on with your life. No simple solution here, since you can't relocate yourself.

The best thing your current gf can do is not rise to any bait. Nothing satisfies an ex like dragging your current gf down with her in a catfight.
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Old 2003-09-24, 00:28
LutherX LutherX is offline
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Teach your gf how to fight, that way if your ex does start something with her she can walk away with a broken nose.

And that will be the end of that.
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Old 2003-09-24, 00:52
EyeSore EyeSore is offline
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another reason i hate girls. they're all fucking crazy. you can't win. there is no logical way to deal with a girl. just assure your current girl that no harm will come to her from the situation.
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Old 2003-09-24, 03:33
stephanina stephanina is offline
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And if it does?...
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Old 2003-09-24, 03:43
Fascistsmasher Fascistsmasher is offline
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Theres no logical way to deal with females because females are not logical thinkers. They are emotional thinkers.
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Old 2003-09-24, 05:01
LutherX LutherX is offline
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I'll be damned... I think you hit on something there. Hark, there has been a break-through in finally understanding the beautiful but oh so puzzling mystery known as the woman!
 
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