Hey, I know this girl and I really like her, but I don't know for sure if she likes me. I mean I think she does but I don't know for sure. Now we chat pretty much over msn and in school. Does anybody maby know how I could find out if she likes me to? Like tru msn or something by asking some questions?

I just don't wanna fuck up this time. Usually when I meet a girl I really like I fuck up by saying something stupid. I tought maby you guys knew something??

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

Hey, I know this girl and I really like her, but I don't know for sure if she likes me. I mean I think she does but I don't know for sure. Now we chat pretty much over msn and in school. Does anybody maby know how I could find out if she likes me to? Like tru msn or something by asking some questions?

I just don't wanna fuck up this time. Usually when I meet a girl I really like I fuck up by saying something stupid. I tought maby you guys knew something??

Dude. Be talking to her on msn like on a weekend or something and say "i'm really bored", if she says, "yea me too" then say, "oh, do you want to go do something?"(mall, movies whatever) If she says yes then she is defenitly interested in you. It's not like you suddenly have to ask her out, let things develop slowly and you will be able to tell if she likes you.

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

Hey, I know this girl and I really like her, but I don't know for sure if she likes me. I mean I think she does but I don't know for sure. Now we chat pretty much over msn and in school. Does anybody maby know how I could find out if she likes me to? Like tru msn or something by asking some questions?



thats one of the most depressing things i've ever read...

quote:Originally posted by HoPeLeSs4LiFe:

Dude. Be talking to her on msn like on a weekend or something and say "i'm really bored", if she says, "yea me too" then say, "oh, do you want to go do something?"(mall, movies whatever) If she says yes then she is defenitly interested in you. It's not like you suddenly have to ask her out, let things develop slowly and you will be able to tell if she likes you.



Goddamnet that happend just last night Why didn't I think of that. I don't get it, I'm a good speaker. I never frees up. It's like I'm missing a part of my brain, you know the part to handle girls

And Jay666 why is that the most depressing thing you ever heard?

if you worry about saying dumb things while talking to a girl, you are obsessing too much. chances are she doesn't give a crap if you say stoopid things. if she likes you it definately won't matter. just chill, get your words together and ask her out. the worst she can say is no. if she is a friend then she isn't going to make you feel like shit just for asking her out (like some beyatches out there):-)

Good point Yoda, will try that.

Does anybody else have some pointers. Maby some background info about me will help. I'm 17. If you need some more info look in my profile or ask.

So I got a date with her !!!!!!! Now what should I do? We're going on Saturday afternoon, probebly to a cafee or something.

What should I wear? What should I talk about, what not? What should I take to drink... Help me!!!!!!!!!!!

Man, just act casual. Wear what you'd normally wear around town or somethin

dude, this is what U need =)

www.becomeaplayer.com (http://www.becomeaplayer.com) read it loud and good.. ;-)

Nice site, but I don't think that that's the way to go , thow it does have some good tips.

well U could try it... and then see =)

quote:Originally posted by -Imp:

well U could try it... and then see =)

Rather not, I don't wanna fuck up this one. She is pretty, maby to pretty for me, but I'll try anyway.

Good for you. Now you'll fall in love with her and get attached and then she will cheat on you and dump your ass and be mad at you as if it was all your fault and your poor little heard will be squished and you will DIE.

Well, that's what happened to me.

I learned the hard way. I'm more careful now. Good luck though.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

Good for you. Now you'll fall in love with her and get attached and then she will cheat on you and dump your ass and be mad at you as if it was all your fault and your poor little heard will be squished and you will DIE.

Well, that's what happened to me.

I learned the hard way. I'm more careful now. Good luck though.

Oh no I'm not like that, I can lock my feelings. I only have the feelings I want to have, but the ones I don't want I don't have. I don't know I guess I learned to lock them out.

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

Oh no I'm not like that, I can lock my feelings. I only have the feelings I want to have, but the ones I don't want I don't have. I don't know I guess I learned to lock them out.

You can't until you've been there, and it seems like you haven't; have you?

Because if you haven't you don't know.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

You can't until you've been there, and it seems like you haven't; have you?

Because if you haven't you don't know.

I don't know? I've had a few girlfriends, but with this one the force is stronger. No no just kidding. I do feel something else for her.

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

Rather not, I don't wanna fuck up this one. She is pretty, maby to pretty for me, but I'll try anyway.



thats the spirit

quote:Originally posted by -Imp:

thats the spirit



Cause I am not a machine!!!!!! (héhé family guy)

Wauw she's really funny. I mean just spoke to her over msn. And she was messing with me man but I got her back. She funny, smart, pretty,... *starts to glace into nothing*

I agree with hopeless up there...If you're both bored ask he if she wants to go out or something!

I can't say much more than hopeless said to be honest with you!

What I will add though is this:

Sooner or later it will be too late and you'll kick yourself for letting the chance slip...So be strong mate and try a little harder!

Good luck!

héhé today I tried out some of them things that are on that site becomeaplayer.com and I smilled at that girl that I like and she smilled back but afterwards she looked down and started playing with her hair. Just like it says on that site. Good sign good sign...

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

héhé today I tried out some of them things that are on that site becomeaplayer.com and I smilled at that girl that I like and she smilled back but afterwards she looked down and started playing with her hair. Just like it says on that site. Good sign good sign...

go for it boy... =) hehe that site is GOD of all sites on the internet =D tried it too.



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quote:Originally posted by sybil:

Oh no I'm not like that, I can lock my feelings. I only have the feelings I want to have, but the ones I don't want I don't have. I don't know I guess I learned to lock them out.

haha. thats what i thought!

keep it casual... invite her over and pop in a rented movie or something. if you want to pull some moves, but are too much of a pussy (much like myself) then just slam back a few (not too many) shots 10 minutes before you meat up with her. just make sure you cover your breath up so you dont reek of booze, or she will be SO turned off.

She canceld on me. She said she couldn't make it because she had something else to do. I can't remember what it was. Is this bad?

This sucks big time. I ain't feeling to good. damnet. What should I do, should I set up a date as soon as possible or should I just rescedual next week?

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My advice...

PANIC!!!!!!!! SHE OBVIOUSLY HATES YOUR GUTS!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, but seriously, I think you're reading too much into it...

Just reschedule for the next week. Only start to worry the third week running.

Plus, if you really love her, then let her know, and she will stay with you forever. It appeals to their vanity.

-Gillibiabtiag

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

Oh no I'm not like that, I can lock my feelings. I only have the feelings I want to have, but the ones I don't want I don't have. I don't know I guess I learned to lock them out.

Those feelings you lock out don't go away and one day you'll explode, so find an outlet for the feelings you don't want, trust me, I can swallow my feelings real good but if I do it too much, I'll blow up over little things.

So what do you think of her?

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We did just have an entire sport day, normaly she looks even better.

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