i'm 18 i'e been i'm love with the same girl since i was 12 she dos'tlove me shes never agreed to go out with me. im not fat or well ugly tho incase you thought so. its killing me i hate it and i love it. i can't get over her i havn't even spoken to her in like 6 months i hardly see her anymore. but i love her no less its ruining my life cause i can't have another girl what the fuck am i to do? and like i said before i CAN'T GET OVER HER

Move on you really have no other choice.....unless u kidnap her and move to a house in the middle of nowhere and make a lesh for her, so she can't get away. She'll have to love u then

just liek ask her and stuff, if she says no at least you can cry yourself to sleep with the safe knowledge you dont need to worry again

No matter how pretty this girl is, just remember there is always a prettier one out there. You have to get over it and try to find someone new. Even if you do go out with her (did you think that far?) you will be so whipped. You will listen to every single word she says because if you make one mistake....she's gone! So basically even if you would be going out with her, it would be unpleasant, because you would get no say in the relationship, other than opinions, which she would control, too. Think about it and move on, there's a hotter, smarter, better girl right around the corner.

Does she dislike you? Or just not like you. There is a difference. Not liking you means she doesn't have feelings for you, negative or positive. Disliking you means she has negative feelings towards you.

Do she go to your school? If so, just ask out to the movies one day. You have to start talking to her, at least become acquanitces. Then, tell her your feelings, and ask if she wants to go the movies with you, or even something simple like ice cream. If she doesn't like you, you must accept that before you do any of this, and keep that in your head.

Get over it, seriously. Look at the facts, she hasn't gone out with you for the 6 years you've liked her so odds are, she will never go out with you. I'm not trying to be mean, I've been in the situation before many times and each time I've had to get a grip on reality that the girl I have a crush on doesn't like me and I move on.

Ah, man, I feel your pain. Nothing you could do about it, nothing I could do about it, that's life. Find another girl and bounce back. It sucks now, but life will go on. Stay strong, and don't drown your sorrows in Seagrams dry gin or Windsor whiskey. I can tell you from personal experience, that doesn't help.

I don't think you're in love with her, you're just obsessed with her out of habit.

You're in lust, not love.



Shek

This should help. Repeatedly tell yourself that love is a meaningless illusion. Eventually you will believe it to be true and be fucked up like I am .

music is the only thing that kept me alive through my time. i still fell the same, ive been told to just"get over her" and all, but its easyer said than done, far fucking easyer. i found that 2 marilyn manson songs got me through ( i wasnt a fan of his befor or a goth or anything) just these 2 songs mean so mutch, just give it a try...

"in the shadow of the valley of death" and "the speed of pain" by marilyn manson.

still to this day i feel nothing more than pure love towards this girl as well, she hate me as i called her a bitch once, we were best freinds, thats how it developed..

ok enough bout me, just get those two songs or any songs that realy touch you.

i know it will be hard but find something that will take your mind of her, like a new G/f, get drunk, do other things *shifty eyes* just try not to think about her

hope this is of some help!!

G(6)

I hope U understands this...

but leave her, there are SO many beautiful women out there, just waiting for your dick in her pussy.. ;-)

I have had the same problem as U ahve .. but I said to my self " she´s not worth it"..