As the topic name says, this about my virginity..... to start, im 18 and only 1 girlfriend and i got as far as fingering her...so i have little expirence...and also believe my "piece" is not as big as i play it out to be and not knowing how long i can last, makes me wanna reject sex completly...

But down to the story. at like 7:30pm i got a IM from this girl i know. Now this girl is extremly hot and i liked her for a while but shes goin out with a friend my of mine....(not a close friend, but a friend none the less)anyway she messages me basically saying hey i wanna hook up tonite. Which is blowing my fuckin mind right now. But doing so would cause many problems:

1.Like i said, shes datin a friend, and i couldnt do that to him while hes away at college.

2.Shes the kinda girl that does things and then regrets them afterwards.

So should I go for the long awaited pleasure and have her regret it after ward....or jus say the hardest thing ever..."No i cannot have sex with you...."

If i was you.. Id honestly say no. You can't dog your friend like that. And she might be tricking you.. who knows. Id say its best to wait for the girl you want to take your virginity instead of some cheap slut whore.

quote:Originally posted by Lost Hope*:

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1.Like i said, shes datin a friend, and i couldnt do that to him while hes away at college.

2.Shes the kinda girl that does things and then regrets them afterwards.



sounds like you know the answer and the outcome. Don't be that guy that fucks his friend. if you hook up, well, you know what will happen.

dude... NO...

This is an opportunity... an opportunity for you to perform BADLY (hey it's your first time) with someone who does not love you, and is only using you... NOT TO MENTION, if she's skank enough to cheat on your friend then she's not trustworthy... she could spread wild rumors about you, how horrible you are in the sack (like I said it's your first time, everyone sucks) or that you raped her... She's more likely to claim that you raped her if anyone finds out because that way she doesn't get in trouble with the ole boyfriend.

Sure it's sex, but this kind of sex can fuck up your life for years, don't risk it.

Have it your first time with someone you share love with, you can't beat that.

NO, duh..... sex is so easy to get, then why with someone you'll know you'll regret

Wow, I'm almost in the same dilemma, 'cept me and my best friend ( a girl ) might fuck today... who knows I'm goin' over there to see what's going to happen... I doubt I'll regret it but she is perceived as a ho. Note I said perceived because everything thinks she fucks like every guy there is and shit... wrong. But hey I know my best friend ( my guy best friend) and like he actually liked... If he still likes her even a little bit... GOOD, he pissed me off... hes tryin' to get with my ex-girlfriend. That shit pissed me off... God damn i need to go back to sleep... nighty night

dude, she could have been drunk and then you missed ur chance, do hit like me: take every opertunity and don let go untill it comes back and punches ur balls.

Virginity is far to over rated. Fuck her in the ass.