I'll try to make this as short as possible.

There's this girl named Natalie who lives across the hall from my friends dorm. Last week I went to a party with my friend and all the kids on his floor and thats when me and her started to talk to each other. After a few drinks and more hours of talking to her,I found out she's single, I became really attracted to her and wanted get to know her alot better.

But come to find out a few days later my friend really likes her and it seems like shes really into him......so what do I do? Help him get with her or go for it myself?

just ask your friend?

you and your friend flip a coin, that'd be the manly thing to do... Seriously,if your friend was talking to her first back off.

quote:Originally posted by smellyneohippy:

Seriously,if your friend was talking to her first back off.

Ditto.

I personally would let the girl in question decide...After all it's her decision who she will want out of you both...IF she wants either you that is!

But talk to your mate about it...Come to some agreement or something.

well afetr talkin to the both of them (separatly)i came down to her liking him....and so i went and got him and bugged the shit outta them to start dating(which was only took me a few minutes)....so in the end i helped him...and i never told her how i felt...i figure this is the way it was meant to be....

^

Sucks doesn't it? Sigh....

[This message has been edited by TIN the Kamio (edited 09-15-2003).]

move on its not fair to ur friend if move in and try to get her, u could ruin ur friendship

Gangbang that shit...tape it then post on the internet

p.s. sorry for not taking this post seriously

I did that once, what you said. I liked a girl, but she liked my buddy, so I played wingman for him. They hooked up, I found somebody else, and they're still together. Kinda satisfying, in an ironic way.

quote:Originally posted by onasis:

Gangbang that shit...tape it then post on the internet

p.s. sorry for not taking this post seriously

I agree, don't come back to totse witout da pr0n.

I've been in this situation plenty of times (and never won, fuck it). I'd go for her first. Just tell your friend that you hope there's no hard feelings about it. Take every opertunity you have. God, I'm only 14 and I'm tellin' this to a guy in colledge (or what ever). Take this advice, man. I've lost so many opertunities I could of had, so don't be like me.

I'd say help yourself, let your friend have her.