Is it wierd to want someone, but when they want you back, their not as interesting as they used to be? Or, in other words: You like the chase, but you don't like the catch (or something like that...)

This happens a lot actually. I'll become close with girls, but when they start showing equal amounts of affection, it gets kind of boring.

[This message has been edited by GoNads (edited 09-13-2003).]

Nah, I get the same thing.

And you wonder why chicks act the way we do.

Hmm yeah I'll lust after a chick for ages, then suddenly I find out she likes me too and my feelings just kinda go.. meh...

Bah, your all dumb, find a hot girl that is almost always staring at you in class. Then start to show interest, not a lot, just enough to get her attention. Then start to show more and more as she does, this way your both on the same sheet of music.

Note: this is just theory, I'm trying it right now. It seems to be working really well.

quote:Originally posted by GoNads:

Is it wierd to want someone, but when they want you back, their not as interesting as they used to be? Or, in other words: You like the chase, but you don't like the catch (or something like that...)

sounds very familiar.

This is where the concept of "Playing hard to get" comes from.

Sometimes, it's the chase that's interesting, not the target. Happens to everyone.

Guys... it happens to us girls too, that use to always happen to me.

I'd find a guy to be attractive... well not attractive as a whole, maybe something about him, like his eyes, smile, whatever, but when he shows me the same vibes, ii'd jus like not really be interested anymore, one of the reasons why i never really had long terms relationships, untill now.I am completely attracted to my partner, physically and mentally........

Yeah...That's normal.

The heart wants what it can't have.

when it can have it, it becomes less interesting.

Normal human nature my friend!