You're always told "Don't get involved with someone if you're hoping to change them!"

...So you listen and you get involved with someone you NEVER want to change... AND THEY DO!!!!

I'll make an ammendment to the above advice...

Don't get involved with someone... that's all.

First, this could have gone on your other thread.

Second, there is nothing wrong with changing someone as long as you are courteous enough to make them like it..

-Easy

Sure, it could have... but why bury a witty observation under a paragraph of ranting?

Why do you post all that ranting in the first place? It's kinda a lot of work to find your wit.

'cause I'm a troll, starved for attention... and my life is like an auto accident... what better way to draw a crowd than rant about it... everyone stops and stares and is happier when they go on to another thread 'cause hey, at least they don't have it that shitty! hehe

Can you like, save all your episodes on your computer, delete the threads, and then just make one big compilation. It would be a lot easier than seeing like 5 new episodes a day in the dramatic saga that is your life and relationships.

hmmm... you meant once every 3-7 days, right? Ohhhh... you were exagerrating to make a point... ah, I get it... you're just a little bitch who has no problem asking for advice for himself, but gets really disturbed when other people do the same...

cool... maybe I should've called your life sad and pathetic in your thread since you don't seem to know how to score a chick... maybe?

Geezus, no one forces you to read my posts now do they, you have no one but yourself to blame. I actually get valuable input from the minute number of intelligent totse members, you ain't one of em so fuck off.

I actually am quite composed and am in no way disturbed. If anyone is, its you. For the most part, I was just being a sarcastic smart ass. But then again, of course you know that? Right?

You refer to me as disturbed, although you have several ESSAYS talking about all the shit going on in your life. You blab on and on about how you crowd your fiance and how he doesn't like that (which I think you just recently figured out) and I should add, a lot of the what I said wasn't exageration. You DO post these episodes in your life. There's nothing intensely wrong about that, I mean, where else are you gonna do it, but honestly, stop being so emotional. (Yes, I know you will likely, or at least were, going to reply with another emotional response saying that you aren't emotional. Spare me if thats what you are planning on doing)

EDIT: And I never once called your life sad and pathetic. I don't even consider what I said an implication of that. Is that your own opinion maybe?

[This message has been edited by TheDragon (edited 09-18-2003).]

*shrug*

If you actually bothered reading my posts you'd probably have a clue... but I can tell from what you just said that you don't read 'em... sooo... there isn't much point is there? If you're gonna skip the reading part then you might as well skip the clicking and replying part too...

Dragon, you are being a bit hard on Sarc, and it’s completely unnecessary. God seems willing to take care of that for you. BTW, her posts are not a waist of time to read. Even if you have no advice to offer, you can learn so much about women by watching problems in their relationships from their point of view as an independent 3rd party. We get to see some of her thoughts that her BF probably never will. I know I have learned tons by listening to random women; maybe you need to shut up and listen yourself.

-Easy

Returning to the topic:

The point is, you cannot change a person. They will change by themself, but all you can do is watch.

Like 256 said you can not change a person oh your own.

You can however incfluence a person's changes but not force them.

It is on a slightly different scale but use the example of role models. They can influence the way a person changes or behaves but you can never force some one to act or feel a certain way.

Take Care,

Kangy

It may be even more foolhardy to expect someone to not change than it is to try and mold them into something else.

I would be worried about someone who was the same for years on end.

quote:Originally posted by TheDragon:

Can you like, save all your episodes on your computer, delete the threads, and then just make one big compilation. It would be a lot easier than seeing like 5 new episodes a day in the dramatic saga that is your life and relationships.

mmmffgghht....heh heh.

Well, I was just in the mood to be a jackass. I really didn't mean to be offensive or nothing. It was just sarcasm.

bah, it's tru... i'm fuckin sick of myself too... forget it, you were spot on.

It's sod's law, my dear!

When you want someone to change, they'll stay the same!

When you want them to stay the same, they'll change!