Say that you go out with a girl for about 2 years and shes goes on a vacation to another country. She finds another person there and loves him more than me. She comes back to the U.S, and she ignores me and I ask if she still loved me and she didnt say anything and just ignored me. You find out that she loves someone at that other country. And you still love her alot. But the girl talks to the person in the other country online. Will You think that will last or does she still like me also? How would you react to this?

How old are you guys? Is there a chance she might move there? If not, she'll realize she has no chance continuing this, and that she has safety and security with you. She'll come back, and it'll be your choice whether or not to accept her.

I personally would say "Well fuck this shit...you fucking bitch...go to hell!"

Then I'd stay in my room for a while and stew over it...Then move on.

Also I would wait for the day she comes crawling back so I could kick dirt in her face and laugh!!!

Let her have this other guy in a different country...Sooner or later she'll realise she can't be with him and become lonely.

This means you've won!

Well I'm guessing she may have cheated on you over there? If she did tell her to go to hell. Otherwise, when she comes running back pack her bags for a one-way gulit trip. Then take her back. Unless she can move there or he can move here I am willing to bet she comes running back.



Shek

[This message has been edited by Prince Charming (edited 09-15-2003).]

She no longer exists.

Go on with your life. The feelings you have for her will fade eventually. Whether or not you take her back, should she try to hook up with you again, will then depend greatly on how long it takes her to get her head straight.

What if i still love her? You cant forget about her right?

You'll be amazed at what your capable of forgetting.

...the hell? you call that a "worst case scenario relationship"? that's pathetic. i mean, seriously, if yer gonna give us a "worst case scenario relationship", at least make it worth finding out about

Shalakai

Home, home on the range, where all the stupid kids fuck eachother up...

quote:Originally posted by Lost Hope*:

What if i still love her? You cant forget about her right?

You will never forget about her the memory will always be there but you have to realize that it is only a memory. It is in the past. You have to move on. I agree with Spiffy on this one. Let her go and get on with your life.

Take Care,

Kangy

Happend to me with a girl from the Netherlands...

I met her when I went to Europe, then she came over here and liked this dude... I still talk to her, but I felt like shit for a week or so. I think it was the fact that I never knew if she still had any feelings for me.

quote:Originally posted by Lost Hope*:

Say that you go out with a girl for about 2 years and shes goes on a vacation to another country. She finds another person there and loves him more than me. She comes back to the U.S, and she ignores me and I ask if she still loved me and she didnt say anything and just ignored me. You find out that she loves someone at that other country. And you still love her alot. But the girl talks to the person in the other country online. Will You think that will last or does she still like me also? How would you react to this?

Hahahaha.... So wait, are we talking about YOU or ME? hahahah....

you can forget. have a good guys night out, go drinkin, get some play and you'll be forgettin soon enough

Are you saying she loves him, or did she say that? If so, I think that love is being thrown around lightly. Its infatuation, sure it feels like love, and to someone who doesn't know the difference, it IS love. I've "felt" in love tons of times, but that was just infatuation. Infatuation tends to be based more on superficial qualities. Love ends up being based on the inside. Thats why you see people who look ugly kissing and showing love. It often IS love.

Edit: I missed the point of whaT I wanted to post.

So, as I was saying, I think you should give up on her. Tell her off, tell her that you hate her, make her feel bad, then just forget her. I understand that will probably be hard, but I think that if she can just go on vacation, get a crush on a guy, and then ignore her boyfriend of 2 years, then she isn't worth shit.

[This message has been edited by TheDragon (edited 09-18-2003).]