Allright jus wanna say up front that any and all help will be really great.

Okay so around 3 weeks ago me and my girlfriend we're fooling around. keep in mind that we didn't actually have sex, but for a good while i was rubbing my penis unprotected right on her pussy. then we just gave each other oral sex and that was that.

Now i masturbated earlier that day, if that makes any difference, and i've really not been known to have any pre-cum.

So i just find out now that she was supposed to get her period the next day that this happened and she usually bleeds for 8 days. instead she bled extremely light for only 1 and a half days and it was done.

she has been starting to get really worried because of this, and yesterday she started to bleed a little bit too, which is irregular since it's only been 3 weeks.

She has/had eating disorders as well, if this makes a difference, but her period still has been quite regular. She's 17, and i'm 18.

I'm just starting to get really worried and everything and was wondering not only if it's possible if she's pregnant, but any suggestions that i can do. thanks very much.

Good luck and wear rubber next time, dumbass.

thanks alot, champ, but i didn't actually have sex with her so i wasn't going to put a condom on just for that. it was kinda out of nowhere.

I didnt really mean to offend you, but I do believe you deserve to be called a dumbass.. If you didn't need to wear a condom then you didn't need to do it at all.

^^STFU.

Alc, get a pregnancy test, pronto! Why wait? Those at the drug store are quite reliable these days if she doesn't feel like going to a clinic. Get the 2-pack. There always seems to be at least one brand on sale.

You never know what could have leaked out during passionate playing, and you Italians are known for your virility, and having "boys that can swim." Pardon the stereotype.

And it does sound like that could have been her period, considering the factors you mentioned. But stop worrying and get a test, just to be sure.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

you Italians are known for your virility, and having "boys that can swim." Pardon the stereotype.



haha yeah i know, and no i don't mind the sterotype at all, after all i am frickin 100% haha, i get it all the time from my friends too its funny.

but yeah on the more serious side, i'm going to go pick some up tomorrow and we're going to do that. i'm just really nervous and since then she's really been actin weird. what a time to have relationship problems!!

Thanks for the advice cindy!

DONT BE SILLY WRAP YOUR WILLY!!!!

quote:Originally posted by RAY:

DONT BE SILLY WRAP YOUR WILLY!!!!

ah yes as well as "don't be a fool, wrap your tool"

Thanks, this post helped me especially! (sarcasm!)

again more thanks to cindy for actually taking the time to give me a real reply!

[This message has been edited by AlCaTrAz (edited 09-15-2003).]

condoms suck they make my cock sweaty.......

tell that lazy bitch to take the pll fuck it takes like a second 2 take it....

Damn straight.

^ yeah and it takes 2 seconds to put on a condom.

and only 1 second for you to share your scab covered cock diseases with someone.

you dont deserve to get laid.

scab covered.... right right.

considering that she's the only girl i've slept with and that i'm the only guy she's slept with that makes tons of sense....

anyway about the pill, she was on it for a while and had to take a break for a couple of months because of some medication she's taking, and this happens to be in those break of months without the pill. so it's not like we've not done that.

Cindy is right. Get a test, although it sounds like that was her period. Play it safe, and if you've got a real pregnancy here... well, this is just my moral bitching, but please, please consider putting the kid up for adoption.

quote:Originally posted by Armed&Angry:

well, this is just my moral bitching, but please, please consider putting the kid up for adoption.

yeah there's no way an abortion would be an option if that's what your getting at.

I'm going tomorrow to walgreens and going to pick up a couple and pray for the best. Jesus i hope that it's not true.

we've been talking about it all night and i'm startin to get pretty nervous about everything.

i would DEFINATELY take a test on it. hm, in theory its possible, but ive never actually *heard* of this happening...

best of luck to you

ts

I honestly doubt she's pregnant.

Having had eating disorders and such, it sounds to me like she's just had a funky period.

yeah thats what i think to, or at least, hope. thanks ts, and i'll let you all know how it goes tomorrow.

im always afraid of my girlfriend being pregnant but im just paranoid but im also protective

though i think everything that can be said is already said......

i know how you feel.... it sucks.. i wish you luck

Some girls miss periods completely every so often, so the idea that one comes across exceptionally light is hardly a surprise. Get the pregnancy test if you're concerned enough, but I'd be shocked beyond words if she turned out to be pregnant from this.

---BIG UPDATE---

well the test is done. twice. and it was against my greatest fear, positive

she has all the classic symptoms: weight gain, vomiting, increased urination, sickness, and spotting.

although the spotting has been heavier than what it should be, its still a major sign.

She used two store-brand tests, i think EPT to be exact.

This weekend we're going to a doctor to make sure and get a test from a professional. I'm scared out of my mind.

telling my parents isn't going to be easy. jesus christ did i fuck up.

more updates to come... support would be nice right about now cauz i'm kinda not right after findin out...

You're fucked, kid.

All I can suggest is that you stay with the mother, because:

1.)Every kid needs a father, they've got little to no chance of being raised right without one

and

2.)Child support is killer, you'll pay less if you stay together with your girl.

Jesus, man. Jesus fucking Christ. I'd be at the bottom of a bottle right now.

All I can say is good luck man, and if you decide against keeping the kid, remember what I said about adoption. The kid deserves a chance.

Everything will work out. Like Kikey said, stay with her, stick by her side through everything. This doesn't have to be a bad consequence.

Keep your head up... I'll be loking for updates.

Alcatraz, remember when I called you a 'dumbass'? Yea. Now you know why.

quote:Originally posted by b33nz:

Alcatraz, remember when I called you a 'dumbass'? Yea. Now you know why.

alright it might be warrented, but thats the last thing i need to hear right now, cocksucker.

you made your point and i can't go back in time so how about you leave it as it was. that was completely unnecessary to go and say that shit again.

wow... that's unexpected. a word of advice, anymore, just pay for the pills, it's cheaper than a kid. good luck though, how old are you exactly?

quote:Originally posted by EyeSore:

good luck though, how old are you exactly?

thanks. i'm 18.

Hey man, i'm sorry to hear about you and your girl, but i know how you felt and now feel. My girl had some fucked up periods once whe started doing it, but she hasn't gotten pregnant. THANK YOU JESUS MY SAVIOR All i can say is congratulations and i know how you felt because i kept on thinking she was pregnant, but we turned out fine in the end. I'm not trying to make you feel like a jackass or anything, just telling you i got your back cuz i know how you feel. Just get a job and buy diapers and formula, and pray to God your baby is healthy and you and your girl will make it through this time.

Edit: Spelling

[This message has been edited by krayzie05 (edited 09-17-2003).]

Aw, Alc, sorry it turned out for the worst. You have some tough decisions ahead. Let me know if I can help. Good luck to you and your girl.

You better start seriously reevaluating just how you feel about this girl. Can you be happy with her through thick and thin for a seeming milennia? Can you work your ass off?

Do you have a good job, gonna give up college and put your dreams on hold for the kid? Do you know your girlfriend better then you know yourself? Does she feel identically like you do? You have to figure alot of shit out right now about your relationship. What doesnt end in breaking up and adoption today will end up in a broken family, divorce, and finding yourself on the bottom of a bottle figuring you wasted 20 years of your life later.... I feel sorry for you like i do all people honestly. This is just a sad story, but there really are too many...

quote:Originally posted by great glavin:

You better start seriously reevaluating just how you feel about this girl. Can you be happy with her through thick and thin for a seeming milennia? Can you work your ass off?

Do you have a good job, gonna give up college and put your dreams on hold for the kid? Do you know your girlfriend better then you know yourself? Does she feel identically like you do? You have to figure alot of shit out right now about your relationship. What doesnt end in breaking up and adoption today will end up in a broken family, divorce, and finding yourself on the bottom of a bottle figuring you wasted 20 years of your life later.... I feel sorry for you like i do all people honestly. This is just a sad story, but there really are too many...



wow... nothing like sugar coating it.

serously though, that is some good advice. you've got some serious decisions to make. adoption would be the obvious answer right now, but then again, when the time comes, it'll be hard to do. it's going to be tough to raise a kid at your age. it's possible, if you havew help from family and friends and whatnot, but unless you're ready to pretty much spend your entire life for this kid, and do your hardest to give him everything he could want, then give him up. there are millions of good people waiting in line for a child to become available for adoption. what could make your life hard and unhappy, could make someone else the happiest person in the world.

Yeah thanks cindy, means alot.

Thanks everyone else too, its really a rough situation right now and all the advice is great. thank you.

I indeed know i have a rough road ahead and have some very tough decisions in my near future. Damn didn't know how to feel, it was crazy and for a while i was still in denial. It really sank in this morning.

well i'm out, going out to breakfast with a friend. We're gonna talk about stuff. Thanks everyone, you've been great. I'll keep you up with new information as i get it....

quote:Originally posted by AlCaTrAz:

Thanks everyone, you've been great. I'll keep you up with new information as i get it....

Aww shucks, it was nothing.

Just remember that hitmen are for hire.

For The kid's sake, stay with the kid, or put him up for adoption. Abortion... Yick.

I don't like abortion. It's necessary for some, like hookers, but I'm going off topic. My best advice is: Flow as water flows, and you will be as uninjurable as water. Next time, I imagine keeping a mind open for both situations, positive and negative, is the best result.

Well I agree with some of the posts on here, stick with the kid man, I feel very strongly about this as I didnt no my dad for 7 years, and when I have a kid there is no way in hell I would accept an abortion or to do a runna like some people do.

To be honest this the only thing in life I would die for, as no understands what shit the kid has to through.

So if you want advice, you fucking try your fucking hardest to raise that kid, this should now be your main concern in your life, and please dont leave the kid I'm fucking feed up of people doing that I have seen it to many times.

And I'm going to fucking say it again, dont leave the kid, as it makes there life complicated from the word go.

--------------H U G E UPDATE!----

okay i know this is both bad news and good news but in a way its the best that could have happened. I'm sorry if that sounds cold, but i don't think that any good could have came out of this.

My girlfriend started bleeding unusually alot last night. well it never stopped bleeding and all today she was in very much pain and kept bleeding the whole day. She stayed home.

We found out that she misscarriaged, i don't know if you can call it that this early, but thats what happened. We found out its basically due to the lack of nutrients in her body because of her eating disorders, they just really messed everything up.

I'm releived in a big way, its a definite toll off our shoulders but its also very sad.

she especially has been very upset and feels like its her fault killing the baby. i've been there for her and comforting her, and now shes in a "i want to be alone" phase right now.

It's tough for her i understand. and i'll be by her side thru the thick and thin of it. Jus wanted to let everyone know that things turned out allright, although bittersweet.

thanks to everyone who helped thru this unusally short process, but i've learned major lessons and i can truely say its changed my life in a good way and i have a different outlook about alot of things now because of this.

thanks again to everyone, i'll still be around in the other threads and whatnot.

Good to hear that your situation turned out normal...

Look at it like a second chance...

Your girlfriend concieving the child so easily has in a way probaly shown you that life is easy to make...Take special care in the future...

Keep your protection on untill you WANT a child.

That's all i have to say...But you probaly already know that.

SH-out

you should be fine.. now me on the other had may have gotten a female pregnant.. and this is a crazy female.. i am sure.. soo.. my life is totally fucked... i hope she is lying.. be thankful your not in my positon..

Wow, all this shit in less than a month. You probably feel like a new person, I'd even bet your a lot maturer now. Just by reading your posts and the progression I sense that.

Good luck on everything. At least the baby was just barely a fetus and had probably 0 consciousness.

i second that. we learn through experience. good luck with your girlfriend and everything i hope she comes around soon.

Well, she just had a natural abortion. Good for you.

I was suspecting that she wouldn't carry the thing to term anyways because, as you said before, she has nutritionally deficient eating disorders.

If she has eating disorders, she isn't getting enough nutritional requirements for herself alone, much less another individual.

Well, things turned out for the best, you're lucky she's an anorexic/bulemic or whatever or you'd be +1 kid right now, and never ever let your cock go anywhere remotely around a vagina without a condom. Reguardless of whether she claims to be on the pill or not, you do not want your sperm in her cunt if you do not want a kid. You can never be too careful.

My jaw nearly hit my balls when you said the tests were positive. But, as they say..

Everything's gonna be alright (alright)

Everything's gonna be alright (alright)

Everything's gonna be alright now

Everything's gonna be alright (alright)