alright i know there are others posting similar messages like this but ok heres the story..

i been friends with this girl since feburary and she real hot, im like in love with her, well anyways she just broke up with her boyfriend cause hes a dumbass and he never comes to see her cause he lives in antoher town

well i wanna get with her, and i asked her to chill with me on my birthday which will be on the 28th so i need some advice on what i should do, im thinking i should go see a movie and just ask her out when its over or something,

how should i ask her out and i dont even know if she'll say yes , and that scares the hell outta me

i dont know, but i really wanna be her boyfriend, please help

It depends on your moves. At the movie see if you can slip your hand into hers, or if she pulls back. Better yet, if you are really uncertain if she likes you that way, put your hand real close to hers, then have a sort of "twitch" and slightly brush her hand, but leave yours there, and act like you didn't notice it. If she doesn't move her hand trying holding it, if she does, then just wait for a couple of weeks or so. Most likely she will go out with you, most girls are EXTREMELY easy to pick-up on the rebound.

edit: godammit I made too many typos...

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[This message has been edited by NewRage (edited 09-20-2003).]

Yeah, just don't blow it and make a complete fool outta yerself....Like tripping, spilling your drink all over the freakin place...you know...the basic dipshit stuff. And when it's over and done, just tell her something like...."You know _____, I really like you and I'd like to see you more."

You get the idea.... Don't be a weinie.

lol ill try that holding her hand thing and yea ill try not to be a wienie

p.s. shes always got guys hittin on her and i dont think she likes them as much as she does me, we're always talking, she was like "whenever i see you , you face is so bright and smiley, and your so adorable", so you know im just kinda scared if i ask her out i might get dumped by her for her ex cause i KNOW she still has feelings for him, im also scared that our friendshit might get fucked up if we break up

[This message has been edited by jack tha rippa (edited 09-20-2003).]

Be nice and sensitive towards her...She's just broke up with the other dude.

The way I'd do it is just come out and say "Look...I know you've just broke up with what's-his-face and it may seem bad for me to ask and that but would you like to go out sometime?"

If she asks questions like why, how, when, what, etc, etc...Just say stuff like "I've liked you for ages now and I don't wanna let this opportunity slip away without being grasped." or "You've meant alot to me for a while now and I just want the chance to see if anything could happen between us."

Really soppy crap like that should work!

Good luck fella!

I second psycho's idea. Do not try the holding her hand thing unless you're damn sure it'll work.

Take physcho's advise.

[This message has been edited by qwerty316 (edited 09-20-2003).]

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

[B]Be nice and sensitive towards her...She's just broke up with the other dude.

B]

the thing is that shes glad she broke up with him so shes not all depressed and shit so i need some more advice