3 Weeks ago, I was sick for a whole week at school. When I came back, my best friend introduced me to his new girlfriend. She's a very hot, redhead, bisexual girl. We've talked on the phone for hours, and on AIM, and we seem to have a lot in common with each other. I want to ask her out so badly, but she's my best friend's girlfriend. I don't even know if she'd say yes, either. So, really, what should I do. Should I ask her out.. or what?

I'd say back off from this one.

If she readily drops him for you, you too may find yourself the victim of her caprice someday soon.

Not only may I be the victim of her caprice, what about my best friend. I don't think he'd be very happy.

Yeah man, don't do it. If you were my best friend... how can I put this...

"Here's a little fact: you do me like that, end up in the back of my trunk in a sack."

It's all about trust, brotha.

[This message has been edited by Trueborn Vorpal (edited 09-16-2003).]

^^That goes without saying. I've yet to see a situation where losing a friend was worth gaining a bf/gf.

She was hanging all over me this morning, when she usually hangs over my friend, and stays away from all the other guys and girls. Maybe he just trusts her enough that she wouldn't cheat on him again. She did the other night, she got really drunk, and made out with another guy.. and a girl. *sigh* I still don't know what to do.. I guess I'll just wait, and see how this thing goes.

Not only a friend, but my best friend. I've known him since 3rd grade, but, the thing is. I really believe she might be the one. I know many people might not think, people can fall in love this early, but, I think we can. But her, she doesn't believe in love. She says, all girls, at least before graduating high school, are sluts. You fuck them, and then you leave. That's it.

I guess no one else has any advice?

Just hang on, dude. It takes a while.

Yeah, I'm sorry.. I just want to see what some other people think, It's a long time till tomorrow, when I see her again. I'm performing a sleep deprivation experiment for my class, so not much sleep for me tonight.

Allow me to digress.

Do not do it. If you do I will be forced to help your friend beat your ass within an inch of your life. I have had 2 "friends" do things with a girlfriend I really loved, we were together almost 4 years, now I no longer have the 3 I thought were my best friends. BE A MAN OF VIRTUE. Don't do that shit. Its not right...I am by no means a Christian, but I firmly believe in "Do unto others as you would have others do to you." Be better than everyone else. But once they fuck me over, THEY ARE DONE. And believe me, they all got EXACTLY what they deserved. Don't be a shithead.

Damn. It seems, that I just have to stay out of the way for now then. I'd rather have two best friends, than a girlfriend and a new enemy. That's the best way to go. Thanks for all the help guys. It really hurts though, loving a girl, and not being able to be with her, but that's the way it is, huh?

just because you both are good friends dosn't mean you have to go further. just leave this chick, anyway - she's your mates girlfriend, not yours.

Ahhh! Is she one of those freaky deaky dutch bi girls?

I would leave them alone, he's your best friend.



Shek

I can't believe you even have to ask this. When (if) they break up, and you wait a while, maybe then. Not otherwise.

This reminds me of that Cars song...

if you even realistic think about askin here while she's datin one of your friends.... he's not really your friend or you have no honor....

if you have no honor, or he's not really your friend... go for it....common.... redhead bi girls... what more could you want

Bro's before ho's....

I'm stuck in a similar situation actually and the girl is getting all tied up in lies. She was telling me that her and my friend weren't together anymore but they are (I think)...well there's more to it than that but it's a long story that I don't feel like typing out...

I'm gonna have to talk with my friend and get the truth because I have a hunch that it's the girl causing the trouble..

If he's your best friend I definitely wouldn't go there...if you're totally infactuated with the girl then talk to your friend about the situation...or wait it out

!Switch

Dude, Trust me on this one, GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM HER.

The same shit happened to me, and I didnt talk to my best friend for a year. I only recently called him, and we both know now that the freindship will NEVER go back to what it used to be. He's not my best friend now, he's more like some kid I hang out with sometimes.

Don't give me the love bullshit. It's your friend's girl man, it's going to fuck him up and your friendship up, and she's obviously not ready to settle down since she's fucking cheating on him and you KNOW this already. Are you fucking retarded? Do you really think you possess some quality that will make her think twice about cheating on you? IF you really think that, you need to learn a LOT about people.

He's been there since 3rd grade, think about all the shit you've been through. Do you really wanna throw that away? She's just a bitch, they come and they go, and long friendships are NOT worth throwing them away. I still see the girlfriends of my friends try to flirt with me and shit, and honestly it's hard to avoid that since they always do it, but it's easy enough NOT to fall in love, as long as you're mature enough. If you're not mature enough to control it to some extent, you're not ready for it man.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Switch_FX:

Bro's before ho's....

Hell yea man

wait on it for a while. she cheated on him, she'll probably do it again. he'll break up with her, wait a few weeks, then talk to him about going out with her. this most likely isn't love, but more of a combo of lust and infatuation. wait it out...

If your best friend's girl friend drops him for you...The same thing is gonna happen to you. Think how things would be if this were to happen: A guy likes his best friends girlfriend, she drops her b/f for him. She then makes up lies to her ex b/f that his now ex best friend is talking shit about him which isn't true. Her ex then does the same to his ex best friend. They both fight. Over a instigating girl. She brakes up with him and goes out with an OLD boyfriend that came before either of them.

Good Luck tho~

Maybe if I knew what this chick looked like, i'll be able able to see if she's worth losing a friend over.

quote:Originally posted by KrakenKaos:

Not only a friend, but my best friend. I've known him since 3rd grade, but, the thing is. I really believe she might be the one. I know many people might not think, people can fall in love this early, but, I think we can. But her, she doesn't believe in love. She says, all girls, at least before graduating high school, are sluts. You fuck them, and then you leave. That's it.

First let me compliment you on the triple post, gj.

And you are a dumbass, particularly for saying this: "I really believe she might be the one." Look at the most blatantly obvious fact:

She is bisexual. Do you honestly think she is ready to settle with only one dick for the rest of her life?

And another fact is she cheated on her current boyfriend, which means she will do the same with you, rofl.

And the last fact is you are just kids, believe me when you get older you will not want to spend the rest of your life with only one woman.

So much for 'The One.'

You're stupid.

Wait until they break up, which I bet will be in a month at longest. Wait at least a month before pursuing her, and check with your friend. Even if he says its ok, take it slow with her.

Every horny teen guy thinks that a hot girl who happens to have a good sexuality is THE ONE. I've thought at least 5 girls were the one, but then I realized most of that was just wishful thinking. At most, she would be a good girl to bang, but you'd have to wait until her and your friend are through.

Could I suggest going after one of her friends .Hot girls usually have at least 1-2 hot friend, and then a few average/ugly ones

KrakenKaos, my friend, you did the Wrong thing talking to her in the first place, if you do go out with her, you WILL lose your friend, if you DON'T, you WILL lose the love of your life.



Take it from me, your ride is gonna be long and hard, i know cuz i found the girl of my dreams, but i already had a GF for 1yr and 6 months, so i was screwed over. Now me and that girl hardly ever talk now, i lost the love of my life, and now we hardly ever talk, If i were you, i'd wait till they broke up, but remember, what decisions you make now, will affect you in the future, so pick wisely.

My friend just broke up with her today, he actually CAUGHT her cheating instead of just hearing about it, and he's pretty pissed off now. Now, I'm not so sure I even want to go out with her. I think I'm just going to stay friends with her. She's hinting the she is just going to turn lesbian. Damn. Oh, and whoever said Bro's before Ho's is absolutely fucking right. I shouldn't have started this topic in the first place. I was stupid. Thanks man.