this is really weird. there's this chick that i think i am in love with and i have been for the last 2 years. we are BEST friends and i dont know if she wants me but i always muck around and make her think i like her but tell her and all my friends that i dont coz if she knew it would fuck things up majorly. ANYWAY... the real point of the topic is i keep dreaming about her. like really stupid things like playing cards with her and one time i beat up her best friend coz she wouldnt let me and the girl inhale helium and talk funny. its really strange.ALSO, i tell the girl bout the dreams and she thinks its strange too but hasnt really caught on. so 2 questions: do the dreams mean i have this secret desire to play cards with her? and should i let her actually know what i feel even thought it would fuck things up ?

quote:Originally posted by spunky_junky:

this is really weird. there's this chick that i think i am in love with and i have been for the last 2 years. we are BEST friends and i dont know if she wants me but i always muck around and make her think i like her but tell her and all my friends that i dont coz if she knew it would fuck things up majorly. ANYWAY... the real point of the topic is i keep dreaming about her. like really stupid things like playing cards with her and one time i beat up her best friend coz she wouldnt let me and the girl inhale helium and talk funny. its really strange.ALSO, i tell the girl bout the dreams and she thinks its strange too but hasnt really caught on. so 2 questions: do the dreams mean i have this secret desire to play cards with her? and should i let her actually know what i feel even thought it would fuck things up ?

"Have you ever thought of me as more than a friend?"

use that, it works every time for me - if she says no, drop the topic, if she says yes...well, I don't think I need to tell you what to do then.

Maybe the cards symbolise laying down your hand to show everyone...Basically showing her your hand and letting her know you like her.

The helium...Well I can only guess that is you want to have a good time with her and will shit on anyone who tries to shoot you down!

But as More_Cake said...Ask her if she's ever though of you as more than a friend.

If no, then say "oh right...cool" and leave the subject hastily...If yes then persist.

Or if no, just say, oh thats sorta good or something. Do something, I was in the exact same position, and I didn't do anything. adn guess what. Nothing happened.

"All I have now is a memory to date.

A cheap hat and cigarettes, and a peculiar name.

I didn't know, I didn't know, before she went away.

I know now, I know now, and it's too damn late.

Will she ever find her way?

I'm too damn young to be too late, but am I?

Yet again I'm kicking myself, and I'll be here in battle scars"

--Green Day, "Haushinka"

The girl you have told the dreams to is the girl that you have feelings for? O.K.

Well, I would think of just ask her If she likes you more than a friend, and before that, show intrest in her. It seems that the way you are showing intrest in her is to vauge and "under wraps" (I hate it when I don't have any good long words to use).

So you think you're in love w/ her?

Lead up to the topic of Affection, and say "Oh, Btw..." It won't work, but Write What happens and I'll Laugh my ass off, okay?

or you could get her drunk and Tell her... I don't know