Ok i got major issues with women trust i am majorly mis understood i mean i am a sarcastic asshole but underneath it all i am a hopeless romantic so i guess thats the start to my problems.

I really really really have liked Kd for a long time and well she has a bf but claims to kinda like me now Kd is into s & m drugs, pain sex and all the stuff that a normal guy like me wouldnt be into but i dont know i just have a huge huge attraction to her i have felt this way until about a week ago when i met Km in my Sociology class.

I like Kd alot but i am starting to fall for Km i mean Km is normal really smart really hot and stuff but i dont know how to choose or what i am fucking crazy help out

The joy of crushes.

It seems so complicated, so simplify. You have three choices: Talk to one, talk to the other, or talk to neither. If you talk to neither, your problems are solved, because you won't get the girl. That's 100% guaranteed, so put your mind at rest.

If you decide to chat one up, base it on anything you want. I assume there are certain things you like, which will generally put one girl ahead of the other in situations like these. If not, though, use any criteria you want. The first one to wear pigtails to school gets your attention. The first to show her belly button. The first to use a word you don't know in conversation (presumably with someone else). Flip a fucking coin, it really doesn't matter.

quote:Originally posted by JulesW187:

Kd is into s & m ... pain sex

Does she like to top or submit? There is a difference between roll playing S&M and real S&M. I have a post on it in this (http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/004184.html) thread if you want to konw more. You need to find out how far she is into S&M and if you can handle it. Don't get involved if it is not for you, even if things do not work out with the other girl. Think of it like taking drugs. If you can handle it because that is what you want, fine. But don't do it for someone else. If it is just a little rollplaying, that is different, but don't go hardcore for someone else.

-Easy

It's roleplaying, not rollplaying. I try not to be a spelling nazi, but that makes me twitch worse than "masterbation". I end up imagining two people having sex, then tumbling down a hill.

lol!